Femdom- or female domination. Scenes in which the dominant partner is female, being the opposite of the more common, widespread and traditional role of female submission. This means a role playing event. Our Surrender event coming up in June is a chance to explore this world. It can be as light as telling your male partner to massage your feet or tying him to a cross and torturing him. Where ever you set your comfort level is ok. It is ok if you'd just like to be a voyeur as well and watch others. Or you can just sit in the hot tub or around the fire pit outside if you'd like. Feel free to ask us any questions in the forum or the Mistresses in charge that night will explain more and help anyone that has questions.
If I, the female half is very submissive and would like another female to dominate me. Is that ok?
Yes, there are ladies that would love to be your dom for the evening. They could dominate you both or just you and have you do things to your hubby.
We are preparing the yard for the event. This weekend we are having two patios poured one lower by the house and one in the upper yard by a large koi pond. Each 1000 sq ft. We are also having bullfrog spas deliver their largest spa next week. There is also a large fire pit area further away from the activities.
Looks like we will have a large tent set up on the main lawn with bondage equipment. Those wishing to soak in the hot tub, hang out by the fire, play or socialize in the art studio or living room, or just watch porn are free to relax and enjoy the evening as they wish.
Your chance to be a voyour, find a quiet spot in the yard and play alone, invite others to watch or participate. Plenty of room and space to find privacy or be in the thick of the action.
We hope to create an atmosphere where you are free to participate at whatever level you feel comfortable.
Simples
Looks like we will have a large tent set up on the main lawn with bondage equipment. Those wishing to soak in the hot tub, hang out by the fire, play or socialize in the art studio or living room, or just watch porn are free to relax and enjoy the evening as they wish.
Your chance to be a voyour, find a quiet spot in the yard and play alone, invite others to watch or participate. Plenty of room and space to find privacy or be in the thick of the action.
We hope to create an atmosphere where you are free to participate at whatever level you feel comfortable.
Simples
Open to any cpl
I would like to come, but will there be any way to mark myself as not into pain. Ok with humiliation and pleasure.
Need info on this event. Haven't heard about it
It is listed as SURRENDER under the local events section.
It sounds like it would be fun just to see all your new additions to your backyard... Not sure wife has any of these thoughts?? We are pretty traditional but I will ask... and it might be fun to voyeur and get wild while there.
JustBegining57-Yes, it is open to any couple. We do not discriminate guests. Rinoxx-The only person who would be allowed to give you pain is your partner. But you must discuss boundaries(what you like, what you don't like) before you start into a play scene. This helps build communication and trust between partners. Georgesgurl-Yes it is in the local events section.
I would love to come but dont have a date are single females invited?
Not gonna get Hubby to try this. lol :-)
Hubby wouldn't sub in any way, but I'm tempted to find a date who would allow me to as the hubby voyuered. Haven't QUITE decided yet.
HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:
Hubby wouldn't sub in any way, but I'm tempted to find a date who would allow me to as the hubby voyuered. Haven't QUITE decided yet.
The woman has the same problem with me!
I know some couples that are coming are not into any type of bondage, sub or domination. They are coming and treating it as any other party just with something different to watch.
Simples
Simples
SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:
I know some couples that are coming are not into any type of bondage, sub or domination. They are coming and treating it as any other party just with something different to watch.
Simples
yeah. i'm expecting the party to be an absolute blast whether I participate or just people watch. If we can arrange things and the budget allows, we'll be there.
Kitty I'll be your sub! 
Excited for this party!!
Excited for this party!!ALINEEDISU-All women are welcome. HelloKitty-We will have a select group of single men that have volunteered to be house slaves. So any women that doesn't have a male or would like more than one slave. You can borrow one of ours. They will be serving drinks giving foot massages, etc. Males who would like to submit to be a house slave, please email the Mistresses at [email protected]
I like the volunteered house slave idea. And I'll prolly demand a drink just for kicks n giggles. 
But as I'm a finicky kitty, I'd prolly just find a date to bring along with me.
But as I'm a finicky kitty, I'd prolly just find a date to bring along with me. HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:If you need a date Kitty I would love to be it. Receiving pain from you mmmmmmm thats hot.
I like the volunteered house slave idea. And I'll prolly demand a drink just for kicks n giggles.
The same man that won
Oh yes. That makes perfect sense. If its not your fetish (aka that idea simply doesn't push your sexy buttons), something must be terribly wrong with you. Indeed. *giggle-snort*
Sugarandspice... to compare getting in a boxing match or a street fight to being a submissive is completely irrational. A boxing match or a street fight is the opposite of being submissive! Unless of course when you supposedly got into those fights you mentioned, you simply let the other guy kick the hell out of you without fighting back... and it somehow turned you on to let him do that. just sayin. 
has nothing to do with an image problem or being a wimp, has everything to do with whether it turns you on or not.
has nothing to do with an image problem or being a wimp, has everything to do with whether it turns you on or not.As a single female I would like to attend.. Not sure about attending events alone though.. We'll see. Maybe I will get the nerve up. Sounds like alot of fun even if just watching..
Funsize44-this event is complete run by women. Everything is very safe and consensual. The Mistresses will help you feel comfortable if this is your first Femdom event. This event is not for everyone, and that's ok. We can't nor should we all like the same things.
We're excited to step out of the norm and try something different. This should be a lot of fun!
Sexysmile-We have a few House Slave positions if you don't find a date.
I will be going with a date and a bag of goodies but I would love to top a male or female.
We still need a 2 more male slave volunteers for this event. Single males interested send us a email a [email protected]
NAUGHTYCPL wrote:I would love to!!!! But only if you promise to dominate me afterwards!!!! ;-)
If I, the female half is very submissive and would like another female to dominate me. Is that ok?
I am a house slave for this party and would not be disappointed at all if any of you females put me to good use. I'm excellent with my tounge and hands
Thank you all for a great night of letting me serve and assist you. To the wonderful hosts and planers. I can't wait to see you all again
Love chef
Love chef