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How long does it take you to decide to meet people one on one face to face?
What do you need to know about them?
I wonder because I will talk to people for a whole before we meet.
But most of the time they won't talk to me again after that, is that normal?
And I'm talking, if we play or if we don't,
So maybe I'm just going about this the wrong way?
So that's why I ask.
We like to chat a while as well. We like to know where they're coming from, what they're actually looking for, and whether or not the interest is really there. We aren't just a warm body or a receptacle for for excess sperm...lol
Reading between the lines in a profile usually gives us a pretty good sense of who/what someone is.
We were burned once (early on), and THAT was a very valuable education.
Since then, our radar calibration has been pretty spot-on.