So I , the male half, enjoy giving pleasure. I don't really find any attraction to males but at the same time I do love to give pleasure. that being said I don't think i'd like to be "rogered" but at the same time I don't think i'd mind some things with another man so long as the main goal was the enjoyment of the woman that is present. my question is at what point does it go from bi curious/bi comfy to just being bi?
Depends on the dude. Some males describe bi-comfortable as "well, a dude can be in the same room as me and i'm not homophobic." some other males will describe bi-curious as "i'd recieve a BJ from a male, but i'd in now way GIVE a BJ to another male" so it really depends on the individial and i personally send an email asking for their definition.
bi-comfy for males, i'd personally describe as being anywhere from comfortable with other males being presnet to BJs only. whther giving or receiving.
in our personal case, we're both heterosexual. whatever floats your boat. s'all good
bi-comfy for males, i'd personally describe as being anywhere from comfortable with other males being presnet to BJs only. whther giving or receiving.
in our personal case, we're both heterosexual. whatever floats your boat. s'all good
personally, I don't think i'd mind giving a BJ, but i don't know how much further than that i'd be willing to go. And even then it would have to be the right time, but I don't know what I should call myself. I do like anal play, and like I said the idea of a little bit of man on man doesn't scare me, but i just don't know...
see, male on male BJs wouldn't bother me, i'm not so much into anal play whether girls or guys are involved. so it would seriously depend on the situation. i simply ask individuals and that works for us.
It can be argued that a straight person can have sex with another person of the same gender and still be straight. That would simply be determined by his or her emotions while playing. If they enjoyed the experience then maybe they are not as straight as the term implies.
This is because there is quite a bit of difference between what a person can do and what a person wishes to do and why they wish to do it.
i.e. Masturbation is emotional by nature. If you masturbate and think of a person of the same gender then you are either bi or gay or lesbian. If you do it and only think of the opposite gender then you are straight.
(In some circumstances sex is a power item and one of control that we call Rape. That person has a category beyond the bounds of sex and does not make the person anything but cruel. And NO I do not include rape fantasy. They are simply not the same.)
This is because there is quite a bit of difference between what a person can do and what a person wishes to do and why they wish to do it.
i.e. Masturbation is emotional by nature. If you masturbate and think of a person of the same gender then you are either bi or gay or lesbian. If you do it and only think of the opposite gender then you are straight.
(In some circumstances sex is a power item and one of control that we call Rape. That person has a category beyond the bounds of sex and does not make the person anything but cruel. And NO I do not include rape fantasy. They are simply not the same.)
I , the male, Have both given and recieved bj's from men. You can call me whatever you want, but in my opinion as there is no attraction or emotional involvement I am straight or bi-curious. I think to be considered bi-sexual you would have to have the same level of emotional connection to men and women.
I don't care so much for the labels, but saying sexual orientation is dependent on emotions is not correct. How can the act be unconnected? Could I not be a murderer if my heart wasn't really into it when I murdered someone?
WESEE wrote:
I don't care so much for the labels, but saying sexual orientation is dependent on emotions is not correct. How can the act be unconnected? Could I not be a murderer if my heart wasn't really into it when I murdered someone?
I have to agree with that. the only person I feel emotions towards while having sex is my man. whenever we play, I very much enjoy having sex with girls and guys, but I am 100% emotionally detatched while performing the act.
in my opinion, bi-curious defines itself in that one is curious about having sexual relations with a member of the same sex. once you have tried it, one of three things happens. 1. you hate it, which means you are straight. 2. you love it and can't wait to do it again, which means you are bisexual, or 3. you liked it well enough that you would try it again but don't necessarily crave it, which means you are bi-comfortable.
You people have it totally wrong.
Bi-comfortable is being ok taking another dudes dick HALF way up your ass.
Bi-curious is not sobbing uncontrollably as your wife pegs you with her biggest strap-on while pulling your hair and screaming "How does THAT feel you little bitch?"
Bi-sexual means you'll pull a train at the local adult book store arcade and blog about it while getting a mani/pedi.
You're welcome!
Bi-comfortable is being ok taking another dudes dick HALF way up your ass.
Bi-curious is not sobbing uncontrollably as your wife pegs you with her biggest strap-on while pulling your hair and screaming "How does THAT feel you little bitch?"
Bi-sexual means you'll pull a train at the local adult book store arcade and blog about it while getting a mani/pedi.
You're welcome!
KAMARATI wrote:
It's OK if it's in a three-way
It's not gay when it's in a three-way
With a honey in the middle there's some leeway
The area's grey in a one, two, three-way
Normally, I don't get down with dudes
But tonight is a special exception
See you're my best friend
Through thick and thin
Now it's time to make a triple connection
Lights off
Here in the dark (Here in the dark)
It's so hard to tell (So hard to tell)
Where her body ends (La la)
And my homie's begins (Ew wee)
This rule dates back (The Golden Rule)
To ancient Greece (Takin' about Cesar)
We're two Jack Trippers and a Chrissy
The new Three's Company
It's OK if it's in a three-way
It's not gay when it's in a three-way
With a honey in the middle there's some leeway
The area's grey in a one, two three-way
lol yes!
ONE MAN'S OPINION - FOR WHATEVER IT'S WORTH.
BI CURIOUS: You can only be bi curious up until you've had a bi sexual experience. It's like saying "I'm curious what vanilla smells like". Once you've smelled it, it's no longer a curiosity.
BI COMFORTABLE: It means that during play time, should a certain amount of bi sexual oriented activity take place (whether or not YOU are directly involved and/or initiate it), and you or any of the others don't freak over it, then you're obviously comfortable with it. If you dabble in it, but don't seek it out for one-on-one play, and it's not a prerequisite to play partners, then you're obviously 'comfortable' with it.
BI SEXUAL: A switch hitter. Someone who is equally comfortable engaging in sexual acts with either sex. It's possible to have a preference, one way or the other, butt it will include both giving AND receiving with same sex partners.
MOST of what's running through my mind as I write this is based strictly on oral play.
But if things ocassionally go beyond oral (which is always a possibility), then the lines can get a bit blurry.
Based on what my years of experience in the Lifestyle have taught me, along with corresponding with others here and on other sites, you can forget profile preferences. Women have NO problem listing themselves as bi, however, there are a LOT of men who list themselves as being straight who are OK with some bi play in a couples or group situation. But they'll only admit to it when it comes down to a one-on-one conversation, or in a couples getting together encounter. Once again, it all comes down to the sociatal stigma attached to mano/mano activity. Men are VERY hesitant to publicly describe themselves as anything but straight.
Hypothetical scenario: Let's say you (as a couple) are playing with another couple, and as the fun and games progress, some blindfolding and leading by others is involved. You (the blindfolded male) have been led/directed/guided into position, and you now realize your cock is deeply imbedded in someone's asshole. You recognize that it's an asshole (and not a pussy) by the feel of it, and it feels good, so you go with the flow. About 1/2 way through your drive on the Hershey Highway, someone removes your blindfold, you look down, and you see a lovely female buttocks being impaled by your dick. Just what you assumed it would be, and perfectly acceptable, hetrosexual (although a tad kinky in some minds) behavior, right? Right! OK, now let's assume all is the same, except when the blindfold is removed, you find the pleasure your cock's feeling is coming from the other guy's hairy ass. Does that now make/brand/label you as homosexual? Only if you decide that from that moment on, you only want male ass. Does it now make you bi curious? I think we can rule out the 'curiousity' factor if your cock is already comfortably buried in another dude's poop shute. Bi comfortable? That would depend on whether you say "oh what the hell - no harm, no foul", and continue with the flow, or freak out and go screaming and running down the hall headed for the motel parking lot, buck-assed naked.
The VAST majority of couples I've (he) played with back before GEEKGIRL and I became a couple have NO SINGLE MALES adamantly stated in their profiles. Yet, here they were, playing with solo me. And they redily admit, they don't want their friends and others they play with knowing they do single lepers - er... I mean guys.
Another stigma.
In addition, many of the guys who list themself as STRAIGHT in their couples profile, are either bi or bi comfortable. They list themselves as STRAIGHT because there are so many homophobic couples out there who would not even CONSIDER playing with a guy who isn't 314 3/16% straight.
If, behind closed doors, a man sucks another man's cock, does that change either one of them as a person, once they walk outside that door? If one or the other takes the other guy's cock in his ass, does THAT change who they are when they're shopping at Wal-Mart?
If either or both of the women enjoy eating the other's pussy, does that instantly imprint a MUFF DIVER tattoo on their forehead? Or effect a total personality change?
Society needs to lighten up A LOT in terms of how sexual preference/orientation/participation is perceived.
The Lifestyle is FAR more liberal and understanding in that regard, but even Lifestylers have a LONG way to go in regards to accepting a COMPLETE live and let live attitude.
BI CURIOUS: You can only be bi curious up until you've had a bi sexual experience. It's like saying "I'm curious what vanilla smells like". Once you've smelled it, it's no longer a curiosity.
BI COMFORTABLE: It means that during play time, should a certain amount of bi sexual oriented activity take place (whether or not YOU are directly involved and/or initiate it), and you or any of the others don't freak over it, then you're obviously comfortable with it. If you dabble in it, but don't seek it out for one-on-one play, and it's not a prerequisite to play partners, then you're obviously 'comfortable' with it.
BI SEXUAL: A switch hitter. Someone who is equally comfortable engaging in sexual acts with either sex. It's possible to have a preference, one way or the other, butt it will include both giving AND receiving with same sex partners.
MOST of what's running through my mind as I write this is based strictly on oral play.
But if things ocassionally go beyond oral (which is always a possibility), then the lines can get a bit blurry.
Based on what my years of experience in the Lifestyle have taught me, along with corresponding with others here and on other sites, you can forget profile preferences. Women have NO problem listing themselves as bi, however, there are a LOT of men who list themselves as being straight who are OK with some bi play in a couples or group situation. But they'll only admit to it when it comes down to a one-on-one conversation, or in a couples getting together encounter. Once again, it all comes down to the sociatal stigma attached to mano/mano activity. Men are VERY hesitant to publicly describe themselves as anything but straight.
Hypothetical scenario: Let's say you (as a couple) are playing with another couple, and as the fun and games progress, some blindfolding and leading by others is involved. You (the blindfolded male) have been led/directed/guided into position, and you now realize your cock is deeply imbedded in someone's asshole. You recognize that it's an asshole (and not a pussy) by the feel of it, and it feels good, so you go with the flow. About 1/2 way through your drive on the Hershey Highway, someone removes your blindfold, you look down, and you see a lovely female buttocks being impaled by your dick. Just what you assumed it would be, and perfectly acceptable, hetrosexual (although a tad kinky in some minds) behavior, right? Right! OK, now let's assume all is the same, except when the blindfold is removed, you find the pleasure your cock's feeling is coming from the other guy's hairy ass. Does that now make/brand/label you as homosexual? Only if you decide that from that moment on, you only want male ass. Does it now make you bi curious? I think we can rule out the 'curiousity' factor if your cock is already comfortably buried in another dude's poop shute. Bi comfortable? That would depend on whether you say "oh what the hell - no harm, no foul", and continue with the flow, or freak out and go screaming and running down the hall headed for the motel parking lot, buck-assed naked.
The VAST majority of couples I've (he) played with back before GEEKGIRL and I became a couple have NO SINGLE MALES adamantly stated in their profiles. Yet, here they were, playing with solo me. And they redily admit, they don't want their friends and others they play with knowing they do single lepers - er... I mean guys.
Another stigma.
In addition, many of the guys who list themself as STRAIGHT in their couples profile, are either bi or bi comfortable. They list themselves as STRAIGHT because there are so many homophobic couples out there who would not even CONSIDER playing with a guy who isn't 314 3/16% straight.
If, behind closed doors, a man sucks another man's cock, does that change either one of them as a person, once they walk outside that door? If one or the other takes the other guy's cock in his ass, does THAT change who they are when they're shopping at Wal-Mart?
If either or both of the women enjoy eating the other's pussy, does that instantly imprint a MUFF DIVER tattoo on their forehead? Or effect a total personality change?
Society needs to lighten up A LOT in terms of how sexual preference/orientation/participation is perceived.
The Lifestyle is FAR more liberal and understanding in that regard, but even Lifestylers have a LONG way to go in regards to accepting a COMPLETE live and let live attitude.
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
ONE MAN'S OPINION - FOR WHATEVER IT'S WORTH.
BI CURIOUS: You can only be bi curious up until you've had a bi sexual experience. It's like saying "I'm curious what vanilla smells like". Once you've smelled it, it's no longer a curiosity.
BI COMFORTABLE: It means that during play time, should a certain amount of bi sexual oriented activity take place (whether or not YOU are directly involved and/or initiate it), and you or any of the others don't freak over it, then you're obviously comfortable with it. If you dabble in it, but don't seek it out for one-on-one play, and it's not a prerequisite to play partners, then you're obviously 'comfortable' with it.
BI SEXUAL: A switch hitter. Someone who is equally comfortable engaging in sexual acts with either sex. It's possible to have a preference, one way or the other, butt it will include both giving AND receiving with same sex partners.
MOST of what's running through my mind as I write this is based strictly on oral play.
But if things ocassionally go beyond oral (which is always a possibility), then the lines can get a bit blurry.
Based on what my years of experience in the Lifestyle have taught me, along with corresponding with others here and on other sites, you can forget profile preferences. Women have NO problem listing themselves as bi, however, there are a LOT of men who list themselves as being straight who are OK with some bi play in a couples or group situation. But they'll only admit to it when it comes down to a one-on-one conversation, or in a couples getting together encounter. Once again, it all comes down to the sociatal stigma attached to mano/mano activity. Men are VERY hesitant to publicly describe themselves as anything but straight.
Hypothetical scenario: Let's say you (as a couple) are playing with another couple, and as the fun and games progress, some blindfolding and leading by others is involved. You (the blindfolded male) have been led/directed/guided into position, and you now realize your cock is deeply imbedded in someone's asshole. You recognize that it's an asshole (and not a pussy)by the feel of it, and it feels good, so you go with the flow. About 1/2 way through your drive on the Hershey Highway, someone removes your blindfold, you look down, and you see a lovely female buttocks being impaled by your dick. Just what you assumed it would be, and perfectly acceptable, hetrosexual (although a tad kinky in some minds) behavior, right? Right! OK, now let's assume all is the same, except when the blindfold is removed, you find your pleasure your cock's feeling is coming from the other guy's hairy ass. Does that now make/brand/label you as homosexual? Only if you decide that from that moment on, you only want male ass. Does it now make you bi curious? I think we can rule out the 'curiousity' factor if your cock is already comfortably buried in another dude's poop shute. Bi comfortable? That would depend on whether you say "oh what the hell - no harm, no foul", and continue with the flow, or freak out and go screaming and running down the hall headed for the motel parking lot, buck-assed naked.
The VAST majority of couples I've (he) played with back before GEEKGIRL and I became a couple have NO SINGLE MALES adamantly stated in their profiles. Yet, here they were, playing with solo me. And they redily admit, they don't want their friends and others they play with knowing they do single lepers - er... I mean guys.
Another stigma.
In addition, many of the guys who list themself as STRAIGHT in their couples profile, are either bi or bi comfortable. They list themselves as STRAIGHT because there are so many couples out there with homophobic who would not even CONSIDER them and their wife playing with a guy who isn't 314 1/2% straight.
If, behind closed doors, a man sucks another man's cock, does that change either one of them as a person, once they walk outside that door? If one or the other takes the other guy's cock in his ass, does THAT change who they are when they're shopping at Wal-Mart?
If either or both of the women enjoy eating the other's pussy, does that instantly imprint a MUFF DIVER tattoo on their forehead? Or effect a total personality change?
Society needs to lighten up A LOT in terms of how sexual preference/orientation/participation is perceived.
The Lifestyle is FAR more liberal and understanding in that regard, but even Lifestylers have a LONG way to go in regards to accepting a COMPLETE live and let live attitude.
Cheers to this post. Too much worry about judgement out there. Do what you prefer, try things you are curious about, enjoy broadening your horizons.
Kinda like the girl who goes out every Friday and Saturday night sowing her wild oats - then goes to church on Sunday and prays for a crop failure.
HFUN wrote:
Well truth be known that the lds chuch as a whole is anti gay or bi and 10 percent of every mormon check goes to their church all church members pay it and if dont you get the cold shoulder.and if they were so close to god and christ they would not ex communicate anyone and accept them.did christ turn his back on the leppers? his wife was a whore .no he accepted people in all there forms except the rommans who had all the money all the power and told everyone what was right and what was wrong just like the lds church. man makes the same mistakes over and over and never learns .mitt scares the hell out of me as a president we can expect the church will call all the shots belive it they would love nothing more than to run this country .and since when did california bed the mormons the one state that fought for gay rights has got in bed with the mormons huumm they must have bought them too just like they buy everyone.really mitt as the president should scare the hell out of every gay or bi person or non mormon on the planet.i see them as evil as it gets when i was a child they all ridiculed me and my family my parents smoked and drank and when i went to school everyday they would give me grief and call me a dirt bag. but every night there parents would be at my mom and dads bar drinking. and telling there kids that we were garbage the next day the two faces of evil truth is truth so when i think of a mormon all i see is a lie. what happens when you take a mormon fishing they drink all your beer and smoke all you smokes .what happen when you take two mormons fishing ? nothing because they will tell on each other . truth is truth .
A lot of people tend to just ignore the parts of the bible that don't agree with their beliefs =P
"Joey, do you like movies about gladiators?"
EVILDOERS wrote:
You people have it totally wrong.
Bi-comfortable is being ok taking another dudes dick HALF way up your ass.
Bi-curious is not sobbing uncontrollably as your wife pegs you with her biggest strap-on while pulling your hair and screaming "How does THAT feel you little bitch?"
Bi-sexual means you'll pull a train at the local adult book store arcade and blog about it while getting a mani/pedi.
You're welcome!
lmao.....
There are several of us who have learned, that when on a road trip with a certain mutual friend, and you make a rest stop, DON'T EVER go into the men's room at the same time he does.
His favorite little trick is, as you're standing side-by-side at the urinals, in his big outside voice, he'll say: "WOW - nice dick buddy".
He only does it to people he knows - and he's a straight as they come.
But you should see some of the reactions.
I've never seen ANYTHING clear a room faster.
His favorite little trick is, as you're standing side-by-side at the urinals, in his big outside voice, he'll say: "WOW - nice dick buddy".
He only does it to people he knows - and he's a straight as they come.
But you should see some of the reactions.
I've never seen ANYTHING clear a room faster.
The Narwhal Bacons at Midnight..
Nope, just generated it. The eternal wisdom of Phillip J. Fry can always bring clarity to a situation . If only we got Karma points on Swingular
. If only we got Karma points on Swingular I say it is bi if you intentionally touch a guy unless your stranded on a deserted island with little chance of ever seeing civilization again. I mean if there is a woman withing 500 miles why think about it.
I did take the family to the pride parade this year in support of equal rights but that is as far as I will ever go!!
I did take the family to the pride parade this year in support of equal rights but that is as far as I will ever go!!
It is nice to know that no one in this lifestyle is uptight about someone else
i believe there is a difference between men and women's views of sexuality,, bi to a women is fairly normal, however bi between men is not accepted as much, thus being said most men are homophobic and are only able to understand bisexuality after experiencing both realm's of sexual pleasure,
that being said,, a bi sexual man has no remorse for giving head or taking a hard cock in the ass and riding it like a pack horse,, at the same time he has no problem going down on the pussy, and can actualy pleasure a women better because he knows how the cock should be used at the same time,
that being said,, a bi sexual man has no remorse for giving head or taking a hard cock in the ass and riding it like a pack horse,, at the same time he has no problem going down on the pussy, and can actualy pleasure a women better because he knows how the cock should be used at the same time,
Joey: Have you ever seen a grown man naked?
I do believe more men are interested in trying things with another man than ever admit it. I poled some friends and 2 of 4 said they had thought about it but their wife would never go along with it. I do realize this is not a representative sample.... but these men go to the local church regularly but are interested in trying men. Each has told me their wife does not produce so they wonder what they got themselves involved with when they got married. Maybe their interest comes from that.
I think the statement that a guy is curious until he tries it is accurate. Then he progresses to bi or bi-comfortable depending on definitions.
I do believe more men are interested in trying things with another man than ever admit it. I poled some friends and 2 of 4 said they had thought about it but their wife would never go along with it. I do realize this is not a representative sample.... but these men go to the local church regularly but are interested in trying men. Each has told me their wife does not produce so they wonder what they got themselves involved with when they got married. Maybe their interest comes from that.
I think the statement that a guy is curious until he tries it is accurate. Then he progresses to bi or bi-comfortable depending on definitions.
nothing sexier than for-filling your girl's fantasy
it sure gets a girl wet!
it sure gets a girl wet!
bi under the right situation.. it what it says... often referred to as 'socially bi' perhaps the question is.. what is the right situation? some people enjoy being 'passive bi' or only bi if with both (has to have the opposite sex there) with guys often it might mean 'orally bi' ..hence no anal sex is desired... this is usually the case with most 'hetero' bi males.... the right situation is usually.. in a 3some with a M/F couple so the 'right situation' can be mixing the enjoyment of a 'bi' experience .. i.e. sex with both at the same time. Ever notice that the 'right situation' may not be when you meet someone? but rather it happens when you are naked, and playing straight in a 3way..and the couple is open to some bi fun.. when the mood at that time becomes the 'right situation'. When people are aroused, they often will and can enjoy things that they might totally deny- otherwise... this is the magic line between fantasies and reality. Socially... you may not even feel a 'connection' to the person for these desires, except by prior communication via email or chat.. then after meeting in person... one may not experience the 'feeling of attraction' ... but the desire to pursue the potentials that were discussed in private...often don't materialize until you've allowed yourself to enjoy the situation.... by taking the next step... Leave the 'drama' out.. look for cleanliness, and general appearance within the normal range and let the mind work with the body.. just as it did when you were emailing and chatting. It's perfectly normal to feel indifferent or shy in person.. until after you have started your 'intimate experience' with that person. It's then that you find out people are more similar than different... you don't have to worry about the emotions, a relationship, etc.. it's recreational... Isn't that what swinging is all about? *ofcourse The 'right situation' usually is 'descreet' too.. private.. and with the bi aspect.. it's exciting sensual and very intimate... especailly when you can share it with the opposite sex. What usually is not the 'right situation' because it's 1 on 1 .. becoms the right situation when you share it with the opposite sex.. that often makes it 'feel right'... or 'natural' And it's a wonderful turn on for the opposite sex person too.. That's the part that I love about it.. when a woman is turned on by it..and gets so aroused and wet from it...it just seems so 'right' then... and so erotic. Forfilling your sexual desires in experiences often follows like the times you fantasize about it... while you are sexually aroused.. you are right for it.. and then do you notice.. after you cum.. or shortly after that.. you might even deny- you ever thought about wanting to do it, till the next time you are aroused. You'll never know if you don't take the next step.. remember.. bi means 'both' that's the right situation!
I love to please a lady in special ways that she and I can related to and share together
Nothing wrong with that...
Would love to find my very own bi girl too
Nothing wrong with that...
Would love to find my very own bi girl too
Its what ever is personal to you - define your own life!
One of my favorite things I get a kick out of is a guy who claims to be straight but yet brings up male bisexual conversations all the time - as if its ALWAYS on his mind for some reason??? LOL.
One of my favorite things I get a kick out of is a guy who claims to be straight but yet brings up male bisexual conversations all the time - as if its ALWAYS on his mind for some reason??? LOL.
As to guys:
You can fuck ten thousand women, and NO ONE will call you a stud.
But get caught with 1 dick in your mouth - and you'll be labeled a cock sucker the rest of your life.
You can fuck ten thousand women, and NO ONE will call you a stud.
But get caught with 1 dick in your mouth - and you'll be labeled a cock sucker the rest of your life.
What difference does it make really? It is more about identify than anything else.
My gf did me with a strap on once. It felt great. Does that mean I'm gay? No... but it felt great.
I've never given a bj but I'd like to to learn about that. But really... what difference does it make if I do. I'm no different.
I was married 23 years to a non-sexual person. No wonder I'm in this group. We all do things for reasons we may not understand. None of it means we are odd, strange, perverted, or sick. It is just what it is... an experience.
My gf did me with a strap on once. It felt great. Does that mean I'm gay? No... but it felt great.
I've never given a bj but I'd like to to learn about that. But really... what difference does it make if I do. I'm no different.
I was married 23 years to a non-sexual person. No wonder I'm in this group. We all do things for reasons we may not understand. None of it means we are odd, strange, perverted, or sick. It is just what it is... an experience.
I dont know why defining yourself to a term or sloggan should even matter.
Somedays I know for sure I am straight as an arrow......I dream of prince charming from a little girl. So that is where I lay on my bed and he takes advantage of me.....that is what I see in my mind.
However I love to please others too but only if we all connect or for the hell of it......just get naked.....love being naked and seeing others naked no matter straight, gay, lesbian, bi etc....I am a lover indeed. Does it define me by me calling myself one of these catagories I think not.
You should always ask the others involved their feeligs and let things happen naturally. Sometimes things get grabbed and ment to grab someone else and that does not make you gay or bi and never question your sexuallity as it is human nature to be sexual in anyway rather with the same sex or oppisite or with all of the above.
I think labeling yourself can harm you in the long run and sometimes its overdone to define who you really are. It takes a lifetime to really know who you are and you are always evolving and changing so just be cool and chilled and let things happen naturally.
You and me Baby are nothing but Mammals....Lets do it like they do it on the Discovery Channel!!!
Somedays I know for sure I am straight as an arrow......I dream of prince charming from a little girl. So that is where I lay on my bed and he takes advantage of me.....that is what I see in my mind.
However I love to please others too but only if we all connect or for the hell of it......just get naked.....love being naked and seeing others naked no matter straight, gay, lesbian, bi etc....I am a lover indeed. Does it define me by me calling myself one of these catagories I think not.
You should always ask the others involved their feeligs and let things happen naturally. Sometimes things get grabbed and ment to grab someone else and that does not make you gay or bi and never question your sexuallity as it is human nature to be sexual in anyway rather with the same sex or oppisite or with all of the above.
I think labeling yourself can harm you in the long run and sometimes its overdone to define who you really are. It takes a lifetime to really know who you are and you are always evolving and changing so just be cool and chilled and let things happen naturally.
You and me Baby are nothing but Mammals....Lets do it like they do it on the Discovery Channel!!!
I just want to watch.
Ok. I lied.
I want to watch and then jump in the middle.
xox
T.
Ok. I lied.
I want to watch and then jump in the middle.
xox
T.
In the Lifestyle, we refer to our sexual escapades as "PLAY".
It's not work - it's PLAY.
No one is getting paid (I assume) to do it.
And I assume none of us plan to give up our amateur standing and turn pro.
PLAY.
A simple word requiring no explanation.
As in "playing" around.
Being "playful" with one another.
Men: Remember when you were a kid, and you and your brother or male cousins would tickle one another?
It was PLAYING - it was FUN.
We never gave a second thought to wrestling around on the floor or bed with another male.
There was touching involved, but who gave a rat's ass - it was PLAYING.
That is, until we learned the sociatal stigma attached to it - then, it just wasn't the "manly" thing to do.
Supposedly, ALL us guys are stereotyped as craving the opportunity to see two women together.
Remember older porn - when at least one gratuitous girl-on-girl scene was in every movie?
I always fast-forwarded through it - just wasn't my thing.
Watching it up close and personal isn't really my thing either, UNLESS it happens spontaneously during PLAY with another couple, or FMF.
Then, I feel a part of the PLAY, and it becomes far more enjoyable.
Remember guys, back when all your buddies told you that if you kissed a certain girl who was known to give blowjobs, you became a cocksucker by proxy?
Ever kiss your wife after she sucked another guys cock?
Ever kiss ANY woman after she sucks YOUR cock?
PROXY.
Butt no one gives it a second thought.
It's not work - it's PLAY.
No one is getting paid (I assume) to do it.
And I assume none of us plan to give up our amateur standing and turn pro.
PLAY.
A simple word requiring no explanation.
As in "playing" around.
Being "playful" with one another.
Men: Remember when you were a kid, and you and your brother or male cousins would tickle one another?
It was PLAYING - it was FUN.
We never gave a second thought to wrestling around on the floor or bed with another male.
There was touching involved, but who gave a rat's ass - it was PLAYING.
That is, until we learned the sociatal stigma attached to it - then, it just wasn't the "manly" thing to do.
Supposedly, ALL us guys are stereotyped as craving the opportunity to see two women together.
Remember older porn - when at least one gratuitous girl-on-girl scene was in every movie?
I always fast-forwarded through it - just wasn't my thing.
Watching it up close and personal isn't really my thing either, UNLESS it happens spontaneously during PLAY with another couple, or FMF.
Then, I feel a part of the PLAY, and it becomes far more enjoyable.
Remember guys, back when all your buddies told you that if you kissed a certain girl who was known to give blowjobs, you became a cocksucker by proxy?
Ever kiss your wife after she sucked another guys cock?
Ever kiss ANY woman after she sucks YOUR cock?
PROXY.
Butt no one gives it a second thought.
I am not gay. Nor do I consider myself bi in the least. As far as comfortable I think in my mind this term is best to describe myself.
My wife loves two cocks in her pussy at the same time. Sometimes this ,might be two other guys and I usually watch her enjoy herself. Sometimes when there is only one other guy and she is in the mood I am elected to be the other cock.
I usually am on the bottom ,while the other guy comes in from the back. His cock slides into her pussy and lays on top of mine. We allways seem to cum so all do enjoy the feelings we experience. Because I am not bothered my this I feel that I am comfortable with it. That is it though. Nothing else needs to happen . Meaning no BJ's etc.
Sometimes the other person cums inside her and I feel that it is my duty to add my load to his. I guess claiming what is mine HA! But again I don't see anything wrong with this.
My wife loves two cocks in her pussy at the same time. Sometimes this ,might be two other guys and I usually watch her enjoy herself. Sometimes when there is only one other guy and she is in the mood I am elected to be the other cock.
I usually am on the bottom ,while the other guy comes in from the back. His cock slides into her pussy and lays on top of mine. We allways seem to cum so all do enjoy the feelings we experience. Because I am not bothered my this I feel that I am comfortable with it. That is it though. Nothing else needs to happen . Meaning no BJ's etc.
Sometimes the other person cums inside her and I feel that it is my duty to add my load to his. I guess claiming what is mine HA! But again I don't see anything wrong with this.