so i met this guy on an actuall dating site, and found out hes a virgin, so i still need to get my sexual fix in, and im not by any ways exclusive with this guy, but he says hes ready to move past the virgin part of his life, i just dont know how to go about it, any ideas? also i do need my FIX of male or female sexual interaction, and im so sick and tired of the booty calls, cause it doesnt ever work. thanks for your help friends!
Is this a serious question?
Well virginity is not to be taken from someone lightly. He should know you are a play a. And if he wants you to teach him then have fun.
yes im being serious, and thanks maybemor!
Most men quit being a virgin around the age of 12 when they start to have wet dreams and masturbate. If he is like most men, the first time he is with a woman, he will go off quickly. So be tender and let him know the first time is special and that there is no rush or pressure. I know that does not help you condition but you can't expect a virgin to fix your needs.
As far as your needs go, get out of your comfort zone and try some older men. Some of us actually know a thing or two about sex and you might find that we have some things to teach you.
As far as your needs go, get out of your comfort zone and try some older men. Some of us actually know a thing or two about sex and you might find that we have some things to teach you.
yes i know and i love older men, i wasnt expecting this guy to satisfy my needs, but its been a LONG time since anyone has taught me anything new, 
This is funny! The guy probably just wants to get laid - doesn't really care so much about relationships. Of course, in the predominant Utah Culture of Repression, this poor boy was probably raised like I was that sex is to be had only within the bondage, I mean bonds, of marriage. He's probably way out on a limb here and may think he's got to have at least a meaningful relationship. Be honest with him about your needs, desires, and wishes.
As for learning something new... I don't know how many different women I've had sex with over the years because I don't count, no notches on my bedpost, but I learn something new almost every time. Sometimes it's just little nuances, nothing major. It's different and fun every time. I think we all have something to learn.
Mr. Sexperimentors
As for learning something new... I don't know how many different women I've had sex with over the years because I don't count, no notches on my bedpost, but I learn something new almost every time. Sometimes it's just little nuances, nothing major. It's different and fun every time. I think we all have something to learn.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Are you sure he's really a virgin? I would check his hymen to make sure. ;-) (Just kidding...sorta.) Had a friend in college who swore that telling chicks he was a virgin was THE best pick up line in the world. He claims he got SO much play with that line AND he often wasn't even asked to wear a condom because (let's say it together) "HE WAS A VIRGIN!". Of course karma is a total bitch and she don't like bein' played by a playa so now he's married to a totally frigid Mormon chick. LOL
SUGARSANDSPICE wrote:
Most men quit being a virgin around the age of 12 when they start to have wet dreams and masturbate. If he is like most men, the first time he is with a woman, he will go off quickly. So be tender and let him know the first time is special and that there is no rush or pressure. I know that does not help you condition but you can't expect a virgin to fix your needs.
As far as your needs go, get out of your comfort zone and try some older men. Some of us actually know a thing or two about sex and you might find that we have some things to teach you.
Not all guys are minute men their first time... I have a funny story about my first time....
Actually, I lost my virginity on here. I just lied to the girl and went about it. I gave her about 25-30 minutes of decent foreplay, and then gave her a really sucky, like, 4 minutes of sex.
If he says that he's ready to lose it, then he's ready to lose it, and it's his choice on how to go about it. By the time I decided I no longer cared about being a virgin when or if I got married, I wasn't dating anybody seriously, and honestly, finding somebody "special" wasn't going to happen anytime soon. And none of my "just friends" would do it. Nobody on here would believe I was a virgin, so I just lied and went for it. So I say this is his choice. Be up front with him about how you feel, and let him make the decision.
If he says that he's ready to lose it, then he's ready to lose it, and it's his choice on how to go about it. By the time I decided I no longer cared about being a virgin when or if I got married, I wasn't dating anybody seriously, and honestly, finding somebody "special" wasn't going to happen anytime soon. And none of my "just friends" would do it. Nobody on here would believe I was a virgin, so I just lied and went for it. So I say this is his choice. Be up front with him about how you feel, and let him make the decision.
I've known a lot of guys, who have used the 'virgin' story a lot of times - but I can honestly say this is the first time I've ever seen anyone appear to actually have any luck with it.
Only one way to find out for sure.....sacrifice him to the gods if they bless you then he really was a virgin if not well guess he was lying (downside if they do bless you then you missed out on poping the guys cherry )
LUCKY-N-NAUGHTY wrote:
Only one way to find out for sure.....sacrifice him to the gods if they bless you then he really was a virgin if not well guess he was lying (downside if they do bless you then you missed out on poping the guys cherry )
is it actually FUN to pop a guy's cherry?JEFFSMITH1972 wrote:LUCKY-N-NAUGHTY wrote:
Only one way to find out for sure.....sacrifice him to the gods if they bless you then he really was a virgin if not well guess he was lying (downside if they do bless you then you missed out on poping the guys cherry )
Its simply amusing to have those bragging rights later. I think.
heh.....yeah.....
yes being the first does give some amazing bragging rights later. When I look back at high school I get a silly grin cause I was the first for a guy I was seeing in highschool. One of the benefits of virgins is you can teach them what u like without much resistance. If he says he is ready go for it. Who knows could be worth it in the end
I dont know about other guys but my first time lasted a while. Cause I really focused on the task of not cumming early, so I didn't look like a pussy. She was more experienced than I and no way was I embarrassing myself. Maybe that guy has self control and will still be a good time..cause from what I've seen of guys.. its mostly all the same , guys humping up and down, occassionally grabbing a tits and then cumming. A few go extra mile. But rare
It seems that most young males are always in a hurry to satisfy their selves and I can not say that I was an exception to the rule. They tend to see women as a pair of tits and a pussy. Too often their only thought is for a new place to stick their dick. They offer stamina in place of skill and that is not all bad.
It is my personal feeling that a young man is lucky when he has an older and more experienced woman to teach him sexual truth. But that teaching is clearly frowned upon by society in Utah. I say older because I do not believe that young women know anything more about sex than the males of their age group.
In some cultures the mother takes her son at his coming of age and introduces him to one of her lady friends. It is then the job of this older woman to teach him the finer points of sexual play. Sadly, in this country it is usually left completely to chance and a slam bam romp.
It should be no surprise that most men learn about sex on the street through the stories of other men. Most often those stories are simply lies to impress the young and stupid. From my youth I can not say that the sex magazines were of much help in giving us correct information. I guess that is one of the reasons I don
It is my personal feeling that a young man is lucky when he has an older and more experienced woman to teach him sexual truth. But that teaching is clearly frowned upon by society in Utah. I say older because I do not believe that young women know anything more about sex than the males of their age group.
In some cultures the mother takes her son at his coming of age and introduces him to one of her lady friends. It is then the job of this older woman to teach him the finer points of sexual play. Sadly, in this country it is usually left completely to chance and a slam bam romp.
It should be no surprise that most men learn about sex on the street through the stories of other men. Most often those stories are simply lies to impress the young and stupid. From my youth I can not say that the sex magazines were of much help in giving us correct information. I guess that is one of the reasons I don
MISSSMITHNSIRNEWBY wrote:
Fuck him already! And then tell us how it went!
Sir Newby
Fuck telling us! Get it on video and SHOW us!
get your cam working on chat and show us all there!!!
I have to say my first time was with my hubby. He wasn't a virgin and I new right away that I loved him and wanted to sleep with him before I was married. So Have fun with it and just let him know how you fell cause if it's his first time he will be nervous!!
You met someone who has never seen the Rocky Horror Picture Show?
/Obscure?
/Obscure?
SUGARSANDSPICE wrote:That's the biggest bunch of B.S. we've ever heard. I don't care if you beat your meat like it owes you money! Wet dreams don't count either! Until you actually have sex with someone, you're a virgin in the literal sense. Period. Your posts are welcomed and you have every right to say what you want, but frankly there's a big difference between replying in these posts, and always telling all of us what we should think, how we should feel, blah blah blah. I don't know what makes you a pro on EVERYTHING, but I think most of us would appreciate you trying to change the manner in how you come across in these forums. And for hell's sake, change your picture. LOL. We don't know whether to take you serious or buy insurance from you. We mean no offense whatsoever, but PLEASE take some of this into consideration or I'm gonna fucking hang myself! Have a nice day friend.
Most men quit being a virgin around the age of 12 when they start to have wet dreams and masturbate. If he is like most men, the first time he is with a woman, he will go off quickly. So be tender and let him know the first time is special and that there is no rush or pressure. I know that does not help you condition but you can't expect a virgin to fix your needs.
As far as your needs go, get out of your comfort zone and try some older men. Some of us actually know a thing or two about sex and you might find that we have some things to teach you.
Johnny-The-Rock
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It seems that most young males are always in a hurry to satisfy their selves and I can not say that I was an exception to the rule. They tend to see women as a pair of tits and a pussy. Too often their only thought is for a new place to stick their dick. They offer stamina in place of skill and that is not all bad.
It is my personal feeling that a young man is lucky when he has an older and more experienced woman to teach him sexual truth. But that teaching is clearly frowned upon by society in Utah. I say older because I do not believe that young women know anything more about sex than the males of their age group.
In some cultures the mother takes her son at his coming of age and introduces him to one of her lady friends. It is then the job of this older woman to teach him the finer points of sexual play. Sadly, in this country it is usually left completely to chance and a slam bam romp.
It should be no surprise that most men learn about sex on the street through the stories of other men. Most often those stories are simply lies to impress the young and stupid. From my youth I can not say that the sex magazines were of much help in giving us correct information. I guess that is one of the reasons I don
It seems that most young males are always in a hurry to satisfy their selves and I can not say that I was an exception to the rule. They tend to see women as a pair of tits and a pussy. Too often their only thought is for a new place to stick their dick. They offer stamina in place of skill and that is not all bad.
It is my personal feeling that a young man is lucky when he has an older and more experienced woman to teach him sexual truth. But that teaching is clearly frowned upon by society in Utah. I say older because I do not believe that young women know anything more about sex than the males of their age group.
In some cultures the mother takes her son at his coming of age and introduces him to one of her lady friends. It is then the job of this older woman to teach him the finer points of sexual play. Sadly, in this country it is usually left completely to chance and a slam bam romp.
It should be no surprise that most men learn about sex on the street through the stories of other men. Most often those stories are simply lies to impress the young and stupid. From my youth I can not say that the sex magazines were of much help in giving us correct information. I guess that is one of the reasons I don
ISSUE152 wrote:I'm a virgin! Teach me! I might act like I know what I'm doing, but it's all from watching movies! HEHE
so i met this guy on an actuall dating site, and found out hes a virgin, so i still need to get my sexual fix in, and im not by any ways exclusive with this guy, but he says hes ready to move past the virgin part of his life, i just dont know how to go about it, any ideas? also i do need my FIX of male or female sexual interaction, and im so sick and tired of the booty calls, cause it doesnt ever work. thanks for your help friends!