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This is the Mrs. My question is are there any men or women out there that DO NOT enjoy giving oral sex to a woman? If so why not? My husband does not enjoy it and I am wondering if there are others that do not. I love giving oral to my husband and it turns me on to do so!! At times I wish he wanted to with me.
Your profile says he will do it,is it that He wont do it to You, or is the profile wrong and He just wont go down on a woman at all? I have met a few Men Who Do Not, but I figure they just do not know what they are missing out on. For Me, it make's me even harder, when I am giving a Women Her just do's.
Hubby has tried on me and doesn't like it. On me I guess. He says he has with other women from previous relationships. We are new to the lifestyle and have yet to experience play with other couples/ people. I fear I will be very jealous if he would go down on another woman but not me. Must be something with me. Which makes me nervous for when we do get to play that I wll be looked at like, I am not going down there and be embarrassed.
Lets just hope that the reverse happens and you find a Man, or Woman, Who loves doing it to you and he becomes jealous of what he is missing out on. The best way to look at it is if you are willing to stroke his Mr Happy. By God He should Give it the best try he can and make turn about Fair Play.
Can't imagine why he would do it with someone else and not with his own wife. Have you asked him specifically why he doesn't like going down on you? I've heard of a few guys (never a swinger, though) who didn't like giving oral to women but never anyone who would do it with another woman and not their own wife. Sounds like maybe you guys might have a few things to talk over and get straight before you bring other people into your sexual relationship. JMO
I have asked him why and he doesn't want to hurt my feelings, that I know. But I can get very wet when excited and he said it was too slimey. At the INLOVERS, thanks for the idea of pH leverls being off! I never thought about it. I will ask my doctor about it. My husband mentioned a smell the few times he has tried. I had tried all I knew over the counter products and nothing changed. I am also slightly overweight and think that could also factor in. Thanks to everyonce so far for the advice!! Maybe we can figure things out and he can enjoy me in all my glory!!
Oral sex is great to give to a woman!! I love it!!
One person on here says she tastes better if she eats French Toast the day of, or was it the day before?

And once in a while the smell is funky, and you don't even want to finger it.
For me, I don't think there's anything hotter! I love going down on a woman, taste, smell, feel... Totally erotic!
Eating pineapple can improve smell and taste especially if regularly added to the diet. I love going down on a woman
i can only comment on this: before you two launch into this lifestyle, it is best not to have an unresolved issue,especially one like this one,get in the way of both of you having a fun, satisfying, & worry-free time. i can't emphasize enough what EVILDOERS stated about needing to talk things out. the last thing you want is to open yourselves up to possible relationship conflict involving other people, if you can find a solution first. together.checking with your doc is a wise 1st step: your smell could also be signal to other things (i.e.yeast infection,dietary deficiency),and some women have a stronger odor during certain times in their cycle (some right before their period, others right after). odor aside, his "slimeyness" feedback is a bit troubling because this is natural, though also differs from woman to woman. just do yourselves a favor by dealing with this issue earlier than later -- for your marriage's sake. good luck!
Too slimy??? What does he think he is going down there for, a cracker? Maybe he prefers cock. It's funny about oral. I love giving, but when it comes to receiving, I could take it or leave it.
Sometimes I am just completely entertained by some of the things that are shared on here. I mean seriously? TMI :)) Happy Eating LOL (Mrs. Curious)
but yes, it is a LOT of fun :)
Give him a taco and a hot dog for dinner tomorrow and see which one he prefers. My preference is for tacos, except it seams impossible to limit it to just one.
When I was a kid, an older man gave me the following advice:

"If it doesn't stink, don't eat it - it's turned".
Lol to everyone!! I know it was TMI but I did get some great advice, good answers and some really funny responses. Thanks everyone. My hubby was also happy with the responses and hopefully we can have loads more fun in the bedroom!!
If it wasn't meant to be eaten - it wouldn't look like a Taco.
the hubby would prefer tacos to hot dogs!! lol