I've sent out emails to a good amount of people, but nobody has responded. Is it just because I'm a single male? I don't really say anything in the email about doing anything, mostly just simply saying hi and ask them how they are doing...
I see that you are new here. Unless you are really into the lifestyle this might not be for you. Life of a single male is not easy on this site. Most do not return emails to single men. Most do not return email to those that are past a given miles distant. Those that will reply will probably do so within a week or two. Spend some time reading the old blogs relating to this lifestyle and get a feel for the place. Then decide if it is worth the effort and time to make it here.
[quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]You are young and your whole life sets before you. You will probably fall in love with the perfect girl and as you help her to become a woman and she helps you to more fully discover your manhood you will bond in such a way that you cannot even imagine. One day you will be so very, very full of trust and understanding one for another that you may decide to expand your experiences together through swinging. your playmates will, of course be near perfect physical and social specimens because like you they have worked hard at self improvement mostly so that they might be their very best in every way for each other. You will thrive in the bosom of loyal adoring lovers and friends. Or maybe not. If you end up alone and lonely, forsaken and forgot just remember that when you wake up in the wee hours of the morning in despair there will always be two friends that will never forsake you. Alcohol and pornography. Sex can still be for you the most wonderful, uplifting and enriching even wholesome experience that money can buy. [/quot rolling on floor crying in laughter.
So, NOTJUSTMEE, the first thing I would ask is: what are your objectives? Why this swingers site? Are you just trying to get laid? If so, there are better places for you. You're probably getting to the point that you may realize that singles, especially single males, don't seem to do well here. AFF may be a better answer, but I have to tell you, way back when I was a single male not looking for commitment, about 7 years ago before I met Mrs. Sexperimentors, I got luck on Match WAY, WAY more than any other site. If you're trying to connect with an older woman who can give you all the experience only an older woman can - I love this - go to richsugarmomma or sugarmommaclub or another of the sugar momma sites. They actually work if you're a young stud that's not overly discerning. If you're interested in being with a couple, you're probably in as good a place as any. You're going to have to travel, you're going to have to be very specific in your communication with what you want, what your expectations are, you're going to have to be very, very patient.