I really get annoyed with people. I realize that I am probably the one who is different and weird, but they just infuriate me to no end.
So I was walking back from lunch, and I see this big woman jogging. She isn't like morbidly obese or gross looking, just on the thick side (a tad chunky) but still very pretty. Her face is red, she's really out of breath, and I thought it was cool that she had enough confidence to don some shorts and run on her lunch break in the middle of downtown where everyone could see. It made me feel good to know that there are people in this world that still believe that attempting to improve themselves is worth it in the end. I have been there.
Then I see these other two girls, you know the type, really snobby, sickly thin. They see this larger woman jogging and in front of her face start snickering and covering their mouths so that everyone knows they are snickering and whispering to each other. The big girl sees it obviously, but pretends not to notice.
I get up near them and can hear them laughing and talking, "did you see her jiggling? BUM BUM BUM BUM! hahaha!". My mouth kind of just lost control of itself at this point. "It must be hard for you" I said. She looked at me with that snobby sneer that says "who are you to talk to me" and said "what do you mean by that?" "To know that the bigger woman who just ran by probably weighs twice as much as you do and is still more attractive than you. Sure you are small and skinny and have pretty hair, but I'm fairly sure if you starve a pig and put a wig on it I still wouldn't want to f&%# it" Then I smiled really big at them and walked off.
I don't feel bad about it either. I hope I ruined their day.
So I was walking back from lunch, and I see this big woman jogging. She isn't like morbidly obese or gross looking, just on the thick side (a tad chunky) but still very pretty. Her face is red, she's really out of breath, and I thought it was cool that she had enough confidence to don some shorts and run on her lunch break in the middle of downtown where everyone could see. It made me feel good to know that there are people in this world that still believe that attempting to improve themselves is worth it in the end. I have been there.
Then I see these other two girls, you know the type, really snobby, sickly thin. They see this larger woman jogging and in front of her face start snickering and covering their mouths so that everyone knows they are snickering and whispering to each other. The big girl sees it obviously, but pretends not to notice.
I get up near them and can hear them laughing and talking, "did you see her jiggling? BUM BUM BUM BUM! hahaha!". My mouth kind of just lost control of itself at this point. "It must be hard for you" I said. She looked at me with that snobby sneer that says "who are you to talk to me" and said "what do you mean by that?" "To know that the bigger woman who just ran by probably weighs twice as much as you do and is still more attractive than you. Sure you are small and skinny and have pretty hair, but I'm fairly sure if you starve a pig and put a wig on it I still wouldn't want to f&%# it" Then I smiled really big at them and walked off.
I don't feel bad about it either. I hope I ruined their day.
extremely shallow people think that if their looks are getting them somewhere now tha
Thats Awesome.. You did great I wish there are more people like you. Have a great night
(M) OMFG, I learned a long time ago if you judge someone by there size you may miss out on a chance to have a great friend. And sex with them is not bad either, some cushion feels pretty damn nice.
Some of us like big girls.
AWESOMELY EPIC! =D
I have never been heavy, but I have had three children and I can tell you that as you age and with the constant demands of life it is easy to loose the focus on yourself at times. In the last few years I have had to work harder to maintain a constant physical appearance that was cake in my 20's.
Someone who appears gorgeous can become ugly upon opening their mouth, and likewise someone who is average can become breathtaking. Very impressive, there are not a lot of people who would have said anything, so good for you. It is great to see people who care about their health and make an attempt physically. However, rude, small people such as these girls can not simply run off their ugliness.
The main thing, in my opinion, is to be nice..... There are a lot of reasons not to be attracted to another; or for that matter even like another, but there is no reason to be a jerk.
Someone who appears gorgeous can become ugly upon opening their mouth, and likewise someone who is average can become breathtaking. Very impressive, there are not a lot of people who would have said anything, so good for you. It is great to see people who care about their health and make an attempt physically. However, rude, small people such as these girls can not simply run off their ugliness.
The main thing, in my opinion, is to be nice..... There are a lot of reasons not to be attracted to another; or for that matter even like another, but there is no reason to be a jerk.
You deserve a big applause!.....I clapped anyway 
Way to stand up for someone. I wish more people would
Way to stand up for someone. I wish more people wouldLike we have said in the past, its not about age or body type. Personality is what counts.
(Male half) It is awesome to know that there are still people out there that will stand up for what they believe in and shut some little bitch down. lol Good for you and I also hope that you ruined their day. Beauty is much more than skin deep and I agree with other posts above saying that a little cushion is nice. I have only ever had sex with one very skinny girl and my pubic area was sore from hitting her bones, so 3 cheers for bigger females! Plus skinny chics very very rarely have large boobs...
That was very rude of them. But so was your response and then all of the folks commenting about the benefits or not of one body type or the other...This is a very large and relatively recent issue in America and the World and we need to work together or our health care system is going to be overwhelmed. That is a fact!
I sure hope you did ruined their day. I believe that if we have idiotic opinions about others the least we can do is to keep them to ourselves in order to be civil and respectful to others even if we don't respect ourselves by thinking that way.
Well Said INSTANTFUN.
MAYBEMOR wrote:
That was very rude of them. But so was your response and then all of the folks commenting about the benefits or not of one body type or the other...This is a very large and relatively recent issue in America and the World and we need to work together or our health care system is going to be overwhelmed. That is a fact!
lol, if that's your attitude Maybemor, consider that strike 7 against you. Their point was that the lady was working on being more healthy, and slender people were laughing at her for trying. Believe it or not, the fear of being made fun of while exercising can be a serious obstacle to one's trying to become healthy.
Kudos Instantfun! Cruelty and abuse should never be tolerated!
To the Nah sayers, To a degree, I agree that being rude on my part was hasty, and I admitted that. However, I also feel that we as a society too often allow horrible people to walk all over decent social morals, because of our own sensitivity to the good nature side of everyone. There are times like this that it is just too much to bear. Flowers don't get people off drugs, and you can't sweet talk horrible.
We all learned as kids a lesson the hard way. It's why we don't do those things anymore. These super skinny little #$%^ have not learned to be nice to others, because no matter how rude they get, they still have 20 people jumping all over their every need. Break down on the side of the road, do you think their fixing it. They won't be there 2 minutes without five people pulling over to help. Meanwhile, I (Or any other guy) along with what is considered not to be the most attractive women of our American cult, run out of gas, and have to walk three miles one way to a gas station while people drive on by, meanwhile to the heavier of these girls are being laughed at, and the asses in the car are sitting there saying "They could use the exercise-yuk yuk" as they drive on by. I don't let anyone break down on the side of the road if I have any ability to do something about it. These kinds of girls have had nothing, but catering, and passiveness to their horrible attitudes their entire lives, and you know what, catering to their egos further by allowing them to continue to make others feel horrible, with no consequences to their actions, because you want to be nice to them, or god forbid procreate the species with them, I say you are an enabler of the behavior, and just as responsible for why they behave that way.
I have a daughter, and I hope to instill in her the understanding that her attitude means more than how pretty she is(and she is gorgeous like her mother). She has tried to bat those pretty eyes of hers at me to get out of trouble, and as hard as it is to resist, she still gets in trouble. If I don't let my daughter get away with a bad attitude, I'll be damned if these girls are going to. It's high time we started expecting people to have the proper attitudes towards others, or we show them what their enabling parents should have. A little humility, and that looks don't mean free pass every time.
We all learned as kids a lesson the hard way. It's why we don't do those things anymore. These super skinny little #$%^ have not learned to be nice to others, because no matter how rude they get, they still have 20 people jumping all over their every need. Break down on the side of the road, do you think their fixing it. They won't be there 2 minutes without five people pulling over to help. Meanwhile, I (Or any other guy) along with what is considered not to be the most attractive women of our American cult, run out of gas, and have to walk three miles one way to a gas station while people drive on by, meanwhile to the heavier of these girls are being laughed at, and the asses in the car are sitting there saying "They could use the exercise-yuk yuk" as they drive on by. I don't let anyone break down on the side of the road if I have any ability to do something about it. These kinds of girls have had nothing, but catering, and passiveness to their horrible attitudes their entire lives, and you know what, catering to their egos further by allowing them to continue to make others feel horrible, with no consequences to their actions, because you want to be nice to them, or god forbid procreate the species with them, I say you are an enabler of the behavior, and just as responsible for why they behave that way.
I have a daughter, and I hope to instill in her the understanding that her attitude means more than how pretty she is(and she is gorgeous like her mother). She has tried to bat those pretty eyes of hers at me to get out of trouble, and as hard as it is to resist, she still gets in trouble. If I don't let my daughter get away with a bad attitude, I'll be damned if these girls are going to. It's high time we started expecting people to have the proper attitudes towards others, or we show them what their enabling parents should have. A little humility, and that looks don't mean free pass every time.
INSTANTFUNCPL02 wrote:
I really get annoyed with people. I realize that I am probably the one who is different and weird, but they just infuriate me to no end.
I agree. There are a few things in daily life that piss me off more that the self-righteous attitude of being better than someone else. Intolerance is close to the top of my dislikes. But since I am sometimes guilty of that I have decided that it is appropriate and right to be intolerant with intolerance. That might make little sense to some but it works for me. I commend you for your willingness to stand up for someone that you did not even know.
I do not wish to change the subject but I wish to more completely address the following post.
MAYBEMOR wrote:
That was very rude of them. But so was your response and then all of the folks commenting about the benefits or not of one body type or the other...This is a very large and relatively recent issue in America and the World and we need to work together or our health care system is going to be overwhelmed. That is a fact!
I am sorry that some of your views are so narrow because I think you are nice people. I know your heart is in the right place but I also know that we will not agree on many things and that is ok.
I must disagree with your statements. There have been many decades that believed fat was beautiful and sought after medically as well as sexually and personal preference is important in this discussion. In periods of starvation and sickness the excess of body fat made survival more likely not less likely. By the ideal medical standard of today Marilyn Monroe flaunted a few extra pounds. I, for one, liked the flaunt and the extra.
It is not true that everyone that is way over weight wants to be that way. Some times they just accept it. It affects their life and often their self image in negative ways. If dieting and exercise were simple things then we could all find an ideal weight for our body type if it existed. Yes they work for some but not everyone. At least not long term they do not. There are many more factors that go into body weight than just diet and exercise.
The weight issue has not been a relatively recent issue in America or the World except for fashion and some medical. Yes, being very over weight can cause medical problems. But this is or at least should be a health issue and not a monetary issue as it is now or as you seem to imply. As a point it is clearly cheaper to eat fat in America than it is to eat lean and the poor have a hard time affording better nutrition.
Aside from that, we all have body types that attract us or detract us and this is normal and healthy for human survival. The sad thing from my view point is that someone gets stuck thinking that only one body type is acceptable. Some prefer heavy and some prefer thin. Even if my SO were to starve herself almost to death she would not be as thin as my ex-wife or your wife. Personally I would not wish us to be as thin as you or your SO and I would put my medical health record up against you or anyone.
Understand that the current medical standard has been developed on the basis of continuing plentiful food supplies and/or the ability to buy them. Where they does not exist the standard for good health must be re-examined. It should and does not have anything to do with sexual attraction or anything else in human relationships.
There are many reasons why weight can get out of control and diet may have little to do with it. In truth the medical jury is still out on this one. We should realize that, at least in the good old USA, it is cheaper to eat fat than to eat appropriately for good health. We have learned that medically it is almost impossible for someone under stress to loose weight. Stress affects the metabolism in almost the same way that starvation does.
Yet there is more than one kind of weight problem. This view of extremely low body fat being the ideal is as wrong as being 100 lbs over weight. In truth the current lean to mean standard has been mostly developed by clothing designers who desired a certain look in order to facilitate their designs with a narrow view of reality making it easier on them.
The height of this was the Twiggy look and the search for younger and younger models. This simply has gone too far and the model industry is now starting to patrol the eating habits of its members as well as ages. They have realized that the constant purging and such that creates the gaunt look is not healthy. Now if the movie industry would only do the same we will be on our way to accepting others for what is inside them.
Way to go, INSTANTFUNCPL02!!!
I love a great comeback and that was terrific. I also like it when people stand up for what's right, protect the innocent, champion the underdog and the oppressed, especially when they do it selflessly. John Adams, one of our nations founders said, "Stand on principle, even if you stand alone." If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything.
Mr. Sexperimentors
I love a great comeback and that was terrific. I also like it when people stand up for what's right, protect the innocent, champion the underdog and the oppressed, especially when they do it selflessly. John Adams, one of our nations founders said, "Stand on principle, even if you stand alone." If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Some say we should not confront rude people with rudeness. I disagree. If they are never confronted they may never learn that their behavior is socially unacceptable and will most likely never change for the better. If they are told nicely that their behavior is unacceptable they will most likely laugh and scoff and learn nothing. A perfect example for this is Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice. Good job INSTANTFUNCPL02
When did it become socially acceptable to just stand back and watch people get bullied? I'm a firm believer that if you aren't part of the solution, you are making a choice to be part of the problem. And don't hand me that 'none of my business' crap. It's people who turn their heads as to not look, who turn and walk the other way, who engage in something to deflect themselves from being part of something who are giving permission for others to be rude and cruel to others in public becuz they know no one will correct them.
I might not be able to turn an asshole into a decent human being, but at least his target will have back up. Just remember, YOU might think you don't care what people say to you, but chances are someone you love might be targeted and you will feel pretty grateful someone was there to defend them in your absence.
I might not be able to turn an asshole into a decent human being, but at least his target will have back up. Just remember, YOU might think you don't care what people say to you, but chances are someone you love might be targeted and you will feel pretty grateful someone was there to defend them in your absence.
Well played Instantfun! I can't understand why people are so rude and feel they need to put down other people. She may be a little heavier gal but she is working to improve herself. Obviously something they aren
Snickering at people for being different is always wrong. Any body whatever sex who tries to improve themselves earns my compliments and encouragement. Instant I thank you for your comments.
that which is beautiful~ is not always good
that which is good~is always beautiful
~chopperdudes girl
that which is good~is always beautiful
~chopperdudes girl
Don't know what you did to or for their day - butt hearing about it sure made mine.
Bullying takes many forms, and skinny bitches who discourage someone from taking the time to take care of herself should abso-F*CK*NG-loutely be admonished and called to task for acting that way. If you let that slide we lose as a society. We are responsible for each other, how we treat others is a direct reflection of our inner moral compass. Those skinny bitches wake up every day ugly on the inside so hopefully your words at least made them think about their actions.
That is a great story! I love that you did that! YAY you!