We've noticed that a good number of couples' profiles have 1, 2, or even 10 or more pictures of the female half of the couple. Different angles, outfits, genitalia showing or not...
But not even a face pic of the male half. Or, only one pic, and it's just their dick...
It's frustrating, really. If we're interested in the couple's profile, and the looks of the woman, we're hesitant to make contact for fear of finding that she may be married to Frankenstein's monster.
Is there a reason for this behavior? Why do many couples hesitate to share pics of the male half? We're just trying to understand. Any insight is appreciated.
But not even a face pic of the male half. Or, only one pic, and it's just their dick...
It's frustrating, really. If we're interested in the couple's profile, and the looks of the woman, we're hesitant to make contact for fear of finding that she may be married to Frankenstein's monster.
Is there a reason for this behavior? Why do many couples hesitate to share pics of the male half? We're just trying to understand. Any insight is appreciated.
Women are a lot more fun to look at than men! Ergo - more pics of women. I agree though, while it's great to have a sexy picture of the lovely lady, it's also nice to have a picture of the troll that lives under her bridge.
No guy pic tells you all you need to know. One hot one not.
PERSEPHONE77 wrote:
I have found more often then not, that it is because the men are not as attractive as the wife and they use those pictures to "bait" a conversation, when what they are really doing is delaying the inevitable and wasting their time and others time because eventually we are going to see what you look like!
I was just thinking about how annoying this very issue was last night and lo and behold here it is on the forum.
Also, I would love to see the majority of couples follow the conscientious example of the minority and when they send an email IDENTIFY WHO IS ACTUALLLY SENDING THE EMAIL. Sometimes its both, but most times its the guy, either way it is very important info to know when you are a single female... it sets up the whole dynamic.
You could have not set it any better and agree!
MAYBEMOR wrote:
No guy pic tells you all you need to know. One hot one not.
Sorry we don't agree with this blanket statement. Sometimes it's true and sometimes it's not. It's like saying every profile that doesn't have face pics then the couple is ugly. Girls are a lot more fun to look at than guys are. But a balance is nice.
I get that people don't want their face plastered for all to see. In general I agree, a balance of pics is nice to see and an imbalance causes a few red flags.
For me it is just the opposite. She has to worry and I do not. It does make a difference.
PERSEPHONE77 wrote:
I just got an email from a couple who have (in my opinion) the best concept of what a "couple profile pic" should be. BOTH of them hugging each other and smiling! Bravo!!! Isn't that what we all READ on these profiles?.... How happily married everyone states they are!?!?!? So let us SEE IT! My challange is for all the couple out there to switch their profile pics to one of them with the love of their life and put THAT on DISPLAY! I see so many profiles that state they are on the site to enhance what they have so ... show us what that is
We like your concept persephone, but our "couple" pic of us smiling is in the "private" album.
It's often that we look at couple's pics but only after adding them and reading their profile. It's not always about the pic but a general sense of who they may be. We do agree also that there should be more idea of who the male half is by showing more than just a blurred pic or penis shot. Our private pics don't have any penis shots and only one pic of "us". Perhaps we should add more.
It's weird, we have pics of the both of us in our private album, can't in public for discretion purposes. I guess I just don't see my pics as sexy as hers. I have a few in there, but just don't know how to do the "sexy" look...lol
I would be interested in getting some better pics taken, just not sure how it'd work out. Either way, we are both represented in our private album for people to see what they'd be meeting...lol. It's a bit of a red flag for us when there are no pics of the male half, we aren't just going to meet the female half...
I would be interested in getting some better pics taken, just not sure how it'd work out. Either way, we are both represented in our private album for people to see what they'd be meeting...lol. It's a bit of a red flag for us when there are no pics of the male half, we aren't just going to meet the female half...
The mrs definately has a few more in our public album cause shes the hottie, but we always post plenty of the mr because we want the attraction to be to both of us and not just one since we come as a set...lol
WOLFMAJESTIC wrote:
The mrs definately has a few more in our public album cause shes the hottie, but we always post plenty of the mr because we want the attraction to be to both of us and not just one since we come as a set...lol
Well said!
We want - and need - to see the male half. We dont really care if there are pics in the initial profile, but in the private section, you had better show us the complete package. And that would include a body and a face to that cock, please. We like to see smiles and no matter what, we all make a opinions based on first impressions, so share with us who you are. Pictures offer a lot of insight to personalities, not just skin.
Pictures offer a lot of insight to personalities, not just skin.We understand blurred faces in the public album but if there isn't a picture of both halves of a couple we automatically ignore the profile, unless we have met them in real life. (close ups of genitalia don't count as pictures of either one of you. We want to see the person, preferably in a shot that says something about your personality as well)
I am a professional photographer and have had my own business for 7 years. I have done a few profile pictures for a couple and a single guy on here, as well as some for my own business. I would LOVE the opportunity to do more. I truly believe that pictures make all the difference on these sites, and having a professional who knows how to pose you with the correct angles is paramount. Since this is my livelihood, I do charge, but am currently offering half off, so it's only $100. You'd receive a disk of images, and the peace of mind that your photographer is in the lifestyle and doesn't want to be "outed" either, so discretion is always priority. Email me if you are interested, and if you want to organize an event, I'd be game!
There are actually several really good lifestyle photographers in the SLC area. I think it would be a LOT of fun to have a photo shoot M&G at the Mansion. If you can put it together at a time when we can come we'd love to!
D & R
D & R
Hmmmmmmmm. Pictures? Making alluring pix of people from here has been, so far, a blast!
We definitely like to see pics of both...usually if its one persons pics and not another-- there is a reason...lol
It is amazing to me that there are not pictures of both in many profiles and we too are here for both. We all take "artistic" pictures to show off our best "ass"ets. There are pictures of both of us and neither of us is perfect by any means but we are more than a picture, but we try to show you the best of us. Not only is pics of only the female half annoying - current pictures would be helpful, and hey maybe clean your room. If you are wondering what I could possibly mean...wedding photos, 2007, or a two pixel pic just won't cut it. I love seeing how cute you maybe were in high school, but...be creative and at least cut off the date visible on the pic.
I'm glad to see I'm not alone! lol
COUPLES profiles with pics of only the female = SINGLE FEMALE profile.
We feel that if you're going to classify yourselves as a COUPLE then you should represent it as one and not as a single profile. My wife should NOT have to ask to see pictures of the male side of the house. We've caught on really quick and don't even bother with these "single female" profiles anymore. Sorry people, if you have nothing to offer my wife = we instantly move onto a profile that does show pics of the male side of the house. All we want to see (at first) is what both members of the couple look like CLOTHED in a few pics. If it's a discretion issue, that's fine and blur the faces. If you're interested in us and send us an email without sending along a face pic of BOTH of you in your email, we won't ask to see what you look like and delete the email.
We feel that if you're going to classify yourselves as a COUPLE then you should represent it as one and not as a single profile. My wife should NOT have to ask to see pictures of the male side of the house. We've caught on really quick and don't even bother with these "single female" profiles anymore. Sorry people, if you have nothing to offer my wife = we instantly move onto a profile that does show pics of the male side of the house. All we want to see (at first) is what both members of the couple look like CLOTHED in a few pics. If it's a discretion issue, that's fine and blur the faces. If you're interested in us and send us an email without sending along a face pic of BOTH of you in your email, we won't ask to see what you look like and delete the email.
i the male half have about 5 pictures of myself in this computer while my wife has at least 2,000 shes got pictures everywhere in every file, she just went out three days ago and took a bunch more and brought home 200 dollars so i guess i cant complain to much, heres one of the pics she just took a couple days ago. i still dont have any of myself 
Don't be shy guys! There's no need to pose awkwardly and give your best "smolder", just add pictures of yourself doing something you love to do. The more physical it is, the sexier. (weight lifting, snowboarding, basketball, etc.) I love seeing guys in action. A creative guy with a funny picture has the potential to outshine any cute girl pose in my book.
The best pictures, of course, are couples having fun together, in or outside the bedroom. It communicates much more then looks.
The best pictures, of course, are couples having fun together, in or outside the bedroom. It communicates much more then looks.
And we have also learned that body glimpse pics are a good indication of less than fit bodies. I boob ,or a butt, or a pic in heavy clothes don't reveal what body types they have. Own it. So we like to see complete body shots showing neck to hips. And if you can't understand that some have the need to be discreet and not complain that we don't even have face pics in private then you are not our type anyway and will not be getting a face pic email from us.
Meh. I figure its based on personal preference and how the couple wants to deal with their profile and pics. If I don't care for someone's profile and/or their choice of pics isn't something that interests me... there's a bajillion OTHER profiles to browse. So i move right along. 
MOJO7189 wrote:
Well not just seeing both members, but seeing more than one picture I understand the racy stuff is left for friends access only, but We feel common courtesy calls for than one picture.
I gotta figure its prolly something left up to individual personal preference. Perhaps there's a reason for the way they organize their pics and where they list multiple or lack of multiple pics. There's definitely a good reason behind why I run my profile the way I do.
We've had the same discussions. It's hard to grab a
(Shyly raising hand from corner) I love photographing couples and will give you amazing images to use for your profile or just for you and your partner. Email me if you want some professional pictures that show the best of your body, and make your personality shine.
Regardless of those who may be bored with the topic... This has been a helpful post for my wife and me. I have resisted putting pictures of ME up on the albums because I thought they were not what people wanted to see.
Thanks for all the comments.
Thanks for all the comments.
We have both the SM profile and a couples profile here. We used to have just a great shot of Mrs. Imagine for our profile pic and recently changed it to a fun one of the two of us. We have received many compliments on the switch. I do think it's good to show that we do actually really love each other.
So why also a SM profile, some of you may ask? Well, we have decided that this is a direction we want to go, and have agreed to open up to my having a play partner (or two... ). But if you read through that profile you will see that it clearly acknowledges that I am married and my wife is on board. And that you can find out more about us on our couples profile.
I'm wondering how many other couples also have a SF or SM profile?
So why also a SM profile, some of you may ask? Well, we have decided that this is a direction we want to go, and have agreed to open up to my having a play partner (or two...
). But if you read through that profile you will see that it clearly acknowledges that I am married and my wife is on board. And that you can find out more about us on our couples profile. I'm wondering how many other couples also have a SF or SM profile?
JANDY275 wrote:we're inHOTCOUPLE2TAKE wrote:
We should get a photo shoot event going. We need to get some fun new pics of us together for our profile.
I have gotten permission to use the mansion for such a shoot....now all I need is a photographer.
IMAGINEMEANDYOU wrote:
I'm wondering how many other couples also have a SF or SM profile?
We have two profiles, but they're both listed as couples since regardless of play style, we're a couple. Again something everyone likes to bitch and moan about, but its what works for us.
Its all about the earliest of time when..........A girl would take hours preparing in front of a mirror.......Boys would wait til the last minute and possibly hide when a picture is taken.
Sugar and spice and every thing nice......That is what little girls are made of.
Snakes and snails, and puppy dog tails....That is what little boys are made of.
Wish there were more pics of men but most men hate to take picture.....Unless he is drunk off his ass and then you get the full monty hehehe
Though I try to convince my husband to smile he seems to pull off a very good mug shot....mean as a mo-fo....haha but I love that boyish smile I get from time to time......That makes up for those pics he seemed way to serious in lol
Sugar and spice and every thing nice......That is what little girls are made of.
Snakes and snails, and puppy dog tails....That is what little boys are made of.
Wish there were more pics of men but most men hate to take picture.....Unless he is drunk off his ass and then you get the full monty hehehe
Though I try to convince my husband to smile he seems to pull off a very good mug shot....mean as a mo-fo....haha but I love that boyish smile I get from time to time......That makes up for those pics he seemed way to serious in lol
surely some lack of guy pics can be attributed to gals taking less pics.. its not all because the guy said no just gals dont grab a camera as often as guys... as a general rule from a few guys Ive talked to about the subject.
Not only this but reluctance once contact has been established to share face pics. Not sure about most of you, but the face is honestly more important than the body in most cases. Not many of me on our profile, but they are there (as stated bfore girls are much better to look at :-). SHARE please :-)