Would you support it?
If that's what my spouse wanted, I'm already in love with them and would still love them and support their decision. I know some marriages don't last thru the decision, but from what I've seen they still love and support the person making that change.
I used to work with a "guy" that became a woman, his wife decided she was a lesbian and he had a sex change, love is a pretty amazing thing.
I hope so? But I'm pretty sure that if you love someone unconditional then you would still love them and be part of their lives. but they would also hsve to love you the same and support your decision to move on with a traditional relationship (if there's still a traditional relationship) I guess you cross that bridge when it happens to u.
No.
no way for two reasons... 1. he would be an ugly woman and 2. i'd miss his dick. but of course we would still be best friends and the love would still be there.
see... i see "supporting the decision" as VERY different than "staying married to the person"
for example, if my hubby for some reason decided to be a girl, i'm heterosexual. so no, i wouldn't turn lesbian for his new gender. but i would still very much love him. and i would support the decision 110%. doesn't mean the relationship would stay the same. just my love and support would always be there.
for example, if my hubby for some reason decided to be a girl, i'm heterosexual. so no, i wouldn't turn lesbian for his new gender. but i would still very much love him. and i would support the decision 110%. doesn't mean the relationship would stay the same. just my love and support would always be there.
We would support each other, however the marriage would no longer be what either of us vowed to spend out lives building so that would change. To be honest I also think the one who was not changing would probably feel hurt, maybe even betrayed for awhile. Because of the true love it is like anything we could work through it and because an amazing couple as just friends.
I would have to say no. I like both women and men(female side) however I like him for him. I couldnt imagine him as a female, ugly amazon woman is what he would be lol.
He says umm...I love you,but if you decided to get a penis I would maybe still hang out with you but nothing else. No relationship nada.
He says umm...I love you,but if you decided to get a penis I would maybe still hang out with you but nothing else. No relationship nada.
We would support each other, however the marriage would no longer be what either of us vowed to spend out lives building so that would change. To be honest I also think the one who was not changing would probably feel hurt, maybe even betrayed for awhile. Because of the true love it is like anything we could work through it and because an amazing couple as just friends.
I'm not sure if any marriage could survive that big of a change.
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Guess it depends on what is meant by support it. I think we would still love each other but it would most likely fundamentally change our relationship forever. We are both VERY hetero and I can't see either of us basically "changing teams" to try to accommodate the other's gender confusion. Had a high school friend go thru gender reassignment surgery. Problem was he was a pretty ugly guy and you can imagine how he looked as a girl. Dude had like 6 or 7 kids. Really fucked those kids up good going thru this with their dad. Not sure what changed for him. He was a total poon hound when he was younger. Maybe it was his way of denying or compensating for wanting to be a chick.
I always try to be open to anything and everything.... but...if I were to look at my life as a movie... it sure as heck won't end up being 'The Crying Game' 
... not that he/she was transgender in the movie... I'm just saying how horribly sad I'd be if I slowly took off a girls clothing and saw a penis sitting there.
... not that he/she was transgender in the movie... I'm just saying how horribly sad I'd be if I slowly took off a girls clothing and saw a penis sitting there.