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Posted By: ULUVBIGBLKDICK Posted on:
Jan 19, 2006 - 8:36 am

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Whites only swingers?? Death to all single males?? and now NO NAKED MEN ON CAM CHAT?? (only if your married and single females which is encouraged)


How close minded is this swingers world becoming or has it been this way all along??

Your thoughts.


AND YOU CALL US RACIST I THINK YOU ARE A BIG ONE

I THINK THERE ARE ONLY SO MANY CAM WINDOWS THAT YOU CAN CAM ON
HERE.I tried to get on cam one day and there where like 6 guys on and the rest where
couples on not one offer to give it up.
i think its called swingers NOT swinger


Kristylynn
you know i can get real NASTY ON HERE. BUT I DON'T THINK
YOU WANT ME TO GO THERE..




Kristylynn
OK...first of all...Swining is about having a good time and fulfilling fantasy...IF SINGLE MEN OR BLACK MEN OR ANYTTHING ELSE IS NOT IN THE FANTASY...SO BE IT!!!!

As to fighting...COme on...We do not need to be fighting amongst ourselves...there are more than anough people outside the lifestyle that do not like us...Why would we make it easier by fighting amongst ourselves...

Just my 2 cents worth....
Hey, hold on guys, you both have a point.
Lets try to find some middle ground here.

Girl, without single guys (White, Black, Yellow, Green or Blue)
your website wouldn't exist

Dude, if you get on the cam and it's full of single guys
back off and wait awaile.
Good point Clay...and DAMMIT why do you live so far away? :(
Well its like Lexi said it what you want as a couple. This isnt about what others want you to want. Some people are predjudice so deal with it. Some people dont like single males so deal with that as well. The cam thing is rediculous i agree there needs to be a way for people to block what cams they dont want to watch and just let people on cam do what they want to do. They had to pay for there membership so they should be able to do what they want, but that doesnt mean we have to watch so admin should probably add a way to block a cam if we like. Not everyone is anti single male or racist so get off the soap box and keep looking for those that arent they are out there.
We
I agree Valance says it very well and eloquently. I do however differ in an opinion with him. I don't think singles are not a part of swinging lifestyle. Singles are part of the lifestyle and make it easier to have a threesome. Some just choose not to. That is fine too. Some choose not to eat brussel sprouts too. So What! None of the stuff on here is worth fighting about. Accept that not all are hot for you and move on. I have to accept some women don't like bald men or those with facial hair. Others don't like anyone over 40 or white males that are over weight. As far as I am concerned it is their loss cuz my wife thinks I am a pretty neat guy.
:-)

I will also say that I am prejudice. I hate all jerks that think everyone should drop panting for them cuz they are who they are. No I don't hate anyone because of race but do hate groups of people who would be willing to kill innocent people, including children, under some claim of religion when it is really more a case of power. I hate bullies and tyrants.

I would also say that the person who started this is not someone I would let within 500 miles of my wife and the reason is not for race, color, marital status but the attitude.

I was always told by my grandmother to end things on a positive note so I will.

I also have to say that Mrs Hunt is one sexy gorgeous lady and sure wish she and her hubby lived a lot closer to us. :-)
oh yeah. We would also not get with a Pekinese. We aren't prejudice against them, it is just the hair that makes us sneeze. LOL
I think if a couple is looking for a single male, then they are a part of the swinger lifestyle, or part of that couples swinger lifestye, don't you agree?
We aren't looking for single males, but you never know what we might want to try next.
It's about exploring we think.
Everyone differs
We think threesomes are definitely part of the lifestyle. I mean one time you can have her be the center of attention and the next time he has two sexy ladies working him over. Ah such a life.
You hit the nail right on the head when it comes to the position and attitude the single male should have in the swinging lifestyle VALANCE___. I agree, what great wisdom, and If you follow your own wisdom you could make a lot of friends in this circle. The single male thinks he is being bashed, but has he ever considered what its like to us, when he is constantly pushing at our boundaries, nagging us with what he is wanting from us, and then whinning about it, when he is denied what we have to give. I have to say it again: What does he have to offer besides a swinging dick. SINGLE MALES WE WILL CONTACT YOU WHEN WE WANT YOU. If you can't wait for the invite you might want to find your own partner to bring along the next time.

VALANCE___ have you ever considered filling in for DR. PHIL when he is on vacation?...hell you would take his job away
So let me get this right.

We have Racism. We have Singleism. We have Threesomeism?

Hmmm, maybe we need some Single Aversion Therapy. LOL

Christian
we do take single men .but he has to be a gentlemen.
to get to me he has to go through my hubby first,,
not trying to be rude but single guys are a dime a dozen
and i can pick who i want..and the best way for a single man
to get in my pants is to be nice..
you know like kiss my ass..lol

kristylynn
To the original person who posted this topic in the forum don't wait till you find out the hard way getting all bent out of shape over something as trivial as your thoughts on the swing lifestyle will do nothing more than lead you to a early grave lighten up before you have a heart arttack! Remember the two very basic rules in life rule #1 "Don't sweat the small stuff" and rule #2 "its all small stuff".

Learn to do like us say "NEXT" when you are not allowed into someones play circle. Its simply a matter of personal preference people are going to judge you thats life deal with it but comming off as arrogant as you were in your original post will only set you back further in your quest for fun in this lifestyle its all about attitude present a positive attitude because the one you are presenting now will do nothing but drive people away.