Is it pretty common for at least one of the partners in a newbie couple to be overly self concious or overly reserved in their earlier encounters. Even more frustrating, when they chat they truely feel they are ready then get to the game and freeze up
We learned the same way. It's a different ball game when you're starting out. Basically what we learned was to take our time, and make sure that everyone is comfortable first. Talk about it with the couple to let them know where you're coming from (no pun intended). As you begin to meet people those walls will start to come down over time, so just relax and try to have fun, and do what feels right! Good luck!!
Time, time time and nooooooo pressure or expectations.
As children we are taught a set of rules to live by. I was not taught and I doubt that most of us were not taught to be swingers. In fact I would guess that most of us were taught that such activities were wrong and immoral and that imprinting does not change easily.
We may logically decide to break societies
We may logically decide to break societies