I have recently loss a large amount of weight.. Went from a size 20 to a size 10. But still have the extra skin. Which still makes me feel fat. Unfortunately I don't have the 10g's it would cost to correct it.. So should I still concider myself BBW?
If your pictures are accurate, I would consider you a hottie! you look great.
The question is more of "How Do You Feel" about yourself. No one should be put in a category that they do not feel fits who they are or have become. Yes we all look for support from others to make our judgements, but it really is up to you to support your own feeling of Self Worth. You are a very Beautiful Woman need we say more
Nope just someone with some extra skin 
u look gorgeous and u should be proud of yourself
u look gorgeous and u should be proud of yourself No, yo are no longer a BBW. A VBW though.
"Big Beautiful Woman" (commonly abbreviated as BBW)The term is a subjective, visually determined concept that does not have an explicit lower or upper weight limitation, and may denote women who may be considered barely overweight to those who are morbidly obese.
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I agree with this statement.
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ANDRAYWAY_SHANAYNAY wrote:
Whatever you consider yourself you are absolutely stunning. It's awesome that you have gone from a size 20 to a size 10.
I agree with this statement.
we both think you look beautiful..congrats on the weight loss!!
In the words of supreme court justice Potter Stewart its hard to define but I know it when I see it! Just look in the mirror and if you are happy with what you see be happy and forget the labels
I would have to concur with the other responses here, and say you look pretty damn good from where I'm sitting. Congrats on the weight loss, and in my humble opinion, it's all in how you feel.
And yes your gorgeous. And were doing the same. Its a battle to lose the lbs. But we keep on keepin on. Chow Rick and Gabby
Congrats on the weight loss BLUEYEDGIRL. You do look good! Love a woman with meat on her bones and lots of curves. And you definitely have lots of yummy sexy curves SASSYGRL!
Instead of throwing this question out to the general population of us imperfect people, you might get a more definitive answer if you ask it of the HWP elitists.
What would we flawed commoners know, anyway?
What would we flawed commoners know, anyway?
NAUGHTYELFS wrote:COSMOPOLITANT wrote:
[quote=NAUGHTYELFS]wow we so dont belong on here......
What the hell come on we all do for does trying to make a change on or bodies
i, the hubby assumed that this thread was about lovely bbw ladies. clearly it is not and looks like bbws are faily unpopular on this site. if somene wants to lose weight and achieves their goal good for them, but i personally am not into skinny girls. we have had more than one couple contact us claiming that their girl is a bbw when shes just a size 9 or 10. thats not bbw. we already felt like we dont belong on here for several other reasons such as wife is not bi and we dont live in utah or florida. guess its time to just leave this site behind [/quote]
I think you're reading way too much into this. This has nothing to do with whether or not BBW women are accepted on the site. The OP merely posed a question about herself. Everyone has a place here, and although we may not meet the standards of others here, it doesn't mean we should leave or blame the site for it. Relax.
Thanks Spexdex I was just going to say the same. Chill out, this thread wasn't about fitting in or not. Simply a question from a sexy lady trying to decide if she is still a BBW or not. As said by Spexdex, "everyone has a place here". We have been with couples big and small. If the attraction is there it's there, it doesn't matter for US. My husband and I have been working out since November (not because of the lifestyle) but because we needed a change and want to live a long, healthy life. I have lost 34 pounds to date & hubby has lost 28. We both feel great BUT must say if your a bigger person with a little more weight doesn't mean your OUT for us. Everyone has something to offer another here. Sit back and relax and just enjoy the people, big or small. You'll find matches with people who are "in" to you and wanna SCREW for whatever reasons they choose. And for the pretty lady who started the thread. You Go Girl, BBW or not, Your hot! (mrs. curiousnew2010)
I was just going to say the same. Chill out, this thread wasn't about fitting in or not. Simply a question from a sexy lady trying to decide if she is still a BBW or not. As said by Spexdex, "everyone has a place here". We have been with couples big and small. If the attraction is there it's there, it doesn't matter for US. My husband and I have been working out since November (not because of the lifestyle) but because we needed a change and want to live a long, healthy life. I have lost 34 pounds to date & hubby has lost 28. We both feel great BUT must say if your a bigger person with a little more weight doesn't mean your OUT for us. Everyone has something to offer another here. Sit back and relax and just enjoy the people, big or small. You'll find matches with people who are "in" to you and wanna SCREW for whatever reasons they choose. And for the pretty lady who started the thread. You Go Girl, BBW or not, Your hot! (mrs. curiousnew2010)Ok then I guess take your own advice and do what you gotta do. Best Wishes! Muah!
We have met with "larger" couples as well. There is totally a place for that. Your choice is your own though, not to be faulted by the site or the community. If its not for you, best of luck!
NAUGHTYELFS wrote:then go some where like aff dont dish the site sorry my 2cents
bbw women are not accepted here on this site nor is it really a site for anyone that dosnt live in utah. dont need to relax, just need to find people that we fit in with which clearly are not here
NAUGHTYELFS wrote:
bbw women are not accepted here on this site nor is it really a site for anyone that dosnt live in utah. dont need to relax, just need to find people that we fit in with which clearly are not here
I like women of most sizes, but my favorite is bbw. When they want to lose the weight, and do, I congratulate them because it can be hard for anyone to change their weight. But I do prefer bbws. Please stay on the sight. With you here, perhaps more bbws will feel more comfortable being here. Not everyone likes skinny people. My best friend won't date me because I am too damn small.
And what I can see from the closeup shot of the two of you, you both look great. Your wife is very beautiful.
I agree with what everybody has said so far. The term BBW is subjective and varies from one person to the next. Labels are exactly that...labels. You should only label yourself what your are comfortable with.
NAUGHTYELFS wrote:
bbw women are not accepted here on this site nor is it really a site for anyone that dosnt live in utah.
Naughty, unfortunately we haven't been active enough on this site to determine the preferences of individual people. I can say that Jen and I met a great group of people a couple of weeks ago who are accepting of bbw women. Please don't let individuals (even if it is a group of individuals) determine your feelings about a particular site. The comment about this site not being for anybody outside of Utah maybe somewhat true, but not entirely. We've moved around quite a bit and I can tell you that sites like this are dependent on the local area they are centered in. In California, the main site is SLS, for Ohio, it's SZC. I personally like swingersboard.com for forums. I would suggest (if you haven't already) go to a meet and greet in your area and find out the local site.
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:We know where all the fun people are.
Instead of throwing this question out to the general population of us imperfect people, you might get a more definitive answer if you ask it of the HWP elitists.
What would we flawed commoners know, anyway?
NAUGHTYELFS wrote:Sorry that you feel this way. I can understand the feeling of not belonging. Unfortunately my peers and others have made me very insecure about myself thru out the years. I'm just wanting some input from someone that doesn't feel like there obligated to be nice too me. Just an honest answer. And I clearly need to work on my insecurity and not worry about anyone else.. I hope that you find some one in your area. Best wishes
bbw women are not accepted here on this site nor is it really a site for anyone that dosnt live in utah. dont need to relax, just need to find people that we fit in with which clearly are not here
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
Instead of throwing this question out to the general population of us imperfect people, you might get a more definitive answer if you ask it of the HWP elitists.
What would we flawed commoners know, anyway?
wow if this isnt trying to turn this thread into a drama/nonsense/ 50 other threads that have already happened, i dont know what is...shame on u!
Thank you, Everyone for the positive feedback. Needed the honest opinions of someone that didn't feel obligated to be nice to me. I know that I just need to be comfortable with myself no matter what size I am. Just got to work on my self esteem and insecurities. I hope to meet and make lot of new friends in this lifestyle. Thanks
Blueeyedgirl you are beautiful and if I saw you just out and about I'm sure that is what I'd see and wouldn't worry myself with what category you fit in. Being a woman that has gained weight and has gone from a size 5 to a 10 in less than a year I also find myself not knowing what I would be considered, but while I'm trying to lose the weight there are a few things I have discovered...attitude goes a long way be happy and proud of your success and know that there is more to attraction than just looks, while some may or may not consider us BBWs those that really matter are the ones that really get to know you and find you sexy because they know you. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks what matters most is that you feel sexy and beautiful no matter what category you fall into. Not to mention a size 10 comes with its benefits like naturally large breasts and curves...yay!
CURIOUSNEW2010 wrote:CURIOUSNEW2010 wrote:
Thanks Spexdex
Absolutely our opinion, exactly! Have to say....we are obviously not Barbie and Ken ourselves, and we have found some very wonderful people here, of all ages, sizes, and shapes! THANKS FRIENDS!
The skin will shrink over time without spending the ten grand. Your skin is an organ just like a heart or liver and takes time for it to adjust.
BBW...
Big Beautiful Woman...
What is BBW? Its pretty simple, a bigger beautiful woman...
HOWEVER, BBW is in the eye of the beholder. My wife always told people, 'I'm bigger than most' and the like, however, she's actually an average sized woman. Yes, she's a toting a bit in the hips, thighs and backside, Sir Mixalot wrote a song about her, however, she's NOT big, she's thick, to me. LGSBCS is another example of this, she's one of the sexiest women on this site, yet some would call her BBW, trust me, the ONLY reason you'd kick LGSBCS out of bed for eating crackers is because there's more room on the floor!
So, in a nutshell, BBW is what the person saying it is. I have seen thick girls say they are, I have seen women with a few extra pounds than normal for themselves due to recently having a baby say they are, and I have seen what I consider BBW women say they are, yet, I have seen women say they're thick when I consider them BBW too.
Does this make sense?
Doubt it...
Big Beautiful Woman...
What is BBW? Its pretty simple, a bigger beautiful woman...
HOWEVER, BBW is in the eye of the beholder. My wife always told people, 'I'm bigger than most' and the like, however, she's actually an average sized woman. Yes, she's a toting a bit in the hips, thighs and backside, Sir Mixalot wrote a song about her, however, she's NOT big, she's thick, to me. LGSBCS is another example of this, she's one of the sexiest women on this site, yet some would call her BBW, trust me, the ONLY reason you'd kick LGSBCS out of bed for eating crackers is because there's more room on the floor!
So, in a nutshell, BBW is what the person saying it is. I have seen thick girls say they are, I have seen women with a few extra pounds than normal for themselves due to recently having a baby say they are, and I have seen what I consider BBW women say they are, yet, I have seen women say they're thick when I consider them BBW too.
Does this make sense?
Doubt it...
CANDJ23 wrote:CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
Instead of throwing this question out to the general population of us imperfect people, you might get a more definitive answer if you ask it of the HWP elitists.
What would we flawed commoners know, anyway?
wow if this isnt trying to turn this thread into a drama/nonsense/ 50 other threads that have already happened, i dont know what is...shame on u!
Shame wears off - elitism is permanant.
But no, I do NOT feel sorry for you.
OK, so now, every different ethnicity is going to rewrite the dictionary to fit their criteria?
STFU: Single Tahitian Female Unicorn?
STFU: Single Tahitian Female Unicorn?