So we found out a, while ago that I (Mr) have a male cousin and his wife that are not in the lifestyle but do have 3sums with girls and are open to new things? So we invited them to come with us to a house party and all was, fine and dandy and everything was coo, and even when things, started getting Hot (no pepole not kissing cousins) and clothes started coming off things got going between couples and girls my wife and my cousins wife were nervous and worried about being nude, and playing while either of us men were around, but they both said that it didn't bother them to be nude around each other. Neither of us (boys) have any concerns or desire to play with each others wives. Now when I introduced them to the party pepole there were a,few shocked looks and, comments but everyone was cool with it and we had a great time and plan to party again. We all think that it was awsome to be able to share this with pepole we trust and can be open with we think that because it was the first time and it was just a new thing and hope it all gets more Comfortable for the ladies and they can just relax and be able to let their hair down and have fun:-) ! So we are just opening it up for your thoughts and comments.
MOJO7189 wrote:
Well in Puerto Rico 3rd cousins are fair game any closer if faux pah.
Lol that would be ok with us but like we said we're not trying or wanting to swap worth each other just be comfortable being naked and playing with OTHERS while at that same party there's nooooooo problem with playing at the same party per say but it the girls(wives) I guess being in view of us guys.
Like anything else that generally pops up in the forums (pun intended), it's dependent on the situation. We have run into family, exes, friends from school, etc., and it all goes on who's comfortable with what. When it comes to nudity, we generally have no problem showing off the goods, when it comes to play, that might be another story given the company. Most people in the LS are private enough and want discretion as much as everyone else. Bottom line, do what feel right, and pass on the other times. Have fun!
If it works for you, then what others think shouldn't even be of concern to you.
SPEXDEX wrote:
Like anything else that generally pops up in the forums (pun intended), it's dependent on the situation. We have run into family, exes, friends from school, etc., and it all goes on who's comfortable with what. When it comes to nudity, we generally have no problem showing off the goods, when it comes to play, that might be another story given the company. Most people in the LS are private enough and want discretion as much as everyone else. Bottom line, do what feel right, and pass on the other times. Have fun!
That's kinda or thoughts also . Its.all about the girls and their comfort...
Cousins? This is Utah. This is the only place you can have your very own self contained orgy (by throwing in a few sister wives). ;-)
(ps- We've partied with some couples where the girls were identical twin sisters...yeah, you've never had a freaky bj until you've looked down at two hotties that look just like each other gobbling yer knob.)
(ps- We've partied with some couples where the girls were identical twin sisters...yeah, you've never had a freaky bj until you've looked down at two hotties that look just like each other gobbling yer knob.)
What about a sister in law?
EDANY0178 wrote:
What about a sister in law?
Past or present. Um I think that would b ok also but again we're nor taking about swapping wives just being able to party naked and even play with others While being around.one another like same room stuff lol
EDANY0178 wrote:
What about a sister in law?
Game on!
what
What does your brother say about it and, what she look like and if everyones cool and comfY then I also say game on
SPEXDEX wrote:EDANY0178 wrote:
What about a sister in law?
Game on!
What does your brother say about it and, what she look like and if everyones cool and comfY then I also say game on
SPEXDEX wrote:Awesome lolEDANY0178 wrote:
What about a sister in law?
Game on!
DDRIVER03 wrote:
whatSPEXDEX wrote:
[quote=EDANY0178]What about a sister in law?
Game on!
What does your brother say about it and, what she look like and if everyones cool and comfY then I also say game on[/quote]Its the wifes sister she wants to play with me and the brother in law wants the wife but the wife doesn't she says that is kinda weird lol i say game on but wife is hesitant
Well that's what's important, if everyone isn't in it, no dice. Everyone's cool, go for it! All varies on comfort levels. And I mean come on, who wouldn't want to see your sexy wife?
Same room?, it might be a little close to home
SPEXDEX wrote:She says thanks! !!! she is cool to have her way with him she just dont know about me and her sister lol. I say game on cause she is just as hot as my wife
Well that's what's important, if everyone isn't in it, no dice. Everyone's cool, go for it! All varies on comfort levels. And I mean come on, who wouldn't want to see your sexy wife?
SPEXDEX wrote:She says thanks! !!! she is cool to have her way with him she just dont know about me and her sister lol. I say game on cause she is just as hot as my wife
Well that's what's important, if everyone isn't in it, no dice. Everyone's cool, go for it! All varies on comfort levels. And I mean come on, who wouldn't want to see your sexy wife?
EDANY0178 wrote:DDRIVER03 wrote:
what [quote=SPEXDEX][quote=EDANY0178]What about a sister in law?
Game on!
What does your brother say about it and, what she look like and if everyones cool and comfY then I also say game on[/quote]Its the wifes sister she wants to play with me and the brother in law wants the wife but the wife doesn't she says that is kinda weird lol i say game on but wife is hesitant [/quote]
now would the ladies be comfortable playing with other people while everybody was in the same place together? And be ok with being naked around the others husbands?
DDRIVER03 wrote:EDANY0178 wrote:
[quote=DDRIVER03] what [quote=SPEXDEX][quote=EDANY0178]What about a sister in law?
Game on!
What does your brother say about it and, what she look like and if everyones cool and comfY then I also say game on[/quote]Its the wifes sister she wants to play with me and the brother in law wants the wife but the wife doesn't she says that is kinda weird lol i say game on but wife is hesitant [/quote]
now would the ladies be comfortable playing with other people while everybody was in the same place together? And be ok with being naked around the others husbands?[/quote]boy i hope so
DDRIVER03 wrote:EDANY0178 wrote:
[quote=DDRIVER03] what [quote=SPEXDEX][quote=EDANY0178]What about a sister in law?
Game on!
What does your brother say about it and, what she look like and if everyones cool and comfY then I also say game on[/quote]Its the wifes sister she wants to play with me and the brother in law wants the wife but the wife doesn't she says that is kinda weird lol i say game on but wife is hesitant [/quote]
now would the ladies be comfortable playing with other people while everybody was in the same place together? And be ok with being naked around the others husbands?[/quote]boy i hope so
We have family that ends up at the same parties we're attending. We just don't full on play in front of them. And no... not even in front of my sister-in-law. lulz.
EDANY0178 wrote:SPEXDEX wrote:She says thanks! !!! she is cool to have her way with him she just dont know about me and her sister lol. I say game on cause she is just as hot as my wife
Well that's what's important, if everyone isn't in it, no dice. Everyone's cool, go for it! All varies on comfort levels. And I mean come on, who wouldn't want to see your sexy wife?
All I'd say is have a chat with each other to discuss what's cool, and that way no one crosses any weird lines. Other than that, I'm sure you guys would have a blast.
Lol this is taking a fun twist
That's what she said...
Lol so it sounds like we all need to have a swingers family reunion and instead of swapping wives we all swap, families. Lol
Ummmm not wanting to marry any cousins our have sex with them. But back in the day they would marry cousins in order to take care of those thst are widows and have lost the man of the house.
DDRIVER03 wrote:Now thats funny!!!
Lol so it sounds like we all need to have a swingers family reunion and instead of swapping wives we all swap, families. Lol
Hey can you pass the potatoes, eh forget it, can you pass your wife over here?
SPEXDEX wrote:
Hey can you pass the potatoes, eh forget it, can you pass your wife over here?
Lmao !! Or maybe the frog eyes salad.. You know what i'm talking about
I host swing parties and fun meet and greet only parties and there are times a family member may want to attend them, but not to have sex with me or my hubby...lol, they just enjoy dancing, with no pressures, dressing up sexy and just hang out with great folks who know how to party, with respect, but they know they are in a safe environment at all times and can enjoy themselves how they want, without offending anyone, and some thinks it's cool to have that great of an understanding, so all can enjoy what they like, no matter who is at the parties.
Well I'm from tennessee, so I think its all fair game! Just kidding lol. As long as ur not touching each other, no problem. Sex and nudity are natural. God didn't invent clothes
RELEASEDINHIBITIONS wrote:
I have an aunt who is a widower and is now married to her cousin. They got married for time in the LDS Temple. She can no longer have children so the First Presidency said it is no problem. This brings up an interesting related question. If the LDS First Presidency is ok with cousins having sexual relations, why do so many of us freak out by the very thought of it? They are adults, they are cognoscente, they are consenting, and they aren't having kids. Is the Church wrong? Or are we just a bunch of prudes even in this lifestyle?
For those of us that have left the church the answer would be yes and yes. Lots of people and churches have double standards. The last time I checked up on it. The LDS church is against abortion but a baby that is still born can not be sealed under the covenant or given a name or have rights for the dead done for them. LDS history clearly references the breath of life. They say no sex out side of marriage but do not want Gay folks to marry.
Except for the fact that I do not wish to go to jail I could walk down the street naked or have sex in the public square. Now compare that with the woman that has never used a mirror to look at her own privates and you begin to see the great difference of opinions.
So if you believe that marriage and sex is for procreation you would have one answer and if you believe that it is only recreational you may have another. I see it as nothing but a property dispute.
Well I say, "fuck the dogs and sale the pups".
If you are giving the example that the Moron Church "says" its OK, just because they cannot procreate! That is just another example of their justifications. Like, "I don't drink coffee", but I can have all the Mnt Dew (three times the amount of caffeine as Starbucks). Peeps, I hope you are not "that" stupid to buy in.
To each their own, there are reasons you shouldn't fuck your relatives.
1. My Big Fat American Wedding
2. Swamp People
3. Moonshiners
I could go on, but you get the drift. Just dont try giving justification that the Moron Church said shit. Hell, most of the bishops and so forth sit back in bishops court and masturbate about all the juicy details and feel that they have to judge you. So please keep the church quotes out of here.
I am sure you can and will run into extended family at some point if you play hard and long enough. I have seen my ex-sister in-law at a function. I just told her she was looking good, but you (I) wouldn't want to fuck her no matter how hot she is. I bet that a third of you guys and half the women on this site have seen her and had that thought of "oh, what would I give to do that, to her". Just means hand off for us. And she isn't even blood. Sometimes its ok to have and awkward moment. Now it is funny to see her at parties. We talk and laugh just like best friends now at parties and it is ok. You have to understand that they are most likely just as perverted as you. Remember, that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
So the next time you see one of them and you have your ass hanging in the air (because that is why we are there in the first place) and in walks whatever co-worker, friend, family. Just say," Hey, does this chick I am fucking make my ass look fat"????????????? ;p
If you are giving the example that the Moron Church "says" its OK, just because they cannot procreate! That is just another example of their justifications. Like, "I don't drink coffee", but I can have all the Mnt Dew (three times the amount of caffeine as Starbucks). Peeps, I hope you are not "that" stupid to buy in.
To each their own, there are reasons you shouldn't fuck your relatives.
1. My Big Fat American Wedding
2. Swamp People
3. Moonshiners
I could go on, but you get the drift. Just dont try giving justification that the Moron Church said shit. Hell, most of the bishops and so forth sit back in bishops court and masturbate about all the juicy details and feel that they have to judge you. So please keep the church quotes out of here.
I am sure you can and will run into extended family at some point if you play hard and long enough. I have seen my ex-sister in-law at a function. I just told her she was looking good, but you (I) wouldn't want to fuck her no matter how hot she is. I bet that a third of you guys and half the women on this site have seen her and had that thought of "oh, what would I give to do that, to her". Just means hand off for us. And she isn't even blood. Sometimes its ok to have and awkward moment. Now it is funny to see her at parties. We talk and laugh just like best friends now at parties and it is ok. You have to understand that they are most likely just as perverted as you. Remember, that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
So the next time you see one of them and you have your ass hanging in the air (because that is why we are there in the first place) and in walks whatever co-worker, friend, family. Just say," Hey, does this chick I am fucking make my ass look fat"????????????? ;p
Again let me try to rescue this thread.from the religion and fucking your family topic some . It's about who's comfy with what around family, good freinds and .those we know.. This has been a good thread thanks guys
And calypso1.very , good points on why you shouldn't fuck family lol
I still think i would fuck my sister in law llol
every time i think of it i think of the show joe dirt he he he
every time i think of it i think of the show joe dirt he he he
Well, EDANY. If she is half as cute as your girl, who could blame you!!!!!!!!
My point exact of how do you feel comfy with whom.
So the next time you see one of them and you have your ass hanging in the air (because that is why we are there in the first place) and in walks whatever co-worker, friend, family. Just say," Hey, does this chick I am fucking make my ass look fat"????????????? ;p
So the next time you see one of them and you have your ass hanging in the air (because that is why we are there in the first place) and in walks whatever co-worker, friend, family. Just say," Hey, does this chick I am fucking make my ass look fat"????????????? ;p
oh is she ever lol
CALYPSO1 wrote:
My point exact of how do you feel comfy with whom.
So the next time you see one of them and you have your ass hanging in the air (because that is why we are there in the first place) and in walks whatever co-worker, friend, family. Just say," Hey, does this chick I am fucking make my ass look fat"????????????? ;p
That's some funny shit there.....
Only problem I've had is with fellow swinging family members outing me to the rest of the family. And somehow the source is thought to be wholesomely vanilla. :S
I have noticed that if just own something (swinging) with exuberance (like, yes i do and it a blast to play with titties and fuck some gorgeous woman while my girl is blowing me) hey, you should come with us next time!!!!!
They wont try to oust you if they know you are not hiding anything or that they know it doesnt phase you. Hell, I have many admirers and they want to hear all the hot things that I play coy with. It just adds to the mystic.
They wont try to oust you if they know you are not hiding anything or that they know it doesnt phase you. Hell, I have many admirers and they want to hear all the hot things that I play coy with. It just adds to the mystic.
I do think there's a difference between outing me in general and outing me to people that would make my life miserable for knowing. For example: I don't care if my vanilla friends know and my (the wife) family knows. And a few various other relatives know. but certain people just don't handle that sort of information very well and aren't very nice about it. i don't go around doing a song and dance about my sexual escapades. wouldn't do that if i were a boring vanilla either. but respectful friends finding out that i swing doesn't bother me. that's just my 2 cents anyways.
CALYPSO1 wrote:
Well, EDANY. If she is half as cute as your girl, who could blame you!!!!!!!!
We well second that motion, all in favor say i. I I I I
CALYPSO1 wrote:
I have noticed that if just own something (swinging) with exuberance (like, yes i do and it a blast to play with titties and fuck some gorgeous woman while my girl is blowing me) hey, you should come with us next time!!!!!
They wont try to oust you if they know you are not hiding anything or that they know it doesnt phase you. Hell, I have many admirers and they want to hear all the hot things that I play coy with. It just adds to the mystic.
Exactly, I don't want certain pepole to know about this but if it happens then I deal with the consquinces, and also look at it this way they are doing it also and make sure thst your the first to out them if shit happens lol . own who you r and let wwwhat happens happen do your best to protect yourself and live life yoo:-) and maybe of my problem is thst I do care what pepole think about me and what I do and I also have the aditude of this if me take it or get the F away! I've tired to make everyone happy and, it don't work and only make people me more miserable cause i'm never happy:-) . God blessed me with the perfect woman, yes there is such a woman, probly more than one but I found mine.. She gets me and understands me and it works.
Well sure IIIIIIIIIIIIII
It does not matter if it is family or on here. If you have to live your life worrying about what someone else might say or do are you really living your life or theirs? How much of a lie do we want to live? If you are worried about it, don
[quote=SUGARSANDSPICE]It does not matter if it is family or on here. If you have to live your life worrying about what someone else might say or do are you really living your life or theirs? How much of a lie do we want to live? If you are worried about it, don