So I was at Trapeze in Atlanta a couple saturday's ago with a friend. Walking around in the back is towels/nude only. I have a lot of chest hair and I understand that not everyone likes chest hair...but i was standing at the bar getting a drink for me and my friend and a lady talking to her friend yells out "EEEEEWWWWWW!!!!! THAT IS FUCKING GROSS! LEARN HOW TO SHAVE OR TAKE CARE OF THAT OR SOMETHING!"
Now just a thought at being a human being...whether you are the hottest person in a place or not or somewhere in between or someone is not someone you would kiss/sleep with/fuck etc...seriously just a bit rude....
Sorry this was my way of venting...but I hope no one else whether male/female/couple ; skinny, hot, big,hairy, endowed, not endowed (tits or dicks)..I hope none of you ever have to experience that ...
Made me wish I was in Utah where i met so many fun and beautiful and nice people!!!
Now just a thought at being a human being...whether you are the hottest person in a place or not or somewhere in between or someone is not someone you would kiss/sleep with/fuck etc...seriously just a bit rude....
Sorry this was my way of venting...but I hope no one else whether male/female/couple ; skinny, hot, big,hairy, endowed, not endowed (tits or dicks)..I hope none of you ever have to experience that ...
Made me wish I was in Utah where i met so many fun and beautiful and nice people!!!
Well some people are just rude by nature or just think they are all that and a bag of chips. It goes back to the golden rule, treat others the way you want to be treated. Perhaps some people like to be treated rudely.... Or just use Thumpers moms quote "If you can't say something nice, don't say nothin' at all"
I sure am glad my mother raised me to have some manners!
I would have prolly said something like. "Hey I totally shaved that shit off but unfortunately it grows back INSTANTLY when I get too close to a ugly skanky ho." Ok I prolly wouldn't have said that but I would have said something about how rude it was of her to say something like that and that I hope she is fortunate enough in her life not to ever encounter anyone as rude as she is.
Yeah, but did she say it with a southern drawl?
Next time just smile and very smugly reply, "Oh, you don't know?" Then walk away. Later she will spend hours online googling men with chest hair.
Next time just smile and very smugly reply, "Oh, you don't know?" Then walk away. Later she will spend hours online googling men with chest hair.
Well I would say now you know how flat women feel. And I blame the media for this image of the perfect person. Look at all the clothing advertisements and such. Big boobs or go home and hairless bodies.
How was the trap other than that?
How was the trap other than that?
Well, I can say, we lived near Atlanta and we got the hell out of there for that very reason. People were all about money and appearance. Sorry you had to encounter that. I wouldn't have even noticed the body hair because you have the most amazing eyes I've seen on a man.
The Mrs.
The Mrs.
UTCPLBIF wrote:
Well, I can say, we lived near Atlanta and we got the hell out of there for that very reason. People were all about money and appearance. Sorry you had to encounter that. I wouldn't have even noticed the body hair because you have the most amazing eyes I've seen on a man.
The Mrs.
He does have gorgeous eyes doesn't he!
I would assume she had an absolutely perfect, flawlwess body?
If not, I would have casually responded by asking her: "where are your blue ribbons"?
If not, I would have casually responded by asking her: "where are your blue ribbons"?
Just a Trashy Low Class Bitch. Once in awhile, you gonna run across one.
MAYBEMOR wrote:
Well I would say now you know how flat women feel. And I blame the media for this image of the perfect person. Look at all the clothing advertisements and such. Big boobs or go home and hairless bodies.
How was the trap other than that?
Um ... I kinda like the feel of a "flat" woman. (I know, I'm weird.)
OMG ... that story made me laugh ... in a "Gee I also laugh when folks fall down even though I know I shouldn't" sort of way. What a bitch.
It was nice of her to point out her own ugliness 'cause it might not have been obvious to you otherwise. This way you didn't have to waste your time pursuing something you'd end up despising/regretting?
Sorry you got hit with that crap though ... Gawd how I despise people like that.
It was nice of her to point out her own ugliness 'cause it might not have been obvious to you otherwise. This way you didn't have to waste your time pursuing something you'd end up despising/regretting?
Sorry you got hit with that crap though ... Gawd how I despise people like that.
Opinions are not only like assholes in the way that everyone has one, but sometimes the person giving the opinion is an ASSHOLE! Sorry this uncomfortable experience happened to you. Clearly, the person who said it has some issues of their own. Dont take their insecurities or preferences personally. It is our uniquness which make us all special. 
most the time i read the posts because peoples opinions say something about their personalities.but i will keep to myself. today is different......... physical attributes play a big part in attraction i learned this long ago and Fantasyseeker I'm sorry you had to endure this kinda experience of rudeness. but let me assure you that after 40 yrs of expeeiencing things like this it tends to be no skin off your nose, trust me. it's a daily issue whenever i leave the house. but in a sense i agree with the comments you have amazing eyes and the eyes are the doorway to the soul so i'm gonna go out on a limb here and say you must have a gorgeous soul.
The Mrs.
VROOM SLURP PARK SQUEEZE ( a drive-by kiss and hug.. incase ya don't figure it out) ;-D
The Mrs.
VROOM SLURP PARK SQUEEZE ( a drive-by kiss and hug.. incase ya don't figure it out) ;-D
Thanks for the responses guys! ...Normally i let stuff fall off my back... i am not really sure why it really bothered me that night...i think cause she had a very loud and annoying squealing voice and kept yelling it out loud...and don't worry i understand that some people like only some races, or looks or size or hair/no hair...just not sure why i got self conscious after that and let it affect me...i guess we all have our off nights ! lol....
Thanks for the compliments on the eyes ladies! i got lucky..my indian parents some how gave me hazelish eyes that seem to be a bit chameleon like!
i hope to make a trip out to SLC again soon and maybe grab a drink or food with some of you! Anytime anyone is in Chicago please do hit me up!!!
Thanks for the compliments on the eyes ladies! i got lucky..my indian parents some how gave me hazelish eyes that seem to be a bit chameleon like!
i hope to make a trip out to SLC again soon and maybe grab a drink or food with some of you! Anytime anyone is in Chicago please do hit me up!!!
FANTASYSEEKER wrote:
So I was at Trapeze in Atlanta a couple saturday's ago with a friend. Walking around in the back is towels/nude only. I have a lot of chest hair and I understand that not everyone likes chest hair...but i was standing at the bar getting a drink for me and my friend and a lady talking to her friend yells out "EEEEEWWWWWW!!!!! THAT IS FUCKING GROSS! LEARN HOW TO SHAVE OR TAKE CARE OF THAT OR SOMETHING!"
Now just a thought at being a human being...whether you are the hottest person in a place or not or somewhere in between or someone is not someone you would kiss/sleep with/fuck etc...seriously just a bit rude....
Sorry this was my way of venting...but I hope no one else whether male/female/couple ; skinny, hot, big,hairy, endowed, not endowed (tits or dicks)..I hope none of you ever have to experience that ...
Made me wish I was in Utah where i met so many fun and beautiful and nice people!!!
Whatever you are hot and I like hair or no hair..........Dont let that thing ruin you day. You know your hot!!!
Hotfire
OGDENCOUPLE2634 wrote:
most the time i read the posts because peoples opinions say something about their personalities.but i will keep to myself. today is different......... physical attributes play a big part in attraction i learned this long ago and Fantasyseeker I'm sorry you had to endure this kinda experience of rudeness. but let me assure you that after 40 yrs of expeeiencing things like this it tends to be no skin off your nose, trust me. it's a daily issue whenever i leave the house. but in a sense i agree with the comments you have amazing eyes and the eyes are the doorway to the soul so i'm gonna go out on a limb here and say you must have a gorgeous soul.
The Mrs.
VROOM SLURP PARK SQUEEZE ( a drive-by kiss and hug.. incase ya don't figure it out) ;-D
I agree with the eyes being the gateway of their souls I look them all straight in the eye just to make sure. hehehe
I'm reminded of a work mate (a woman) who carried around a picture (from her sister) of her brother-in-law in the shower. His chest was so hairy it looked like he was wearing a sweater. I often thought he'd probably go ballistic is he knew how his picture was being used!
EVILGRAPECHICK wrote:
On the plus side, she gave you a very clear heads up about what kind of person she really is. It's too bad more people don't come with that kind of early warning system (although these forums are a nice way of gaining insight).
And for what it's worth, I think chest hair is great, especially when it's attached to a nice chest!
Agree
A few years ago we were at a house party with 1 couple we knew and several we did not know. 3 days later the male half of one of the couples showed up at my job, as one of our auditors.
You just never know...
You just never know...
I'm finding out sitting at home on comp since Jan.... Just my observation sitting a few lifestyle chat rooms and talking to people in the lifestyle in general.. I too wonder why it's becoming the norm to diss and be rude to people.. It's like we forgot the values that most of us were taught to us by our parents and grand parents... Like if you don't have some good to say then don't say a thing...come on people..Our morals are already not the norm.. Can't we at least keep our values?..OK I'll climb down from the soap box to let the next person in line get up..