To the brain dead single males-please read profiles before contacting or sending friend request-that's all we got for now- Carry on
Take it as a compliment for the Mrs... you do have SM checked Y but you do say no SM FR's so this proves some single guys dont read.
Ya got a point 
Its my experience most of the SM on here are just thinking with the wrong head so reading is a skill level thats just over there heads.
Now Now Now . . . let's please don't go down the easy path and let's start dogging the SM's ! ! I can say the same for SF's and Couples that don't read profiles as well ! Believe me, it's happened to me as well, as I'm thinking, WTF can't you read my profile ?
Well spoken Delicious..lol
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:SMILEYMAN4U wrote:So you are saying that couples can be look like a great peach (profile picture of her) on the surface, but on close examination you have to deal with a nasty worm (him)?
Now Now Now . . . let's please don't go down the easy path and let's start dogging the SM's ! ! I can say the same for SF's and Couples that don't read profiles as well ! Believe me, it's happened to me as well, as I'm thinking, WTF can't you read my profile ?
Wow, all of this talk about fruit has made me hungry.
Wish the site was more iPhone friendly too
You know whats funny? I get more emails from couples who clearly have not read my profile. The emails are full of "you and your wife" types of comments(indicating a canned email not specific for me), or "Lets screw, we don't even have to exchange names". Huh? OBVIOUSLY you did not read my profile...... Most of the single male's that I have heard from have been polite and make mention of something I have said in my profile....telling me they at least skimmed through it.
CHELLE wrote:
You know whats funny? I get more emails from couples who clearly have not read my profile. The emails are full of "you and your wife" types of comments(indicating a canned email not specific for me), or "Lets screw, we don't even have to exchange names". Huh? OBVIOUSLY you did not read my profile...... Most of the single male's that I have heard from have been polite and make mention of something I have said in my profile....telling me they at least skimmed through it.
I have noticed this to Chelle.
PARTNERZNCRIME wrote:Or at least iBone friendly. LOL
Wish the site was more iPhone friendly too
Onions have layers. But everyone likes a parfait.
Hmmm....seems that one of the couples in this thread is as "brain dead" as those single males they seem to like to rip on. My profile clearly says no unsolicited friend requests and yet they decided to send one anyway. They actually sent it today...the same day as their post. Seems brain deadness (is that a word?) doesn't discriminate
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.My experience so far is that many of the "single" males are just cheating on the missus and looking for someone to bang on the side. I don't think they understand about the lifestyle and choices and full disclosure, because the pillow talk seems to invariably head towards how they aren't getting any at home and what a cold fish their wife is (not exactly conducive to *ever* getting a second go with me, and also makes me regret allowing the first go). So... is there a process for flagging a profile for others to indicate true status? like a Liar Liar Pants on Fire button ;-) I have also met a few really wonderful single guys and some sweet married guys who introduced me to their wives and made a point of getting permission...
Yeah Silke...couldn't agree more...we have had several contact us before with the same story...usually from people who are traveling into the area...and you are right,they just don't get the whole lifestyle thing...flagging would be nice or the ability to leave comments on their profile
Yeah...like posting pics that are 5 years old...maybe they were fit then but not now...lol...I'm not sure why people choose to meet when they clearly know they look nothing like their pics...it can be a waste of time...that's why we always choose to meet for coffee or something simple...that way you don't have to suffer through a dinner with people who you really aren't attracted to..that can be the tough thing about meeting couples...sometimes it's hard to please everybody and neither of us take it for the team, so to speak
There are an awful lot of people in the lifestyle with different ideas of what it should be. So it is easy to say that we understand the lifestyle but they do not. I believe that life is simply what you can make of it and clearly some make it different. In a so called perfect world we would all have just the right amount of everything including exercise and sex. But last time I bothered to look this world was not perfect. And if it was, I could not live in it.
When people don
When people don
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:SMILEYMAN4U wrote:
Now Now Now . . . let's please don't go down the easy path and let's start dogging the SM's ! ! I can say the same for SF's and Couples that don't read profiles as well ! Believe me, it's happened to me as well, as I'm thinking, WTF can't you read my profile ?
So you are saying that couples can be look like a great peach (profile picture of her) on the surface, but on close examination you have to deal with a nasty worm (him)?
LOL ~ I don't believe that's what this OP was about !
What are these single males everyone is always talking about? They sound delicious? Do you have to boil them before you put them in the pie or are they good raw? And am I the only one who thinks parfait is like a really gay sounding word?
TOUGIRL wrote:
Hmmm....seems that one of the couples in this thread is as "brain dead" as those single males they seem to like to rip on. My profile clearly says no unsolicited friend requests and yet they decided to send one anyway. They actually sent it today...the same day as their post. Seems brain deadness (is that a word?) doesn't discriminate
exactly what I'm talking about !
Oh goodie - a fresh topic.
As I single male I think it is very inconsiderate to not read the profile. If it states clearly in the profile that the individual or couple is not interested in SM's then the SM's should honor that. I also think it is inconsiderate to as a couple not interested in SM's to not state it or just Block SM's. Its hard enough being a decent SM in the lifestyle and having to deal with the assholes and creeps that give us all such a bad name. For those couples that have not had a decent SM to have some fun with. Dont let the creeps turn you off, There are those of us out there that are decent. Give us a try.
We agree with the last post. There are a lot of single males that are jerks, but we have also met quite a few that are truly nice guys.
I like to set up the wife with S M's once in a while, and its good to know there are some good ones out there. Yes we can be picky, but its good to see single guys at the M n G"s and get to know them.
For all you single guys out there, just remember that respect goes a long eay. We have our favorites, but always looking to meet more.
I like to set up the wife with S M's once in a while, and its good to know there are some good ones out there. Yes we can be picky, but its good to see single guys at the M n G"s and get to know them.
For all you single guys out there, just remember that respect goes a long eay. We have our favorites, but always looking to meet more.
Waffles is kind of a gay word too.
Here's a radical concept. Instead of rehashing the same old bitches and gripes, focusing on realities that are never likely to change how about directing all this energy towards something fun and sexy? If you don't like something you watch on TV do you keep watching it or do you ignore it and change the channel? Why is this worth focusing so much negative energy on over and over?
EVILDOERS wrote:
Waffles is kind of a gay word too.
Not if you top them with saurkraut and horseradish.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:SHRED wrote:
You know...for a site that everyone is obviously here for the same thing (sex with others) it seams that most people do everything to avoid it. Also single male bashing was so last year.
We have looked at "couple" profiles on this site that the people keep saying.."no single males" "no-smoking" "no 420" "fit people only" "guys must be hung or 12+ inches" "must show up to fuck with proof of std test passed" "we can not host" "must be clean shaven" "can only meet the 3rd thursday afternoon of every other month"
Admit it people you have all seen these profiles...and the people that have these profiles usually have ONE picture of some chick other than the female half.
We have found that every now and again you find a profile (that the people will respond to an email), be clean, decent looking that want to meet up for a couple drinks and get naked! But wait....oh yeah...How dare anyone say...wow! nice ass! I wanna FUCK IT!
Its hard to believe the people on this site!
Peace and Love to you all!
P.S. Please excuse and and all grammer errors....
So you are saying people join the site and establish a profile and then rotate their profile preferences back and forth in a gesture of vacillation as if they say they want to fuck but it is so conditional that in seems like in truth they really don't?
They waffle back and forth.
Sweet more waffles!
I'm guilty.. I have not read profiles all the time prior to asking for friends or writting them. Sorry if I offended anyone.
T4REAL69 wrote:
Ah...just wouldn't be a week in Swingular Land without having at least one lets bash the hell out of single males post. Nice to see some things just never change!
Yes,I especially love that it was started by a person who put 'yes' to the single males question, so when you hover over their profile it says 'seeking SM'
You know, if you'd answered 'no' to that, I bet a lot of this would just go away.Including the drama?
Are you daft, man?
Are you daft, man?
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
Including the drama?
Are you daft, man?
Sorry, let me clarify, when I said 'this' I was referring specifically to the amount of emails the OP was getting from Single Males. By a lot, I don't even mean most, I just mean what, half? 15%?
I in no way meant to infer that any of the drama would go away. That will still be around to entertain you and keep you warm at night.