Swingers Forum - Too Young to be Taken Seriously?

My husband and I are interesting in joining the lifestyle, starting slow. However I've noticed the majority of people here are older. We both are twenty, is this too young to be taken seriously in the lifestyle? Should we keep at it, or come back in 10-20 years. I do understand if people want their partners to be old enough to have an adult beverage with them. But perhaps it is the maturity level? Maturity level is different for everyone. There are twenty year olds who act years older than they are, and sixty year olds who act younger than we are. To each their own I guess. I'm not asking to have everyone be my friend right now. I'm just curious as to what people think about younger swingers. What is your opinion about say twenty-five or younger couples?

REN wrote:

My husband and I are interesting in joining the lifestyle, starting slow. However I've noticed the majority of people here are older. We both are twenty, is this too young to be taken seriously in the lifestyle? Should we keep at it, or come back in 10-20 years. I do understand if people want their partners to be old enough to have an adult beverage with them. But perhaps it is the maturity level? Maturity level is different for everyone. There are twenty year olds who act years older than they are, and sixty year olds who act younger than we are. To each their own I guess. I'm not asking to have everyone be my friend right now. I'm just curious as to what people think about younger swingers. What is your opinion about say twenty-five or younger couples?

I think you two should keep at it as well. You are young and full of energy. Most of us older swingers wish we had the open minds, you do, when we were your age. There are plenty of people that you can connect with both old and young, that don't pay attention to the age thing. With respect to being close friends, you will have factors like experience and maturity factors that come into play. You're at a different stage in your life than older people and more often than not, this can limit your interaction and ability to identify. That being said, you should keep going. If someone's too old (in their mind), to hump ya, then they're just plain ole too old. hahaha Good luck and have fun.

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I agree keep at it we have several friends both older and younger, and even some that are both older and younger with in the same couple. So age has very little to do with it in my experience. Besides when you know what you want why should you let a few people mess that up for you. Do whatever makes you both happy and if someone doesn't want to be your friend based on your age then to hell with them find someone else who does.

Older, younger, white, yellow, black, brown, or green, if there is chemistry, who cares?

I think what you will find is a good chunk of the lifestylers do not look nor act anywhere near their chronological age. We generally don't go by age, but rather by attitude, looks (go ahead call us shallow) body type and common interests.

Stay at it, you are on the site and therefore of course should be taken seriously.