justr curious on what you think about single male's showing on cam and either just sitting being naked/playing with them selves while watching other cpl's. would you leave the site for good,just push pause button,or quite the site for good,or watch?or doese it matter either way or would you complain about it?
now for us we would watch because it doesn't matter we think more single male should be allowed to show since single women and cpl's get to.but that is our opion.
joe and carol
now for us we would watch because it doesn't matter we think more single male should be allowed to show since single women and cpl's get to.but that is our opion.
joe and carol
wow that is weired push the button once and it showed up 3-times lol
my initial thought is,what does it matter who shows what. this is a swingers site
that's what we thought but there is people on here that complain about single males showing on cam but we talso thought that is taking there right away from showing even thought they are paid member's also.
why complain,if they don't want to watch, don't watch. i bet they don't complain about the women showing
lol thats true
Let them show. Who knows who might like it. Besides for some single men are as part of the lifestyle as single women. As for those who complain, get over it. Some folks aren't happy unless they have something to complain about. Kind of like the person who sits in a movie theater and complains of the foul language and sex on screen. That is why they have a rating system. You don't like it? LEAVE and don't watch.
LOL just my two cents worth.
LOL just my two cents worth.
Just more the reason why singles guys are not sought after by couples as much as they would like to be.
Even if we were seeking a single male...we certainly wouldn't invite the one in front of a cam stroking himself.
Even if we were seeking a single male...we certainly wouldn't invite the one in front of a cam stroking himself.
Well, here's my .02 on this matter. There never used to be this BS about who can show and when they can show and when they can't before, I know because I used to spend nearly every evening every day for several months last year hanging out there.
There are times when its inappropriate for guys (single or married) to be showing (ie. hopping on cam the second they get into chat and start jerking off), I mean it IS a CHAT room, but I have no problem with anybody sitting there naked on cam. Honestly, unless they tell you they're naked you'd think they just had their shirt off. Yes, I know there are plenty of single guys (and even some married ones) who can be VERY rude in more ways than one in the chat room, but if they can't take a hint (or a blatant "Knock it off") then just ignore them. That's what having the ability to freeze other people's cams is all about.
If couples or single females don't feel comfortable with that, they can go to Couples Chat (since that IS what its for - couples and single females).
Some of the hottest things I've seen in Chat were a man and woman on separate cams getting themselves off for each other. But that's just my opinion.
-SG
PS. I personally have found that nothing makes me hotter and wetter when I'm showing it all on cam than getting some visual feedback on the effect its having on the guys (and girls).
There are times when its inappropriate for guys (single or married) to be showing (ie. hopping on cam the second they get into chat and start jerking off), I mean it IS a CHAT room, but I have no problem with anybody sitting there naked on cam. Honestly, unless they tell you they're naked you'd think they just had their shirt off. Yes, I know there are plenty of single guys (and even some married ones) who can be VERY rude in more ways than one in the chat room, but if they can't take a hint (or a blatant "Knock it off") then just ignore them. That's what having the ability to freeze other people's cams is all about.
If couples or single females don't feel comfortable with that, they can go to Couples Chat (since that IS what its for - couples and single females).
Some of the hottest things I've seen in Chat were a man and woman on separate cams getting themselves off for each other. But that's just my opinion.
-SG
PS. I personally have found that nothing makes me hotter and wetter when I'm showing it all on cam than getting some visual feedback on the effect its having on the guys (and girls).
I agree with most of the postings on here. Single males have as much right to show on cam as anyone else. Personally, I don't get off on watching anyone on cam.....I'm an in person type of gal.....LOL ON cam is just frustrating to me........
Kitty: thanks for opening the topic. And others: thanks for the support.
I have been the subject of some rather-heavy-handed "moderation" after I was directly *requested* to show off a little. When I did, even though nobody in the chat room said ANYTHING negative, I was instantly messaged and reprimanded and told that no single male is EVER to be nude on our chat room - that any such activity should be taken to Yahoo.
What? Yahoo? That isn't even "part of Swingular"!
Apparently, rather than objecting in the room, someone "went running to Mommy" and messaged the moderator. The rules are particularly "interesting" since they aren't posted anywhere.
In the defense of the moderators, it appears that very-early-on in the chatroom, someone was really overbearing and pushy to a couple of women there and complaints were lodged - which resulted in the very-strict rules.
Perhaps it is, indeed, time to police "inappropriate behavior" rather than being so closed and heavy-handed to ANY single-male nudity... or at least for those who actually *object* to speak up and admit their objection publically.
I have been the subject of some rather-heavy-handed "moderation" after I was directly *requested* to show off a little. When I did, even though nobody in the chat room said ANYTHING negative, I was instantly messaged and reprimanded and told that no single male is EVER to be nude on our chat room - that any such activity should be taken to Yahoo.
What? Yahoo? That isn't even "part of Swingular"!
Apparently, rather than objecting in the room, someone "went running to Mommy" and messaged the moderator. The rules are particularly "interesting" since they aren't posted anywhere.
In the defense of the moderators, it appears that very-early-on in the chatroom, someone was really overbearing and pushy to a couple of women there and complaints were lodged - which resulted in the very-strict rules.
Perhaps it is, indeed, time to police "inappropriate behavior" rather than being so closed and heavy-handed to ANY single-male nudity... or at least for those who actually *object* to speak up and admit their objection publically.
Posted By: ULUVBIGBLKDICK Reply posted on:
Jan 19, 2006 - 7:55 am
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"SWMTCPL Reply posted on: Jan 19, 2006 - 6:40 am
Just more the reason why singles guys are not sought after by couples as much as they would like to be.
Even if we were seeking a single male...we certainly wouldn't invite the one in front of a cam stroking himself."
Yet when a single female does this, her in box will suddenly overflow with invites from couple just like yourself. And if I was married and playing with myself on cam with my wife sitting next to me what difference would that make???
I swear between the racial shit and single male bashing I'm finding that this swinger "open" lifestyle world has more narrow minded and closed minded people in it then the vanilla world does.
ULUVBIGBLKDICK
YOU NEED TO GET A LIFE & find a wife or g/f
Kristylynn
Jan 19, 2006 - 7:55 am
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"SWMTCPL Reply posted on: Jan 19, 2006 - 6:40 am
Just more the reason why singles guys are not sought after by couples as much as they would like to be.
Even if we were seeking a single male...we certainly wouldn't invite the one in front of a cam stroking himself."
Yet when a single female does this, her in box will suddenly overflow with invites from couple just like yourself. And if I was married and playing with myself on cam with my wife sitting next to me what difference would that make???
I swear between the racial shit and single male bashing I'm finding that this swinger "open" lifestyle world has more narrow minded and closed minded people in it then the vanilla world does.
ULUVBIGBLKDICK
YOU NEED TO GET A LIFE & find a wife or g/f
Kristylynn
I think your on an ego trip...
and like talking shit .
don't like my face..
to bad this is one (( WHITE )) PUSSY YOU WILL NEVER TOUCH..
ANYWAY LOL..
Kristylynn
and like talking shit .
don't like my face..
to bad this is one (( WHITE )) PUSSY YOU WILL NEVER TOUCH..
ANYWAY LOL..
Kristylynn
This seems to be the hottest topic in the swinging community. All about single males doing anything. I think that if a lady wants to see man on cam then why deny her that fun. There are some female, though very few, that are straight and don't like to see other women showing off. The women are entitled to some fun as well as us men. There are women who do like to see men masturbating. What happened to equality here, No naked men then naked women!!!! wouldn't that go over well lol. I don't know how many times I have been asked to show or my dick size from women. If I don't answer then they stop talking. My question is why is it more accepted for a women tobe naked on cam than for a man.
RESPECT is the word we need to concentrate on here. Everyone has to respect the other person unless they do something that causes them not to deserve the respect of others, and at that point they should be told of their infraction. IF that does not seem to do any good in changing their attitude, then simply IGNORE them. Engaging in bickering and name calling just satisfies these types, and lowers you to their level.
YOULUVBIGBLKDICK, this is just my observation and is not directed at you personally: A great number of s. males do not belong in the lifestyle to my opinion. I know a lot of the women, enjoy playing with them, and some that understand what swinging is all about and know their place in the lifestyle are just fine. My wife has enjoyed s.males (usually in a 3some with me), and I enjoyed seeing her pleasured. My problem is when they chat with her and push for her to play alone. They never ask this when I am present. Oh, yes and the numerous so called s.males who are actually married, and their wife does not even play. Have they even asked her? We have been told by some, they did not think they could let their mate play. Are these guys really swingers? I think not. What do they have to offer to the swinging community besides another swinging dick. We have run into some guys that don't want to provide a place to play (If they are single shouldn"t they have their own place anyway)or pay for a room. To me if they act like this they are just looking for an easy piece of ass. They are like sharks after a skool of tuna wolves amongst a flock of sheep.
I agree it is a nude chat room. Anyone can get naked and show, but respect is still a must. If someone tells you that you are being offensive it may be a good idea to tone things down a little. On the other hand if you come into the room and others are enjoying what is going on and you find it offensive, you have the choice of either ignoring it or leaving the room.
Just how I feel, anyway
YOULUVBIGBLKDICK, this is just my observation and is not directed at you personally: A great number of s. males do not belong in the lifestyle to my opinion. I know a lot of the women, enjoy playing with them, and some that understand what swinging is all about and know their place in the lifestyle are just fine. My wife has enjoyed s.males (usually in a 3some with me), and I enjoyed seeing her pleasured. My problem is when they chat with her and push for her to play alone. They never ask this when I am present. Oh, yes and the numerous so called s.males who are actually married, and their wife does not even play. Have they even asked her? We have been told by some, they did not think they could let their mate play. Are these guys really swingers? I think not. What do they have to offer to the swinging community besides another swinging dick. We have run into some guys that don't want to provide a place to play (If they are single shouldn"t they have their own place anyway)or pay for a room. To me if they act like this they are just looking for an easy piece of ass. They are like sharks after a skool of tuna wolves amongst a flock of sheep.
I agree it is a nude chat room. Anyone can get naked and show, but respect is still a must. If someone tells you that you are being offensive it may be a good idea to tone things down a little. On the other hand if you come into the room and others are enjoying what is going on and you find it offensive, you have the choice of either ignoring it or leaving the room.
Just how I feel, anyway
gee iluvblkdick you must cant read because you never realy answer the forum question and before you even start in with us you need a reality check you talk about people bashing single males and racist everything that comes out of your mouth has to do with bashing people or racist shit.we are sticking up for the single male's .and also kristylynn your hot as hell in our opion and cant wait to get there and take pics with you hopefully hubby can come also .
I am naked and playing on cam right now LOL ....
lol fl
From: ULUVBIGBLKDICK
Subject: You want to get dirty
Date: January 19, 2006 (9:50 AM)
feel free to say what you feel, really.
[email protected]
he sent me e-mail on here.
i guess he can't read my profile either.
kristylynn
Subject: You want to get dirty
Date: January 19, 2006 (9:50 AM)
feel free to say what you feel, really.
[email protected]
he sent me e-mail on here.
i guess he can't read my profile either.
kristylynn
lol kristylynn depends on how you want to take the subject part it could be a threat lol
here we go
If men want to show their stuff on cam then its cool. We didnt join to see that ,but its no big deal ,Go for it.I was told that this site frowned on that.its not my interest to watch that but im not the nudey police and if I see it ,I'll leave untill their done.What gets me is the way people react to straight people as if your not open minded.iIn our case we our very open minded and just want every one to get naked and have fun without being judged for whatever you like to do.isnt that what this site is for? dave
You said it CURIOUS22, do your thing but don't push other peoples boundaries. The word is RESPECT. Maybe it would be a good idea if everyone would read or re-read the Lifestyle Ethics.
I have no problem with nudity on the webcams. However, if the majority of the people in the room at a given time disapprove, I think common courtesy says do not impose on them. If one or more of the people want to see a guys junk, by all means let them see it. The guys have been asking (begging/harassing) the women all along.
I do take issue with someone who just pops in and starts doing their business, without any regard to the room. That goes for men, women, and couples.It is a swinger site. It is not a porn site. It is not an exhibitionist site. Sure the lines get blurred, but when a guy enters the room, butt naked on cam, and starts whacking off and tyoning in "Look at me jerking off on cam", he is not playing within the intent of the site.
If you just want to show your stuff, there are better sites with bigger audiences. Take it there.
I do take issue with someone who just pops in and starts doing their business, without any regard to the room. That goes for men, women, and couples.It is a swinger site. It is not a porn site. It is not an exhibitionist site. Sure the lines get blurred, but when a guy enters the room, butt naked on cam, and starts whacking off and tyoning in "Look at me jerking off on cam", he is not playing within the intent of the site.
If you just want to show your stuff, there are better sites with bigger audiences. Take it there.
i agree with you bi they should not just jump on cam fully naked and wackng there meat,but they should be able to show when asked with out getting into trouble or being told about it.