I have this fantasy of watching my wife get royally fucked, see her brought to screaming orgasms multiple times, maybe even with multiple partners. She on the other hand feels that she would be jealous watching me be with someone else, so we haven't really done it. What we have done so far has been using hall passes. What are your thoughts on this? I am curious on the female, and male perspective on actually being there and seeing your loved one be pleasured. Comments, tips, ideas welcome
I've enjoyed both. seeing her. helping as in a mfm. But also just hearing the details of a encounter she had. All depends on what your and your wife's comfort level is. If she feels she couldn't handle it.. I personally wouldn't push the issue. Someday she may be ready for it. Till then. you'd be asking for trouble.
I love sitting back and watching. Its like my own private porno.
This post isn't meant to offend... But here it is.
I think its hot to see the wife get fucked, but on the other hand I will not have her watch me!
(reason) ...... Men can shut up and let someone else drive, infact... For us sometimes its just plain relaxation.
Women..... ARE BACK SEAT DRIVERS! I DONT NEED THAT SHIT IN THE BEDROOM ALSO.
LMAO
I think its hot to see the wife get fucked, but on the other hand I will not have her watch me!
(reason) ...... Men can shut up and let someone else drive, infact... For us sometimes its just plain relaxation.
Women..... ARE BACK SEAT DRIVERS! I DONT NEED THAT SHIT IN THE BEDROOM ALSO.
LMAO
SMARTEEPANTS75 wrote:
I love sitting back and watching. Its like my own private porno.
I can't agree more!
Kim loves to take on 2 men in an MFM.....and it is so hot....
JANDA14 wrote:Now that shit's funny! Not to mention we never ask for directions, and always signal before changing lanes! OOPS! I just rear-ended someone! Stupid texting! LMAO
This post isn't meant to offend... But here it is.
I think its hot to see the wife get fucked, but on the other hand I will not have her watch me!
(reason) ...... Men can shut up and let someone else drive, infact... For us sometimes its just plain relaxation.
Women..... ARE BACK SEAT DRIVERS! I DONT NEED THAT SHIT IN THE BEDROOM ALSO.
LMAO
~ROCK~
I like to watch Annette fuck, she insists after a while I join in. I don't need alot of encouragement to do so. Annette in turn likes to watch me. We are lucky we don't have that issue. We are relaxed and kinda free spirited. Sooo we got that working for us
We both get very turned on watching each other. If it is a full swap with another couple we like to look over from time to time and watch. If it is the wife with 1 or 2 or more guys I get turned on like crazy. If it is I with 1 or 2 or more women then the wife loves to watch, and she gets very turned on. (and yes she once for my birthday lined up 7 women just for me)
We both love to watch each other play. To be honest it was kind of strange to watch the wife get fucked the first time, but very hot and exciting.
We love to watch each other. I really like watching her perform and work her magic. I'll sit back and watch her and join in when she is ready for more. She likes watching me even though I haven't had that many encounters.
Love love love just watching her! Also love To hear the details of her on her own.. It makes for great sex!
I as the female half think it is HOT HOT HOT to watch him with another female... because i know how he rock's my world and i know what he is doing to her... and on the other hand he like's to see me with another guy.. he say's it turns him on.. but you have to do what is best for you two and what make's you to happy...
I say it turns me OFF!!!! We do seperate rooms only!!!
It is very HOT!!! I love to watch him with another female and then when we get home I remind him why he likes to fuck me over anyone else..
It's that type of connection between two people that at least for us makes watching so HOT!!!
It's that type of connection between two people that at least for us makes watching so HOT!!!
25 plus years into this lifestyle,, I love to watch her,, with one,, two or more,,,,,on the other hand,, she can barely tolerate watching me when playing with another couple,, not likely to happen her just watching me with another lady,, and not likely to change either
would love to see that..its been too long since we played...
It's hot watching and being watched by your partner! Isn't that why we are here?
It is wonderfull, weather it is with another couple or having a MFM where the view and feeling of two men enjoying one lady and her just letting go in the most intense orgasm ever in her life. The first times are so wonderfull, first time taking another man in her mouth right next to you is unbeliveably hot, watching her with another sexxxy lady is even hotter. Ready for the next time and some more Firsts.
Remembering there is a large difference between love and sex is the main issue.
I'm not sure the exact point it happened. We had played around and swapped once or twice, and I recall I wanted to see how far she would go. So, one night at Plato's in Fort Lauderdale, I suggested she might enjoy multiple guys and that was all it took. She went into one of the private rooms with 3 guys and layed propped against the wall and started sucking the 3 of them. Then she told me to let a anyone in who wanted to play. While she kept sucking the 3 guys, I opened to door and the guys lined up and started fucking her. One at a time about 30 or 40 guys went inside her and shot their load. It was such a turn-on I came 3 times. She took on every guy who wanted to cum in her pussy for two hours. THEN SHE TOOK A BREAK FOR SOME WATER, AND STARTED TAKING ANYONE AGAIN FOR ANOTHER HOUR. She told me the next day the in high school she used to go out with 2 guys at a time and really liked it. In future years she did this 3 or 4 times, once at Fantasy Fest I was able to get video, at plato's pictures weren't possible.
He, like many others loves to see, hear, think of another man being with me. I am totally turned on by bedroom talk and the idea of him with another women, however, both of us have found that the actual act of him with someone else is different than the thought. So far we work well with girl/girl, tonz of flirting, and play, but we prefer to be together or enjoy singles much more. We have never tried different rooms.
Regardless of where you are at, its ok, just be honest. If you are not ok then nether are your partners.
Its been 11 years for us and the ideal night for us is a sexy flirty playful evening with another couple where it is an option, but not required. I guess we are still hard core soft swap, FFM or MFM. With the right couple in the right situation who knows
xoxo
Regardless of where you are at, its ok, just be honest. If you are not ok then nether are your partners.
Its been 11 years for us and the ideal night for us is a sexy flirty playful evening with another couple where it is an option, but not required. I guess we are still hard core soft swap, FFM or MFM. With the right couple in the right situation who knows
xoxo
We also prefer to be together and watch one another be pleasured. As he says,... it's not the the kill. it's the thrill of the chase,... and to that end it's more about watching one another get pleasured with or without help from your partner and watching the other, new partners get blown away by the sex they are encountering for the first time. There is nothing like the little look we share when a new partner who came in to this night with all the confidence in the world, moans out an uncontrollable, guttural sound from toe curling, scintillating sex and our new couple is writhing in ecstasy on either side of the room gasping for breath, long before we are finished with them,.... muahhh! Then after its all said and done we can share each other again with thoughts of our new friends and pleasures dancing in our heads.
OK,... I'll shut up now
OK,... I'll shut up now
We play in the same room, and both enjoy seeing each other with another partner. She enjoys a woman once in a while, but prefers a man. He ejoys watching her with either and joins in when he can. She joins in too whan she can. We talk about seeing each other with another man/woman and we are both turned on by it. We have separated sex from love. Swinging is pure sex.
i have watched my wife suck off another man and found that i had no jealousy issues as she has watched me receive from other women with no issues i to share in with your fantasy but she keeps telling me that she thinks she is to fat to do that but really she is not and i keep telling her that
We love seeing each other fuck. my gf is actually really in watching she loves it
Been there done that...Rather hop in there too, instead of just watching.
We love to see each other fuck other people. Its a real turn on for both of is. Spending the night with someone else is great too. Especially when we get home, talk about it, then fuck like rabbits.
The key is to be secure in your relationship. There might be some jealousy in the beginning but it gets easier over time. We're both looking forward to a lot more fun.
The key is to be secure in your relationship. There might be some jealousy in the beginning but it gets easier over time. We're both looking forward to a lot more fun.
Love it, we both do. Sometimes we actually both just move out of a pile to just watch each other.
NOTHING is hotter to me then watching my wife with another guy or 2. I love to jump in at some point or enjoy her after!
For me, I don't just suddenly turn off the "jealousy button" when watching my husband or other partners get it good... I embrace it, discuss it. Use it to find what I like about myself. Women are very good at comparing themselves to others, usually with the negative self-esteem reaction of "If he wants her, then I must not be built right for him".... And yes, some men do the same. That's part of the main reason that I notice that swinger couples are generally 10+ years married before they start exploring -- they build up trust in themselves and each other before finding the confidence to say they are curious. Nothing wrong with that at all.
My husband doesn't play anymore -- and that's allowed too. He still gets to know as much or as little (including photos) as he wants. I have several times been able to teach him a trick learned from different partners that enhanced our own lovemaking.
My husband doesn't play anymore -- and that's allowed too. He still gets to know as much or as little (including photos) as he wants. I have several times been able to teach him a trick learned from different partners that enhanced our own lovemaking.
Male of the couple here...
My favorite aspect of the lifestyle is watching my wife with other people. Don't get me wrong, I love spending quality time with all sorts of women; but watching with other men (and of course women) with my wife is pretty much my favorite. This is why we have a zillion pictures of her playing and about nine of me (that and she's much cuter!)
My favorite aspect of the lifestyle is watching my wife with other people. Don't get me wrong, I love spending quality time with all sorts of women; but watching with other men (and of course women) with my wife is pretty much my favorite. This is why we have a zillion pictures of her playing and about nine of me (that and she's much cuter!)
SEXUALPLEASURES wrote:
It is very HOT!!! I love to watch him with another female and then when we get home I remind him why he likes to fuck me over anyone else..
It's that type of connection between two people that at least for us makes watching so HOT!!!
Hell yea we are right there with you. When we get home it is on on on for a while.
Fighting, Fucking, and Jealousy are all closely related in the mind. As I was told when I was younger "Any girl that will stab you will be a hell of a ride in bed". Of course the senior NCO that told me that was married to a very hot PR girl that had actually succeeded in stabbing him once.
For us, sex (with each other) after you have been hyper excited from watching your spouse with someone else is awesome. After swinging for more than ten years it is obvious that couples need to deal with this jealousy, either they become excited by it or angry, we avoid those that become angry and try to stay close to those who get hornier after watching their partner get laid.
Bob
For us, sex (with each other) after you have been hyper excited from watching your spouse with someone else is awesome. After swinging for more than ten years it is obvious that couples need to deal with this jealousy, either they become excited by it or angry, we avoid those that become angry and try to stay close to those who get hornier after watching their partner get laid.
Bob
The first mfm we had I could hardly control myself, watching my beautiful wife suck his cock, watching his balls slap her chin as she took all nine inches of his meat really turned me on. I wanted to just sit back and wath but she insisted I stay involved, security for her. When her did finally penetrate deep in her I sat there and held her pussy lips wide and watched her orgasm over and over. And the feeling of sliding deep in her after she has been well used was amazing. I cannot wait to do it again. She now wants to try a ffm but I am happy with the mfm for now..
This topic really hits home with me as well so I'll get perhaps my first real reply. My wife and I have an issue where she doesn't seem to HAVE A jealousy point, or at least we haven't hit it. I on the other hand do. I don't like the concept of her with another guy, but I don't mind girls. I think it goes back to the whole thing Virani said, however I'm sure in some way seeing her with another guy makes me feel like I'm not the right one for her. That being said, I don't venture out on my own either because of my feelings. After all, I feel there should be a balance. We've tried to play with another couple and it just did not work well, from the type of people they were all the way down to seeing her with another man. It made me sick.
I've told her it's just a matter of slowing down, because much like another person has suggested. The arousal is there for me regarding her being with other men, I'm just not accepting of more than a fantasy yet. I don't know, we talk but at the end of the day I still feel guilty.
I've told her it's just a matter of slowing down, because much like another person has suggested. The arousal is there for me regarding her being with other men, I'm just not accepting of more than a fantasy yet. I don't know, we talk but at the end of the day I still feel guilty.
Just give it time.
DGSG64504 wrote:
This topic really hits home with me as well so I'll get perhaps my first real reply. My wife and I have an issue where she doesn't seem to HAVE A jealousy point, or at least we haven't hit it. I on the other hand do. I don't like the concept of her with another guy, but I don't mind girls. I think it goes back to the whole thing Virani said, however I'm sure in some way seeing her with another guy makes me feel like I'm not the right one for her. That being said, I don't venture out on my own either because of my feelings. After all, I feel there should be a balance. We've tried to play with another couple and it just did not work well, from the type of people they were all the way down to seeing her with another man. It made me sick.
I've told her it's just a matter of slowing down, because much like another person has suggested. The arousal is there for me regarding her being with other men, I'm just not accepting of more than a fantasy yet. I don't know, we talk but at the end of the day I still feel guilty.
I swing as a single because my hubby cannot handle seeing or participating in group events, but gets off on my stores of same.... He's not quite cuckold, as I don't force it... but he is content to care for my stretched and sore body after I return from an event of orgasmic proportions.
I do often, still.. offer him the opportunity to participate... I don't want to be selfish about the freedom he allows me
He once tried to swing with me and experienced the only ED moment of his life.... didn't like it, and does not wish to repeat it.
I do often, still.. offer him the opportunity to participate... I don't want to be selfish about the freedom he allows me
He once tried to swing with me and experienced the only ED moment of his life.... didn't like it, and does not wish to repeat it.
VAMPNTRAMP wrote:
Vamp:I really love watching my husband fuck another woman. He always offers to have me join, but there are times that I am so turned on by watching that I don't want to disturb the moment. Tramp had told me once how satisfying it was for him just to sit back and watch me get fucked and enjoy myself. I had thought he was just feeding me a line. Then one day I was watching him and had that "Ah ha" moment. He was speaking the truth. We can be sexually gratified just watching our mate fuck someone else--knowing that they can have that whenever they want. I know what he is doing to her. It is like watching a masterpiece being made.
Tramp: When we first started swinging, we would meet a man that Vamp was attracted to and follow him back to his place for a threesome. I found that I loved watching Vamp get fucked more than I liked participating. I would sit back and watch her take the gentleman's cock and have her way with it. I loved listening to her moan and scream with each orgasm. To make it even better, she would shoot me the sexiest, dirtiest gaze while getting the hell fucked out of her. There was one time that I refer to as the "evening with pie" when we went to a gentleman's house just so that I could watch her get fucked. I sat back and enjoyed a nice slice of keylime pie while Vamp and the other guy fucked like mad on the floor. My favorite part of the night was when they were fucking doggie style, and Vamp's hair hung wildly in front of her. She had to pull her hair back to stare at me while she took that huge cock. Nothing better than dinner and a show!
We are much like the two of you. She loves to watch me with another woman. It is an incredible turn on for her, watching my cock slide in and out of another woman's pussy. I love having sex with a woman and watching her being fucked hard by another guy. It's like my own live porn show with her as the star. When we are finished with the other couple, we always get together and fuck like it's the first time, while telling each other how much we enjoyed watching the other one fuck someone else. No jealousy, just pure sexual pleasure.
I love to watch my wife get ucked and she really wants to see me get fucked as well!
Was watching the wife last night
And her watching me
I love watching my wife pleasure another man. She's a lot of fun to have sex with and really enjoys every minute of it and it's obvious. I think she enjoys watching me have sex with another woman even more. I'm a quiet lover, but I enjoy giving a woman pleasure and she likes to watch the other woman receive it. I think SEXUALPLEASURES is right though; afterward when we're alone we demonstrate to each other the special fit and connection we have. It's that connection of mind, body, and spirit that makes it so HOT to watch each other with others.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Mr. Sexperimentors
OK. After all is said and done which is better watching the face of your wife as she gets pounded by another guy or watching the "act" up close and personal? I am quite sure that both would be memorable and the thought of seeing face as another guy takes her would only be upstaged by seeing act itself as he enters her again and again. Well anyway it would be nice to get other peoples thoughts on this one.
We are very guilt of this. In fact just this last Saturday Night. It is so hot to watch your spouse royally fuck someone else. It is the best. I love watching her eyes as some sexy dude enters her. the fact that she squirts as he is fucking her is a massive turn on also. Maybe my favorite is seeing her cum and making other cum multiple times.
She likes being in the bed with me and another woman or couple and hearing the female groening while I am #ucking her. This really turns her on , she says" I get so wet because I know what she is feeling when you are #ucking her". She also states" that when I like to get her man off and make him wanting me more than before". NAughty little wife I must say.
No, I got it. My favorite is fucking my wife before, during and after, yup, thats the ticket...
She likes being in the bed with me and another woman or couple and hearing the female groening while I am #ucking her. This really turns her on , she says" I get so wet because I know what she is feeling when you are #ucking her". She also states" that when I like to get her man off and make him wanting me more than before". NAughty little wife I must say.
No, I got it. My favorite is fucking my wife before, during and after, yup, thats the ticket...
Well when you put it like that Calypso1..................
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Aughghhhahaahahahhaahohohhoooohhhhhhhh!!!!!YES!YES!YES!
It's a personal preference, and if she says "No" it doesn't mean it's up to you to convince her, it means she has drawn a boundary and that needs to be respected. If she prefers you have a hall pass and she not have to watch, that's what works for her. Keep in mind this is all stuff you should discuss and agree to prior to hosting or going to a party or making plans with another couple. I hope you find what works for you both as a couple, and what turms you both on and makes your relationship spicy without being stressful 
(M) It's hot, I know her better than anyone and can tell if she is headed for the big 0 or wishing she was watching the history channel with me, going to get killed for this one I think.
Some fantasy's are best to stay that way!!!
If u really need to see her getting fucked how about setting up a video camera (with everyone's permission) then u and her can watch it later.
I don't know why u need her to see u fuck someone else.
Her saying she'll be jealous seeing u with another girl is kind of Hipacritical being
ur using hall passes anyway.
If u really need to see her getting fucked how about setting up a video camera (with everyone's permission) then u and her can watch it later.
I don't know why u need her to see u fuck someone else.
Her saying she'll be jealous seeing u with another girl is kind of Hipacritical being
ur using hall passes anyway.
MASSMN wrote:
Some fantasy's are best to stay that way!!!
If u really need to see her getting fucked how about setting up a video camera (with everyone's permission) then u and her can watch it later.
I don't know why u need her to see u fuck someone else.
Her saying she'll be jealous seeing u with another girl is kind of Hipacritical being
ur using hall passes anyway.
Hmmm, I would expect that kind of comment from someone that hasn't experienced anything similar. I like to watch the wife have fun, and vice versa. The fun thing about it is, we all have the same parts, but reactions can be very different. We love trying different things with people.
MASSMN wrote:
Some fantasy's are best to stay that way!!!
If u really need to see her getting fucked how about setting up a video camera (with everyone's permission) then u and her can watch it later.
I don't know why u need her to see u fuck someone else.
Her saying she'll be jealous seeing u with another girl is kind of Hipacritical being
ur using hall passes anyway.
(M) Fulfilling fantasy's is why I am here, if they are unappropriate and shouldn't be filled then it would be time to see a shrink.
Would you prefer to watch porn on video or see the real thing? And I don't know any married male that needs or requires his wife to watch, that is her choice. As for a hall pass some do prefer not to watch the partner having sex, that is the way they choose to enjoy the lifestyle and not something you need to judge. We all get our kicks in different ways, if no one is harmed or humiliated what more could you ask.
Coming from somebody that has been married and devoted to the same woman for over 20 years............I could not give a rats ass about the judgmental opinion of a single man.
CALYPSO1 wrote:
We are very guilt of this. In fact just this last Saturday Night. It is so hot to watch your spouse royally fuck someone else. It is the best. I love watching her eyes as some sexy dude enters her. the fact that she squirts as he is fucking her is a massive turn on also. Maybe my favorite is seeing her cum and making other cum multiple times. She likes being in the bed with me and another woman or couple and hearing the female groening while I am #ucking her. This really turns her on , she says" I get so wet because I know what she is feeling when you are #ucking her". She also states" that when I like to get her man off and make him wanting me more than before". NAughty little wife I must say. No, I got it. My favorite is fucking my wife before, during and after, yup, thats the ticket...
Our feelings on the matter mirror CALYPSO1's. For the exact same reasons. The looks, the squirting, etc. All MASSIVE turn ons for the both of us!
I think there needs to be lots of communication between two people and if she is not comfortable then the answer is no. I was in the lifestyle with an ex, he was the same, wanted to watch me get fucked but I had a hard time in the beginning watching him because of him stepping out on me. Obviously I got over because he is gone, now I play alone.. or at least would like to play more alone.. lol
she love fucking other guys in front of me and i love to watch
depends on the mood and setting for me, most times I love him to watch but on rare occasions it felt uncomfortable so I asked him to leave.