How young is to young??? I have had some nice offers for some very cute, but very young guys that I must say are VERY tempting, but they are the same age as my oldest son and I can't help but wonder if I should say no or HELL YEAH!!!
18 is just a little to young.... lol.
ALINEEDISU wrote:
18 is just a little to young.... lol.
Luckily they have been 21 and 23...
CPL_WANTS_CPL wrote:ALINEEDISU wrote:
18 is just a little to young.... lol.
Luckily they have been 21 and 23...
To tell the truth I have never really thought about age when it comes to being younger but i have for older.. I know its wrong. I know when I get older I wont think its fair but I remember being young and thinking its not fair that no one would give me a chance in all sorts of things because of my age.
NASTY4U2 wrote:
People say there is a too young. What if someone said you're too old? 1. Its not your son. 2. you're old enough to be his mom and HE doesn't mind. 3. You're the only one questioning age. If you think you'll have fun. Go for it. Its not illegal. He is an adult.
Yo make some good points!
ALINEEDISU wrote:To tell the truth I have never really thought about age when it comes to being younger but i have for older.. I know its wrong. I know when I get older I wont think its fair but I remember being young and thinking its not fair that no one would give me a chance in all sorts of things because of my age. [/quote]CPL_WANTS_CPL wrote:Luckily they have been 21 and 23...
[quote=ALINEEDISU]18 is just a little to young.... lol.
I have for older as well... I think tend to like people closer to our own age because we tend to have more in common outside of sex.
As long as it is not family a younger male will simply brag about. I don't have many regrets but turning down an older woman years ago that offered her self to me would have to be one of them. If you are not too old as far as the younger person is concerned, go for it.
Thanks for all the advice everyone... I do like the bragging rights as well! Husband has explored his wilder side more than I have and he keeps telling me to just have fun and be safe (which is nice to have).
I've said it before and I'll say it again - if we're not too old for you, you're not too young for us. We can have a great time with people of all (legal) ages.
Youth is wasted on the young. - George Bernard Shaw
If that's true you can waste your youth on us and we'll make it all fine!
Youth is wasted on the young. - George Bernard Shaw
If that's true you can waste your youth on us and we'll make it all fine!
I'm sure when people see my profile, they think I'm too young, but whenever people meet me before they know how old I am, they assume i'm way older than I really am. dont judge a book by it's cover. Same goes the other easy around. I've played with men almost old enough to be my father, and had a hell of a time!
HOTCOUPLE2TAKE wrote:
Age is relative. We consider the mental age as more important.
Amen to that, and it goes both ways. If people act like they've got one foot in the grave, not too sexy. If the chemistry is there, run with it.
If anyone here remotely gave a damn, I would surely be disappointed. I mean really! It would be your business. If he really trips your trigger then you may be kicking yourself later. On the other hand if you are going to feel like a.....then it is still up to you.
I'd like to suck a younger guy with a milf lady
20 and under is too young for me... but as for him, he likes young girls, so as long as they are of legal age, then he is game.
I started at about 17 didnt know I was to young at the time but boy did she teach me a thing or two.
Just have fun with it.
Just have fun with it.
fun is fun, no matter what age everyone is, right? if everyone is having fun, why worry if the are way younger, or way older,if you all click, just enjoy, to us that is what the lifestyle is all about. :-)
As a general rule, we won't play with anyone younger than our children.
Butt never say never.
Butt never say never.
SCONNIES05 wrote:
I'm sure when people see my profile, they think I'm too young, but whenever people meet me before they know how old I am, they assume i'm way older than I really am. dont judge a book by it's cover. Same goes the other easy around. I've played with men almost old enough to be my father, and had a hell of a time!
Glad to see not everyone nixes the "older" generation! (:-)
Go for it I was 18 and had a crush on a 35 year old do what feels rigt do not hold back. I even at the age of 26 catch myself looking at 45-55 year old of course they are in good shap. Lol
Very glad to see that there is a lot of room for discussion on the age issue. We are one of those "older" cpls and sure enough there are some "younger" cpls and singles that we have met and everyone seemed to have a very satisfying time. Of course we are concerned about staying legal in all aspects of this particular lifestyle so thet goes without saying. Thanks to all those who think older people can be hot, and to all those who say younger people can be hot, it is just wheather the paople involved are comfortable. Try things! you just might be surprised how good it can be on both ends of the age brackets. Love to all, have a good time. P.S. yes at our age "everything" works very well, thank you.
We are only in our forties and had a few tell us that we are too old, the only thing to that I CAN SAY THE OLDER THE BULL THE STIFFER THE HORN.
Always said I would never go younger than my oldest son. Well, hubby knew I fantasized about young guys so he set me up with a blindfold date and after some of the best sex of my life I took off the blindfold to find an 18 year old man-child. It just goes to prove it's all in the mind.
MrsTj
MrsTj
My wife acts like 16 when she plays but no one seems to complain, is that to young?
CANDJ23 wrote:
20 and under is too young for me... but as for him, he likes young girls, so as long as they are of legal age, then he is game.
I tend to try and find people closer to our age because they usually understand how family life and kids can be hard. We also try and find people with mutual likes, and beliefs with hope that it can be a more than one or two time thing.
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
As a general rule, we won't play with anyone younger than our children.
Butt never say never.
That is part of our thinking as well...
After reading all comments I would like to say thank you for all the input. The fact that so many people are able to voice their opinions in a mature manner is GREAT! I do worry about the younger people being illegal. Even though this is an adult site there is never a guarantee that the illegal can't sneak in. I personally do not want to cross a legal line. Although I am sure most people on here are legal it is still a concern.
We are in our early 40's and typically look for people between the age of 25 to 50 to give a variety of younger and older. I do appreciate all the tips and advise everyone has given.
We are in our early 40's and typically look for people between the age of 25 to 50 to give a variety of younger and older. I do appreciate all the tips and advise everyone has given.
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
As a general rule, we won't play with anyone younger than our children.
Butt never say never.
That is part of our thinking as well...
Now were filling really old since we have been were way to old for late 40s cpls but we will keep pluging away
What do you think.... If you think he or she is cute and you have a hankering why not. I have a lover that is the same age as one of my daughters....I don't think about age it's all about the person...Recreational sex should be about fun not about age... If you think you might have a good time....GO FOR IT!
Here, on other swinging sites, and even in vanilla dating, I've oft heard the statement, "Age is just a number." Sounds good in theory, especially to me ... but in the real world, I've found that the same people do not often practice what they preach. My practical attitude is: if "it" works (and a somewhat rational approach manifests), go for it!
We started out as a younger couple in this life style and it seem like most of the couple we have meet have been older then us but have meet a couple who are younger as well. We feel as long as there mature and fun to be around age isn't as important 
ALINEEDISU wrote:CPL_WANTS_CPL wrote:
[quote=ALINEEDISU]18 is just a little to young.... lol.
Luckily they have been 21 and 23...
To tell the truth I have never really thought about age when it comes to being younger but i have for older.. I know its wrong. I know when I get older I wont think its fair but I remember being young and thinking its not fair that no one would give me a chance in all sorts of things because of my age. [/quote]
I know the feeling. Just had my 50th birthday and feel like a hypocrite sometimes. But I like em young lol :-)
Here is my thoughts on age. . . I wish they wouldn't have it on here ! The reason is this, when you are at a house party or meet and greet and you hit it off with someone, do you really look at them as being too old or too young? I would think its the chemistry, spark, vibe that you have with that person ? If you are caught up on the age, would you actually ask them, how old are you ? If they didn't meet that criteria would you then say NO ? I would think not, but hey maybe someone would? I've never had anyone ask when in that situation. . . thoughts ?
I like em young lol :-)
Age is always a problem for us but on the opposite end I am 31and she is 22. Personally I have never been with anyone more than a year older than me and she has pretty much been with guys around my age or younger. She has no interest in people ove 35 her step mom who raised her is only 39. I think some women are interesting who are older and I know there are guys older than me in way better shape but even I prefer younger (obviously) maybe cause I look and act younger (definitely the more immature or the two of us haha)... We always wonder why more younger people aren't interested in the lifestyle and if we are just comfortable at a younger age then most (well her anyways). Typically we look for no older than 35 but even then she likes girls and is only interested in ones in the same shape as her and she is 22 and doesn't have to work for it yet In all honesty we have had limited luck and have ofetn had people tell us we need to espand our horizons but hey we like what we like and don't feel we should compromise but in all honesty we don't find many people who have much in common with us that are attractive to us. So in all honesty we say if they are attractive to you and you are attractive to them then go for it, but if something makes you uncomfortable or weirds you out just wait it out something will come around that is more your style. But like we said we have had limited success so who are we to tell someone to hold off
I am 31and she is 22. Personally I have never been with anyone more than a year older than me and she has pretty much been with guys around my age or younger. She has no interest in people ove 35 her step mom who raised her is only 39. I think some women are interesting who are older and I know there are guys older than me in way better shape but even I prefer younger (obviously) maybe cause I look and act younger (definitely the more immature or the two of us haha)... We always wonder why more younger people aren't interested in the lifestyle and if we are just comfortable at a younger age then most (well her anyways). Typically we look for no older than 35 but even then she likes girls and is only interested in ones in the same shape as her and she is 22 and doesn't have to work for it yet In all honesty we have had limited luck and have ofetn had people tell us we need to espand our horizons but hey we like what we like and don't feel we should compromise but in all honesty we don't find many people who have much in common with us that are attractive to us. So in all honesty we say if they are attractive to you and you are attractive to them then go for it, but if something makes you uncomfortable or weirds you out just wait it out something will come around that is more your style. But like we said we have had limited success so who are we to tell someone to hold off FUCKADOODLEDOO wrote:
We don't really look at the age cause we have met some peeps 50 and older that party like rock stars and have dealt with peeps younger than us that have the mentality of peeps our age or even older. Iam 40 and the hubby is 43 and we have out partied most of the younger crowd. I think you only act and play as old as you feel.
Gina
Amen honey, if you can get the fire lit, let's got hot and burn the place down!
FUCKADOODLEDOO wrote:
We don't really look at the age cause we have met some peeps 50 and older that party like rock stars and have dealt with peeps younger than us that have the mentality of peeps our age or even older. Iam 40 and the hubby is 43 and we have out partied most of the younger crowd. I think you only act and play as old as you feel.
Gina
Amen honey, if you can get the fire lit, let's got hot and burn the place down!