just like i said, no one can get me off lately, people who have alwyas been able to make me scream and cum again and again are hardly getting any reaction out of me, amd new friends hung like no ones business get me close and can get me to squirt and off a little, cant get me to cum hard, it makes me a buit sad concidering NOW i cant have sex for 2 weeks, and i havent been truly pleased in a week, any ideas on what ,may be going on? im at a loss?
There are multiple reasons when this kind of thing happens. In my experience with women, most of it is a psychological barrier. Being able to let go and enjoy is sometimes harder than it sounds. As the male, I suffer from this as well sometimes, I can be hard, and enjoy it for an hour or so, but if I'm thinking about what I can do more of for her, or making sure that she gets satisfied, I won't cum.
Other times, it can be experimentation that helps. There are some nights that the sure fire positions will work, and then there are nights where something that usually works fo her will get me off. My advice would be not to stress about it, relax, and enjoy the pleasure you receive, and I'm sure it'll cum back soon enough.
Other times, it can be experimentation that helps. There are some nights that the sure fire positions will work, and then there are nights where something that usually works fo her will get me off. My advice would be not to stress about it, relax, and enjoy the pleasure you receive, and I'm sure it'll cum back soon enough.
Thanks friends, I probably just have too much going on in life right now, and I'm stressing
It's hard to let go sometimes. Our minds are pretty powerful... Typically if the mrs is stressing, I will give her a good sensual massage with some roaming hands and kisses, and it helps to relieve the stress and awaken the body. As cheesy as it sounds, some good mood music, and some massage oil can really awaken the senses to help you relax and enjoy the moment.
I feel your pain girl!!!!! My hubby is the only guy (or girl) that has ever been able to make me cum. 
I wish it weren't sooooooo difficult for me. Poor guy! It takes him forever!!!! UGH!!!! WHY?!?!?! I wish I were an easy O!!!!
I wish it weren't sooooooo difficult for me. Poor guy! It takes him forever!!!! UGH!!!! WHY?!?!?! I wish I were an easy O!!!!Well its all in ur head...most guys can get off fucking anything...so do what u need to do to focus in sex and get off...close ur eyes and imagine somethin better if nothing else works haha..
I am a Tantric massage provider and as funny as it sounds it has to do with the stress you feel. It starts when you start thinking I hope this one can get me off its been a long time.
I recommend to try and make it more intimate and less lets fuck to get off.
1. In tantric we start with what is call Bath Ceremony. You the female takes a nice hot bath with bath salts and bubbles and just relax. We pour warm water on the back of your neck and massage you and get you relaxed.
2. The we towel dry you in warm soft towels
3. Is the start of massage from head to toe, both back and front.
4. Sex and orgasm is never the goal but the relaxation and intimacy has a great effect of causing very powerful orgasms.
The relax and enjoy the sensations and try not to focus I need to cum.
Chad the Masseur
I recommend to try and make it more intimate and less lets fuck to get off.
1. In tantric we start with what is call Bath Ceremony. You the female takes a nice hot bath with bath salts and bubbles and just relax. We pour warm water on the back of your neck and massage you and get you relaxed.
2. The we towel dry you in warm soft towels
3. Is the start of massage from head to toe, both back and front.
4. Sex and orgasm is never the goal but the relaxation and intimacy has a great effect of causing very powerful orgasms.
The relax and enjoy the sensations and try not to focus I need to cum.
Chad the Masseur
Thanks for the thoughts, I guess I'll try again in 3 Weeks when I can have sex again,
Try adding a toy when playing... The Hitachi wand does wonders.
ISSUE152 wrote:
Thanks for the thoughts, I guess I'll try again in 3 Weeks when I can have sex again,
The majority of my extra playmates don't get me all the way off in the way it sounds like you're talking about. Hell, even with the hubby its a gamble as to whether I'm gonna be in the right state of mind. I really do have to be in the right state of mind as well as properly relaxed. I liked XSTARXXX's suggestion a lot. I'm gonna try it.
And toys are always a helpful addition. I don't rely on them and I don't like using them TOO much as to get dependent on the vibration speeds. But they're definitely useful to just give it a little bit of an extra push.
yes.. i take medication for my anxiety and i have issues getting there.. and i am a guy.. Some women love the fact i can go on and on but then they get bugged since i can't get off all the time.. I usually have to tell them strait up that it's not thier fault.
WHITECOCOCPL wrote:
Unless your on meds that would inhibit it.... I feel sorry for those that dont get.... So not trying to be an ass or anything but maybe some people just dont know what there doing... EVERY woman I have ever had sex with has hotten off or I wouldnt let myself off... If someone is really open minded to diversity and is secure let us know and we would get the job done...;-)
Ok maybe I need to rephrase this, I can get reallu wet
And have a few little O's but not like I'm used to
need help?
SPICEISNICE698 wrote:XSTARXXX1 wrote:
I am a Tantric massage provider and as funny as it sounds it has to do with the stress you feel. It starts when you start thinking I hope this one can get me off its been a long time.
I recommend to try and make it more intimate and less lets fuck to get off.
1. In tantric we start with what is call Bath Ceremony. You the female takes a nice hot bath with bath salts and bubbles and just relax. We pour warm water on the back of your neck and massage you and get you relaxed.
2. The we towel dry you in warm soft towels
3. Is the start of massage from head to toe, both back and front.
4. Sex and orgasm is never the goal but the relaxation and intimacy has a great effect of causing very powerful orgasms.
The relax and enjoy the sensations and try not to focus I need to cum.
Chad the Masseur
Where do. I the Mrs sign up?
AGEDTOPERFECTION wrote:
Sound's like ya broke it to me.
Dang-it I Hate It When That Happen's.
Off to the repair-shop with ya.
Your Medcation::
NO-SEX-NONE-FOR 14 Day's.
Then Call Us.....LOAO.....Wink-Wink
Now I'm on restrictions for 3 Weeks! So not happy!