Do you exist?????????????
Sexy female.
Interested in playing solo and on occasion with the both Mr. & Mrs. Can be married with a hall pass or single. All will be verified by all parties involved.
Do you want a 6'4" man? Handsome? Generous? Hung? Sweet? Sensitive? Loves to flirt? Loves to please? Has a strong sex drive? I want to give him a playmate, is that too much to ask for?
There are so many conversations about single males...so here is a challenge for all of you.
Sexy available females. We don't believe you are out there...Prove us wrong.
Sexy female.
Interested in playing solo and on occasion with the both Mr. & Mrs. Can be married with a hall pass or single. All will be verified by all parties involved.
Do you want a 6'4" man? Handsome? Generous? Hung? Sweet? Sensitive? Loves to flirt? Loves to please? Has a strong sex drive? I want to give him a playmate, is that too much to ask for?
There are so many conversations about single males...so here is a challenge for all of you.
Sexy available females. We don't believe you are out there...Prove us wrong.
WE exist, we just have to be seduced 

Seducing is a given. And thanks for the escort suggestion, really helpful 

I get a lot of emails and friend requests, not to mention the random IM's that will pop up. For me I get a bit leery of the requests I get from men with "hall passes", too many single men posing as couples or men who are actually here cheating on their spouses. I prefer honesty and will and have played with single men on here as well as couples. I stay away from cheaters as that could potentially bring drama into my life that I don't need. I also enjoy the party scene, I bartend at the mansion from time to time, played banker for the poker night last week and attend other parties as a guest, sometimes with a date but most of the time on my own. I guess what I mean by seduce is show me that you are who you say you are, understand that if you are posting as a couple but want to play solo I want to meet both of you before I play at all. Don't just hit me up with a random friend request with no introduction, tell me about yourself and what you are looking for, tell me why you chose to contact me, intrigue me, get my attention. I assure you single women that are willing to play are out there and on here.
We have been around a while and I can completely understand your point. Me, the Mrs. is the one who will ultimately be deciding who gets to play, so there ya go 

Awesome! Well I sent a friend request.
Well, some of us suck at breaking the ice! How do you do that? Give me a girl face to face I can talk but in a chat? Ha ha and the mr is even worse! Heck we are more the type that would rather enjoy more then just play, so am I doing it wrong by just wanting to have a conversation that is clean first?
We totally exist! Single males abound EVERYwhere! You could walk into a gas station, and grab one, and they'd be happy to oblige you! Hell, you could probably find 6, and at least one of them would be grateful to be your slave.
Cogito ergo sum - Descartes
Scorpionfrog: I can have a clean chat or simply jump right in, guess it depends on my mood at that moment.
Jeffsmith: LOL, hmmm, 6 slaves to serve me, now that is tempting.
Jeffsmith: LOL, hmmm, 6 slaves to serve me, now that is tempting.
Ok, pandoraslc, I get that guess I'm just wondering how you are intregued when it is clean? Lol, I truly suck at starting a conversation. Intregue is not my specialty.
In the Swinging Lifestyle, there is NOTHING of more value/desireability than a single female.
They are desired by men - both married and single.
They are desired by women - both married and single.
They are desired by couples - regardless of each member's individual sexual persuasion.
They are also (for the most part) very illusive - by choice.
In short - a single female (even if she looks like a Rosie O'Donnell or Phillys Diller clone) can write her own ticket in the Lifestyle - and still have more people slobbering over her than any of we mere mortals can even begin to fathom.
Even in our dreams.
Therefore, she can pick and choose who she plays with.
She can be selective.
She can be an elitist.
She can be a bitch.
She can treat everyone else like CRAP (if she so chooses).
And there's not a DAMNED thing any of us can do about it.
Wanna boycott single females, just because they can do as they please?
OK, then, go ahead - and see who loses.
They are desired by men - both married and single.
They are desired by women - both married and single.
They are desired by couples - regardless of each member's individual sexual persuasion.
They are also (for the most part) very illusive - by choice.
In short - a single female (even if she looks like a Rosie O'Donnell or Phillys Diller clone) can write her own ticket in the Lifestyle - and still have more people slobbering over her than any of we mere mortals can even begin to fathom.
Even in our dreams.
Therefore, she can pick and choose who she plays with.
She can be selective.
She can be an elitist.
She can be a bitch.
She can treat everyone else like CRAP (if she so chooses).
And there's not a DAMNED thing any of us can do about it.
Wanna boycott single females, just because they can do as they please?
OK, then, go ahead - and see who loses.
*sigh* I kinda miss those days 

PANDORASLC wrote:
Jeffsmith: LOL, hmmm, 6 slaves to serve me, now that is tempting.
To get 6 slaves you'll have to go to 6 gas stations

I've noticed a lot of single females in the UT area. But no one really seems to be from TX. Hubby and I are also searching for the elusive single woman. Good luck to you on your search.
we have never had any problem coming up with single girls to play with but then thats not all we are looking for. Seems to us that often times the "we only want a single girl" crowd's profiles are either way self absorbed (unlikely that anyone wants to be your toy) or smack of desperation....open up a bit relax, dont come on so strong and you might have better up.
just our two cents
just our two cents
[quote=CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL]In the Swinging Lifestyle, there is NOTHING of more value/desireability than a single female.
They are desired by men - both married and single.
They are desired by women - both married and single.
They are desired by couples - regardless of each member's individual sexual persuasion.
They are also (for the most part) very illusive - by choice.
In short - a single female (even if she looks like a Rosie O'Donnell or Phillys Diller clone) can write her own ticket in the Lifestyle - and still have more people slobbering over her than any of we mere mortals can even begin to fathom.
Even in our dreams.
Therefore, she can pick and choose who she plays with.
She can be selective.
She can be an elitist.
She can be a bitch.
She can treat everyone else like CRAP (if she so chooses).
And there's not a DAMNED thing any of us can do about it.
Wanna boycott single females, just because they can do as they please?
OK, then, go ahead - and see who loses.
I never really thought about me as a single lady with all the power you describe.. I guess in ways its true. Single women are wanted by all catagories in this lifestyle. I somehow don't feel that powerful though. I am picky and a bit too shy for my own good. I am willing to play but like I said I am picky. The games that alot of people bring with them are a major turn off to me.. I have not been approached about playing with someone who has a hall pass.. not sure even how that works.
They are desired by men - both married and single.
They are desired by women - both married and single.
They are desired by couples - regardless of each member's individual sexual persuasion.
They are also (for the most part) very illusive - by choice.
In short - a single female (even if she looks like a Rosie O'Donnell or Phillys Diller clone) can write her own ticket in the Lifestyle - and still have more people slobbering over her than any of we mere mortals can even begin to fathom.
Even in our dreams.
Therefore, she can pick and choose who she plays with.
She can be selective.
She can be an elitist.
She can be a bitch.
She can treat everyone else like CRAP (if she so chooses).
And there's not a DAMNED thing any of us can do about it.
Wanna boycott single females, just because they can do as they please?
OK, then, go ahead - and see who loses.
I never really thought about me as a single lady with all the power you describe.. I guess in ways its true. Single women are wanted by all catagories in this lifestyle. I somehow don't feel that powerful though. I am picky and a bit too shy for my own good. I am willing to play but like I said I am picky. The games that alot of people bring with them are a major turn off to me.. I have not been approached about playing with someone who has a hall pass.. not sure even how that works.
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
In the Swinging Lifestyle, there is NOTHING of more value/desireability than a single female.
They are desired by men - both married and single.
They are desired by women - both married and single.
They are desired by couples - regardless of each member's individual sexual persuasion.
They are also (for the most part) very illusive - by choice.
In short - a single female (even if she looks like a Rosie O'Donnell or Phillys Diller clone) can write her own ticket in the Lifestyle - and still have more people slobbering over her than any of we mere mortals can even begin to fathom.
Even in our dreams.
Therefore, she can pick and choose who she plays with.
She can be selective.
She can be an elitist.
She can be a bitch.
She can treat everyone else like CRAP (if she so chooses).
And there's not a DAMNED thing any of us can do about it.
Wanna boycott single females, just because they can do as they please?
OK, then, go ahead - and see who loses.
I'll have to disagree a little on this one. There are single males that will not be interested in some single females, because of preferences etc. Those that are in the single female, like any person, she will have to meet the criteria of the seeker. In other words, many couples/singles looking, may reject her for looking like Rosey O'Donnell or if she's hot but a total cunt. This further limits her playing field. Now lastly, with respect to this aspect, she is left with those couples that would entertain her and of course that's when her own taste kicks in. Of those that are left, who would she choose.
That being said, I don't think a single woman is as glamorous as it may sound. Do single women have it easier than single males to find willing partners?? YES. Remember though. Quality over quantity. Women also have to deal with a whole helluva lot of rude, piggish dicks. It's all about perspective. So in closing, I'll just say this. I WILL boycott the single BITCHES and stick to the single ladies. Personality is everything with me. Single females are no better off than single males, in my opinion. Again quality over quantity.
Or do both.
That would be the biggest chance.

PERSEPHONE77 wrote:It's perfectly acceptable for you to be selective. Everyone gets passed over by someone. There are people out there that would pass you over for a BBW. It all boils down to personal preference.
i must b doing something wrong.....or i am just too selective for my own good.

PERSEPHONE77 wrote:Persephone - you are not doing anything wrong! Your profile sounds exactly like what we were looking for...Love your honesty and bluntness. Refreshing.
i must b doing something wrong.....or i am just too selective for my own good.