Just wondering if most couples prefer to play in a group? or prefer to swap and play one on one? I am kinda asking this from the soft play mentality.
I guess there is no normal here but just wondering if there are folks who never do group play or never do one on one play? Group play in this question is no guy guy stuff.
Do these play styles tend to develop from a group play to more one on one swap play over time with a same couple?
I guess there is no normal here but just wondering if there are folks who never do group play or never do one on one play? Group play in this question is no guy guy stuff.
Do these play styles tend to develop from a group play to more one on one swap play over time with a same couple?
My wife prefer group play, I'm ok with it but prefer smaller parties.
As a standard, we don't have any hard bound rules. We let the situation dictate itself. If there are a few coupes that are getting along and everyone is comfortable, come what may! We also like to enjoy the more personalized intimacy of playing one-on-one.
I guess we are real naive! our idea of group play is only 4 folks in a private place together...
SO maybe I should not have used that word "group"
I guess just wondering what play types you do in a couple couple situation. I am jsut wondering if some couples have only done the swap and play one on one for soft as well as full or do you sometimes play as a 4 some? Is there some natural progression pattern for newbie couples. Assuming they dont do full swap the first time out of the starting gate.
SO maybe I should not have used that word "group"
I guess just wondering what play types you do in a couple couple situation. I am jsut wondering if some couples have only done the swap and play one on one for soft as well as full or do you sometimes play as a 4 some? Is there some natural progression pattern for newbie couples. Assuming they dont do full swap the first time out of the starting gate.
SPEXDEX wrote:
As a standard, we don't have any hard bound rules. We let the situation dictate itself. If there are a few coupes that are getting along and everyone is comfortable, come what may! We also like to enjoy the more personalized intimacy of playing one-on-one.
Yep..sounds like us. Although have to say on my part (Mr)..I prefer couple to couple...but really do enjoy it all.
We tend to prefer couple-to-couple, although there's nothing wrong with group "therapy".
I have never been into soft swap so I can not answer from personal experience. But from a clinical standpoint and talking with others you will find that every one is different and there is no norm to follow. Find your own pace and if you wish, find a natural progression from where you are to where you wish to be. We are most often limited by our fears or how we see and define ourselves.
In the vanilla world the dating cycle follows the person that is the most cautious or least adventurous. In most cases a married couples
In the vanilla world the dating cycle follows the person that is the most cautious or least adventurous. In most cases a married couples
This really is not about us or our journey along this fun path less traveled. It seems there are some folks who think full swap is less "out there" or kinky than 2 couples playing in group way. Mfm, FMF. Soft and full with 2 couples can be either a swap and play separate in the same room or as a group on the same bed. It is about this area I wanted your opinions.
SPEXDEX wrote:
As a standard, we don't have any hard bound rules. We let the situation dictate itself. If there are a few coupes that are getting along and everyone is comfortable, come what may! We also like to enjoy the more personalized intimacy of playing one-on-one.
We total agree b with you on this guys
I agree the situation will dictate its self along the way, just have fun with all that takes place.
Occasional group fun is a blast, but we prefer couple to couple.
I know this is about fun. I just wanted to know if most folks do a group thing when hooking up as a foursome or play as couples. I am sure some do both or everything.
Usually we like couple to couple. In the same room by each other to play with each other at the same time too. We are good with everything and anything just depends on the mood of the whole group and ourselves.
When we do group play its for thrill factor or the never done that with others kind of fun.
We prefer couples over single females and single males. Gives us both someone to play with so we can both have the best time possible.
We play in large groups rarely but you will see us in smaller groups from time to time just having a great time having a fun orgy or two hehehehe
When we do group play its for thrill factor or the never done that with others kind of fun.
We prefer couples over single females and single males. Gives us both someone to play with so we can both have the best time possible.
We play in large groups rarely but you will see us in smaller groups from time to time just having a great time having a fun orgy or two hehehehe
What is mixed group fun? is that the same as a foursome??
MAYBEMOR wrote:
I guess we are real naive! our idea of group play is only 4 folks in a private place together...
SO maybe I should not have used that word "group"
I guess just wondering what play types you do in a couple couple situation. I am jsut wondering if some couples have only done the swap and play one on one for soft as well as full or do you sometimes play as a 4 some? Is there some natural progression pattern for newbie couples. Assuming they dont do full swap the first time out of the starting gate.
Guess were way behind the times never seen that many cpls together
With the right chemistry almost any combination can work...we like the different fun that each type can offer.
AGEDTOPERFECTION wrote:
Mixed Group 12 Couples on four house boats.
Did you play musical boats? Draw numbers?
how many days was the trip??
For us it honestly depends if the girls have chemistry. If the girls wanna play then all four, six, eight play together. We have done a little of everything and prefer same room.... whether girl play is involved or not.
MIXEDBIZNESS wrote:
For us it honestly depends if the girls have chemistry. If the girls wanna play then all four, six, eight play together. We have done a little of everything and prefer same room.... whether girl play is involved or not.
2, 4, 6 ,8 girls p[lay together?!
for sure.... when the chemistry is on it is hot hot hot! but I meant 8 total.... four couples. That is a easy fun number. Too many and sometimes it gets a little too crazy for us.
Parties are great until the wait for the bathroom exceeds 20 minutes.
We actually prefer straight swap... all 4 people in the same room is fine, just not our preference. It really depends on everyone's comfort level.
SECRETLIFE208 wrote:
We actually prefer straight swap... all 4 people in the same room is fine, just not our preference. It really depends on everyone's comfort level.
So is "straight swap" a term that means you swap spouses for the time and not in same room? Learning much here when I am not thinking about the 4 girls in the pile!
I would have to say we prefer to actually play, not just exchange endless friend requests and emails! We are up for just about anything beyond that so long as it