How many email (a profile) hoping to connect and no response and think either they,him or her is fake?
I'm happy to report that I've never contacted a single female or couple on Swingular that had a fake profile. It's all been good. I know we've recieved Friend Requests from some single females and/or couples that may not have been what they perported to be. As a result, now our policy is to not accept Friend Requests from people we haven't met.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Mr. Sexperimentors
Follow the money!! comes to mind..
ARe you more likely to join if you do an initial free search and find zero or ten couples in your zip code??
Plus it does seem sometimes the gent joins hoping his wife will warm up to the idea but never does or bans him from logging back in??
Or it takes them 3 years to warm up to the idea..
Or they get quite a kick out of just looking but heaven forbid they would ever meet real folks??
and some of these young single gals must be spammers??
ARe you more likely to join if you do an initial free search and find zero or ten couples in your zip code??
Plus it does seem sometimes the gent joins hoping his wife will warm up to the idea but never does or bans him from logging back in??
Or it takes them 3 years to warm up to the idea..
Or they get quite a kick out of just looking but heaven forbid they would ever meet real folks??
and some of these young single gals must be spammers??
I have been wondering about that. I joined the group a couple of days ago, and emailed at least 15 people in our area whose profiles intrigued me. Haven't received a single email back. Not one. Not even a "no thank you". My emails were polite and friendly. We belong to one other board like this, and I emailed two couples, and heard back from both in less than 24 hours.
EROTICCPL wrote:
Like the profile named, SCARLETCHANCE, you would have to be an idiot to not realize this profile is fake.
Young and pretty and will do anything at least once. It does sound fake, but you never know. She has been on here for awhile so it does make one wonder. She is welcome to come and visit me anytime.
We have no pictures online because we are super cautious. However, I did state in each email I sent that we have pics available, and would send them to interested parties. I just cannot fathom absolutely no responses to 15 emails. If I have no interest, I would reply a polite "thanks, but no thanks". And something just seems off about this. This site has a TON of people in our area, whereas other sites only had a handful.
(from J, the wife)
(from J, the wife)
SASSYGRL05 wrote:
We all know there are fake profiles. There are real profiles with fake people so what's worse?
Pretty much the same thing.
There is a alot of posers out there and its frustrating!!!!
EDANY0178 we agree with you there. It does seem like alot of them, even more than we would have thought. But maybe they are just to lazy or rude to give a reply but they are fake to us.
If we get an email from someone with no public photo, thats not verifed and has no comments we are not likely to reply. We dont think thats rude, if the other couple cant be bothered to lay some groundwork then why should we take the time to reply?
just our two cents
just our two cents
what is a poser? a timid newbie having 2nd thoughts?? I think there are little bots going around populating empty zip codes..
Experience has taught us to be suspicious of almost everything, in almost every profile, on almost every site.
Sorry if that offends the honest person on here - but it is what it is.
Sorry if that offends the honest person on here - but it is what it is.
It can often be a real crap shoot.
Some folks have NEVER been burned - butt a lot have.
There's no such thing as being TOO cautious.
Some folks have NEVER been burned - butt a lot have.
There's no such thing as being TOO cautious.
The worst case scenario if you don't get a reply is that you will need to search some more. No big deal, if you ask me. Swingular has a lot less of that than other sites I've experienced.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Mr. Sexperimentors
I once had the most amazing sex with a fake blonde that had fake nails, fake tits, and a face lift that looked extremely fake! She didn't talk much, and when we climaxed together, I thought there's no WAY she could have faked that! But when I was holding her afterward so very close and stroking her hair, I noticed the tag on the back of her neck..."Made In China". I was infuriated!!! When I caught my breath I yelled to my wife "real funny sweetheart, real funny. I hope you kept the receipt"!!! Needless to say, my dream girl got returned, but don't worry, I shook the "fuck" out of her first. 
Utah area folks need to understand... outside of that area.. there is not really a lot of activity from users on the site. There seem to be some active profiles with real people because we have recognized some from other sites but there is just not the activity seen in your area.
We think the site will grow but it takes time. We have yet to meet a new couple through this site but we have some friends who have joined the site (we knew them prior). It takes time sometimes invested in writing your profile, selecting and posting some images, screening and contacting others to sift through and connect with people who are right for you.
just our .02 cents worth on the subject.
We think the site will grow but it takes time. We have yet to meet a new couple through this site but we have some friends who have joined the site (we knew them prior). It takes time sometimes invested in writing your profile, selecting and posting some images, screening and contacting others to sift through and connect with people who are right for you.
just our .02 cents worth on the subject.
Maybe I live in a state of naive contentment.... You know the place where people are kind & honest, where everyone is happy. I figure 'rose colored glasses' look good on me, but if I am just nuts and the opposite is true then damn....
It just seems like if you have enough time to post and pay for a fake profile then you really might have issues, it does not make since to me. Post your own shit and hell who knows you just might meet a friend, or two.
xo, Brandy
It just seems like if you have enough time to post and pay for a fake profile then you really might have issues, it does not make since to me. Post your own shit and hell who knows you just might meet a friend, or two.
xo, Brandy
Get verified...
We've had some similar experiences. Receive a friends request but no note, even tho our profile requests one. Usually write back to them asking for a note indicating what they're looking for and, at least, their 1st names. We don't hear anything back so we don't approve the request. Think maybe they were just fishing for pic's or videos? Or just a lonely nite & sent out a dozen requests without looking at profiles?
We're totally fake ourselves but didn't know we'd upset anyone doing so. Husband wears a fake 9" prosthetic and my boobs are fake -- that's right, breast reduction, I didn't want to have to deal with anything unwieldy. I am wondering how a blind surgeon became board certified though... 
People aren't just fake on swingers sites... been a thing since the beginning of the internet! I'd bet at least 1/2 the pictures of folks on FB are fake... The way I see it.. what's the point? Is messing with people really that much fun? I prefer to be me all the time... plus if I was to lie, I'd never remember it later...
Ahhh Yes. It is kind of like that when we become real. As we get older we have a tendency to drop all the bull shit and pretence and just be who we are. And some how even in tough times life is just a little bit sweeter. We may not be as pretty as we once were. But we now are better than we ever were.
There are no real or fake profiles, as everyone makes up their own definitions as to what a profile is. Single means you play alone, regardless of relationship status, according to some. According to others single means your not married or in a committed relationship. Some people think swinging is watchin others as a voyeur, others think it's exhibitionism. Some think it totally hedonism regardless of maritial/relationship status, while others think it's just a couples thing. You have to take that proverbial "shot in the dark", apparently. I am all for "no labels", if there's consistency. I think perhaps I am going to start a couple account because I am both a photographer and I like to fuck. So one half of me (the girl half) can be the lesbian trapped in a man's body and the male half can take the pics.
DONMAXIMUS wrote:
There are no real or fake profiles, as everyone makes up their own definitions as to what a profile is. Single means you play alone, regardless of relationship status, according to some. According to others single means your not married or in a committed relationship. Some people think swinging is watchin others as a voyeur, others think it's exhibitionism. Some think it totally hedonism regardless of maritial/relationship status, while others think it's just a couples thing. You have to take that proverbial "shot in the dark", apparently. I am all for "no labels", if there's consistency. I think perhaps I am going to start a couple account because I am both a photographer and I like to fuck. So one half of me (the girl half) can be the lesbian trapped in a man's body and the male half can take the pics.
Freaking Don.......
JSTJIM72 wrote:DONMAXIMUS wrote:
There are no real or fake profiles, as everyone makes up their own definitions as to what a profile is. Single means you play alone, regardless of relationship status, according to some. According to others single means your not married or in a committed relationship. Some people think swinging is watchin others as a voyeur, others think it's exhibitionism. Some think it totally hedonism regardless of maritial/relationship status, while others think it's just a couples thing. You have to take that proverbial "shot in the dark", apparently. I am all for "no labels", if there's consistency. I think perhaps I am going to start a couple account because I am both a photographer and I like to fuck. So one half of me (the girl half) can be the lesbian trapped in a man's body and the male half can take the pics.
Freaking Don.......
You know you missed me! :P haha!
"Russian Roulette"
LOLOL!!!!!!
LOLOL!!!!!!
In almost EVERY case, when I spot a profile that looks suspicious, I report it to Admin.
There have been several pro/working girls eliminated for just that reason.
Yeah, we gotta police ourselves.
But Admin can't catch EVERYTHING.
We need to help.
There have been several pro/working girls eliminated for just that reason.
Yeah, we gotta police ourselves.
But Admin can't catch EVERYTHING.
We need to help.
Wow great thread, very informative. Yeah, if a profile sounds too good to be truth is most likely fake. 21 yr old cute girl looking for frisky sex lol yeah right. The administrator send an interesting email saying that no one fakes to be a single guy... L O fucking L!
This is the main reason to attend meet n greets... only real people show up.
Holy Bunckle! Is it really that bad or is there an unhealthy dose of cynicism going through this thread and the people writing in it? I