Was curious to see who is in the BDSM world on Swingular?
I thought it was only kinky the first time.
IDCPL4FUN69 wrote:
I thought it was only kinky the first time.
That's where a active imagination comes in handy
We R!!!
just so we are all clear, is there non kinky BDSM? lol
SASSYGRL05 wrote:
Non kinky BDSM? Now what fun would that be?
Oh come on people no screwing around please..SMILES
We have met two couples that took B/D seriously, one lived it every day and the other only for sex play, we also met a girl that wanted to be a sub so we did a little research to see what it was all about. From the outside it can look scary or fun. Anyway the link will give you a fair idea of what your supposed to do if your going to take it seriously, think something like this should be required to do before getting married and placed on marriage certificate.Submissive Checklist and Negotiations
oh yes thier a few of us out here
We were initially nervous about joining that world but now that we have we're kicking ourselves for being so unnecessarily scared and wishing we'd done it sooner. The swing world for us has taken a back seat ever since!
I have done some exploring into the bdsm world. I have enjoyed most everything I've tried. Obviously, you're best off exploring with someone who knows what they're doing and do a lot of talking about your interests and limits - as with this lifestyle, open communication is key. Highly recommend exploring your kinky side! Enjoy.
Anyone who has seen me at parties knows I'm for it.
we like kinky... ok wait he like's it when i do it to him.....
we like kinky... ok wait he like's it when i do it to him.....
I actually attended a BDSM party a few weeks ago and I have to say, I was scared shitless. However, it turned out to be one of the MOST fun parties I have ever attended. I found out that I'm actually quite good and very much enjoy spanking other men. I mean, I know I like the occassional slap on my ass, but omg....I got skillz.
That being said, it's not something that I ever see myself doing full time...I'm not sure I would like having a complete submissive male around all the time. Altho...the one male sub who had a foot fetish and was giving foot massages....um...yeah, he could hang out anytime.
That being said, it's not something that I ever see myself doing full time...I'm not sure I would like having a complete submissive male around all the time. Altho...the one male sub who had a foot fetish and was giving foot massages....um...yeah, he could hang out anytime.
SPANK ME SPANK ME PLEASE!!!!!
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I actually attended a BDSM party a few weeks ago and I have to say, I was scared shitless. However, it turned out to be one of the MOST fun parties I have ever attended. I found out that I'm actually quite good and very much enjoy spanking other men. I mean, I know I like the occassional slap on my ass, but omg....I got skillz.
That being said, it's not something that I ever see myself doing full time...I'm not sure I would like having a complete submissive male around all the time. Altho...the one male sub who had a foot fetish and was giving foot massages....um...yeah, he could hang out anytime.
DDRIVER03 wrote:
SPANK ME SPANK ME PLEASE!!!!!
Make fun of my Steelers outfits again and I might get a little carried away.
we love it too 
Swingers are sick people.
This is the vanilla worlds version of Ultra kinky sex, to us 90% is normal and not kinky.
101 Ultra Kinky Ideas
1. Tie your partner up and break out the vibrator.
2. Cover each other with oil before slipping and sliding on silk sheets.
3. Get it on in the backyard pool in the middle of the day.
4. Watch kinky porn and imitate the actors.
5. Surprise your partner with a set of anal beads.
6. Go to a sex shop together and choose a new vibrator.
7. Let your best friend watch you fuck your partner.
8. Have a sexual encounter with a member of the same sex.
9. Let your best friend fuck your partner and YOU watch.
10. Pick up a stranger and make out with them.
11. Introduce your man to anal sex
This is the vanilla worlds version of Ultra kinky sex, to us 90% is normal and not kinky.
101 Ultra Kinky Ideas
1. Tie your partner up and break out the vibrator.
2. Cover each other with oil before slipping and sliding on silk sheets.
3. Get it on in the backyard pool in the middle of the day.
4. Watch kinky porn and imitate the actors.
5. Surprise your partner with a set of anal beads.
6. Go to a sex shop together and choose a new vibrator.
7. Let your best friend watch you fuck your partner.
8. Have a sexual encounter with a member of the same sex.
9. Let your best friend fuck your partner and YOU watch.
10. Pick up a stranger and make out with them.
11. Introduce your man to anal sex
a pocket puss is like a fleshlight... www.fleshlight.com
IDCPL4FUN69 wrote:
I thought it was only kinky the first time.
Oh I know all about you two hotties....hehehe
Hugs!!!
Okay not all about you lol but was sooooo much fun meeting you two!!!
SASSYGRL05 wrote:
Something tells me Cosmo might be *winks*
Honestly yes there are a few here that have a kinky side to them.
Hmmm how do I know this?
That's cause we are crafty with our black magic hehehe
I have been accused numerous times of being a WITCH just by walking by people of that BDSM world and I look at them and stare and wonder......No I would never cast a spell on you sweetie lol
You have that same way about you......Witchy women hehehe......So sexy indeed!!!
There's a difference between spicing up the bedroom with spanking and tethers and full on BDSM. I've done both and find that my preference changes depending on the partner. The most important thing... BDSM requires trust - so it's not something you spring on a partner when they are under the influence of libido -- you discuss it when both are sober and aware. A few spankings or even a bit of bondage don't mean that you need safe words and backup plans, but breaking out your TENS unit or the spreader bars are only performed by a Master/Mistress who deserves the trust and responsibility. BDSM is earned.
Love it
VIRANI wrote:
There's a difference between spicing up the bedroom with spanking and tethers and full on BDSM. I've done both and find that my preference changes depending on the partner. The most important thing... BDSM requires trust - so it's not something you spring on a partner when they are under the influence of libido -- you discuss it when both are sober and aware. A few spankings or even a bit of bondage don't mean that you need safe words and backup plans, but breaking out your TENS unit or the spreader bars are only performed by a Master/Mistress who deserves the trust and responsibility. BDSM is earned.
This is true......It is all about trust. Its not our first or last time to play in BDSN ourselves. We like swinging a lot more. The rules are not demanding and expected and that is how I like it. Easy peasy!!!
However,
We do like to use rope and chains and have many fun play things in our room. Just depends on our mood. We have a wall attachment for many different fun things hehehe
In the BDSM world my hubby is the master but only because he is the protector. We have a few switches and even some pets who we love dearly. I have trained a few people and then again sometimes its more about the pleasure then the pain!!!
I am a CareBear Dom.....So if you want to be bruised and somewhat tortured for the pleasure. Dont come to me on that. Come to my husband he will treat you to that type of pleasure. I advoid being marked if I can and if you do......Off with your head lol.
It is nice to see variety in this world on swingular.
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I've always wanted to try it.
We enjoy BDSM very much and practice it regularly to spice up our sex.
FLAME_N_TJ wrote:
Kinky you use the feather.....perverted you use the whole chicken!
BSDM....well we have cuffs, silk scarves and other restraints...does that count?
You are right that is what I meant by KINKY BDSM....Not sure some are ready for the WHOLE chicken....hehehe
Totally!!!! Wife loves it and wants a master!