We would really like to attend the Valentines Day party but we are new at this and we are wondering what to wear? What do men wear? What is appropriate and what is not?
XOXO

Wear whatever makes you comfortable ladies wear something sexy guys don't show up in suit coat and tie or you will be the only one there like that ! Sports shirt and sports pants for a a guy is the norm. Clothing is not really a big deal if its a true swingers party clothes won't be on that long anyways lol.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon
At most the functions we go to, women wear sexy. Dresses, skirt & blouse, jeans etc. Guys are anywhere from casual jeans and nice shirt to dress pants and nice shirt....
FUN4USXX2001, Personally I like what you are wearing for a lifestyle party.. Just need a raincoat to get there. Neighbors might think it's strange to wear such a coat on a sunny day with 90 degree temps but then they might be even more hot if you didn't...
Ray
Ray
LOL well ty Ray..... for some reason it seems to be hubbys favorite outfit also...... : )
Men seem to like to see the woman in hose and sexy heels and something that has easy access..................
my wife tries to find stuff that looks sexy and nice and is easy on and off or cofortable rolling around in, sexy shoes are always easy because you dont' need to stand much.
I wear usually a nice shirt and slacks.
I wear usually a nice shirt and slacks.