These are some of the things that we like to pack for a playdate. If we missed anything, please add to the listing. 
- condoms
- large pack of baby wipes
- his/her robes
- sexy nightie
- 5 Hour Energy shots
- two bath towels
- four bottles of sports drinks
- comfortable boxers to lounge in
- swim suits/binki if hot tub/pools are available
- motion lotion
- baby oil
- Phase Ten Masters Edition card game
- ?????
Of course, we never go anywhere empty handed and like to take a desert or appetizer along with whatever we're drinking. It's important to us that we're not only good hosts, but good guests as well. Happy playing everyone!
- condoms
- large pack of baby wipes
- his/her robes
- sexy nightie
- 5 Hour Energy shots
- two bath towels
- four bottles of sports drinks
- comfortable boxers to lounge in
- swim suits/binki if hot tub/pools are available
- motion lotion
- baby oil
- Phase Ten Masters Edition card game
- ?????
Of course, we never go anywhere empty handed and like to take a desert or appetizer along with whatever we're drinking. It's important to us that we're not only good hosts, but good guests as well. Happy playing everyone!
dont forgetsome of your favert toys
I bring a tooth brush too 
Batteries for the toys. A bottle of wine. Edible undies. Your favorite neglige.
candles, music, sun glasses (for the drive home in the morning), vodka, tequila, mixers, bottled water.
lots of ice
Damn! Forgot the toiletries bag. Good thing you guys got my back there! 
- toothbrush / toothpaste
- deodorant
- colongne / perfume
- shaving kit
- liquid soap
- hair brush
All great ideas! See, told you that we forgot a few things. LOL Candles, definitely yes if yer meeting a couple at a hotel and ya gotta have TUNES! Can't forget those portable speakers to go along with the iPod. I always have strip, fuck and slow jams playlists available at anytime.
- toothbrush / toothpaste
- deodorant
- colongne / perfume
- shaving kit
- liquid soap
- hair brush
All great ideas! See, told you that we forgot a few things. LOL Candles, definitely yes if yer meeting a couple at a hotel and ya gotta have TUNES! Can't forget those portable speakers to go along with the iPod. I always have strip, fuck and slow jams playlists available at anytime.
We have yet to stay overnight anywhere... guess we are players. hit it and bounce. Jk just haven't had time too yet
Rope light and 3 dozen battery candles... super high Quality chocolate bar, cheese and crackers ,wine and bottle opener, wine glasses. bottled water. massage oil. (intimo by wet). Don't forget the ipod and mini player with dance music set and a massage music set.
Anyone I've ever encountered who is an experienced Lifestyler knows to NEVER even THINK of wearing cologne or perfume when going to play.
#1. Not everyone likes the same scent. Yours may be a HUGE turn off to some people.
#2. A lot of folks are alergic to certain colognes and/or perfumes. QUICK - call 911, and let everyone know where you are and what you're up to. (the police often accompany paramedics)
#3. If it's a group situation, you end up with the scent of everyone you've been with now on YOU. And 5 or 6 different scents mixed together can get pretty rancid.
#4. See all of the above.
Deodorant and proper hygiene are, of course, an entirely different matter.
#1. Not everyone likes the same scent. Yours may be a HUGE turn off to some people.
#2. A lot of folks are alergic to certain colognes and/or perfumes. QUICK - call 911, and let everyone know where you are and what you're up to. (the police often accompany paramedics)
#3. If it's a group situation, you end up with the scent of everyone you've been with now on YOU. And 5 or 6 different scents mixed together can get pretty rancid.
#4. See all of the above.
Deodorant and proper hygiene are, of course, an entirely different matter.
And OMG PLEASE make sure that it's baby wipes and not hand sanitizing wipes...
We were just at a party and hubby and I played in one of the play rooms...we got done and on the coffee table were tissues, lube (didn't need that), wipes, etc...so I grabbed a couple wipes to clean up and HOLY MOTHER OF GOD!!!!
Those were not baby wipes! Alcohol in the coochie has got to be one of the most unpleasant experiences I have ever had!!!!
We were just at a party and hubby and I played in one of the play rooms...we got done and on the coffee table were tissues, lube (didn't need that), wipes, etc...so I grabbed a couple wipes to clean up and HOLY MOTHER OF GOD!!!!
Those were not baby wipes! Alcohol in the coochie has got to be one of the most unpleasant experiences I have ever had!!!!
Lmao that's a hilarious visual. I bet that sucked so bad!
"From Him"
OMFG don't let her see this, I can't carry her bag as it is, let alone know what is in it.
OMFG don't let her see this, I can't carry her bag as it is, let alone know what is in it.
UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY wrote:I'll remember that next time you ask for a little blue pill honey...
"From Him"
OMFG don't let her see this, I can't carry her bag as it is, let alone know what is in it.
BEARZYKINS wrote:CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
Anyone I've ever encountered who is an experienced Lifestyler knows to NEVER even THINK of wearing cologne or perfume when going to play.
#1. Not everyone likes the same scent. Yours may be a HUGE turn off to some people.
#2. A lot of folks are alergic to certain colognes and/or perfumes. QUICK - call 911, and let everyone know where you are and what you're up to. (the police often accompany paramedics)
#3. If it's a group situation, you end up with the scent of everyone you've been with now on YOU. And 5 or 6 different scents mixed together can get pretty rancid.
#4. See all of the above.
Deodorant and proper hygiene are, of course, an entirely different matter.
This was mainly meant as an after clean up refresher, however I disagree with the NEVER wear perfume/cologne theory...I'm not talking about dousing yourself in it, but we are very particular about couples hygeine-it's far more of a turn on to have a couple who smells clean, fresh and subtly fragranced as opposed to smelling like "air" or worse! I believe on this subject there will be many differing opinions tho...
Good to see that we agree on the hygeine aspect of it.
But I stand by my comments about NOT wearing fragerences.
Subtle is a subjective term, and different people will have different interpretations of it.
A given person may think their fragerence was "subtly" applied, while to others - they appear to have marinated in it.
Hypothetically, let's say it's a fairly good-sized party:
Male #1 plays with lady "A", lady "B", and lady "C".
Each of the ladies, as well as the male, are "subtly" wearing a fragerence.
What do you suppose the male is going to smell like to lady "D" when they get together?
Before you answer, I'm sure you can find 4 different fragerences in your home.
Mix a small amount of each together and see if you find the end result pleasant or not.
Oh, and be absolutely certain to add something you're allergic to in your mixture.
We prefer to spray our cologne/perfume on whatever clothing we're wearing at the time. 
Still, nothing too much, just about two or three squirts just to smell nice. Candy likes to spray on "Heavenly" from the Victoria's Secret line. It's very subtle and you won't know she's wearing it until you get up to kiss her. Yes, overdoing it and smelling like a French whore could put a dampering on things. Guess if that should happen, try to find a way to take a shower with them. LOL!
Still, nothing too much, just about two or three squirts just to smell nice. Candy likes to spray on "Heavenly" from the Victoria's Secret line. It's very subtle and you won't know she's wearing it until you get up to kiss her. Yes, overdoing it and smelling like a French whore could put a dampering on things. Guess if that should happen, try to find a way to take a shower with them. LOL!my 2 cents worth, some smells set people off. like if somone uses lavender or lilac anything guy has trouble breathing n certain scents will set off a massive headache n 4 hour nose bleeds in me. regrettfully it dont matter if it is light or as someone said marinaded. however if we notice we will be polite with an explanation as to why we are backin away its very rare but what can a person do.
BEARZYKINS wrote:CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
Anyone I've ever encountered who is an experienced Lifestyler knows to NEVER even THINK of wearing cologne or perfume when going to play.
#1. Not everyone likes the same scent. Yours may be a HUGE turn off to some people.
#2. A lot of folks are alergic to certain colognes and/or perfumes. QUICK - call 911, and let everyone know where you are and what you're up to. (the police often accompany paramedics)
#3. If it's a group situation, you end up with the scent of everyone you've been with now on YOU. And 5 or 6 different scents mixed together can get pretty rancid.
#4. See all of the above.
Deodorant and proper hygiene are, of course, an entirely different matter.
This was mainly meant as an after clean up refresher, however I disagree with the NEVER wear perfume/cologne theory...I'm not talking about dousing yourself in it, but we are very particular about couples hygeine-it's far more of a turn on to have a couple who smells clean, fresh and subtly fragranced as opposed to smelling like "air" or worse! I believe on this subject there will be many differing opinions tho...
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
Good to see that we agree on the hygeine aspect of it.
But I stand by my comments about NOT wearing fragerences.
Subtle is a subjective term, and different people will have different interpretations of it.
A given person may think their fragerence was "subtly" applied, while to others - they appear to have marinated in it.
Hypothetically, let's say it's a fairly good-sized party:
Male #1 plays with lady "A", lady "B", and lady "C".
Each of the ladies, as well as the male, are "subtly" wearing a fragerence.
What do you suppose the male is going to smell like to lady "D" when they get together?
Before you answer, I'm sure you can find 4 different fragerences in your home.
Mix a small amount of each together and see if you find the end result pleasant or not.
Oh, and be absolutely certain to add something you're allergic to in your mixture.
Maybemor says
Well for most of us we are not going to be associating with anyone who plays with 3-4 others in one setting. So wear a "small" amount of your favorite fragrance for me.
I do believe in pheromones. I Dont enjoy massive amount of fragrance but some are nice.
MAYBEMORE, I AGREE:
Much of sexual attraction is from pheromones. Every one has them. Now you tell me that you want to mask those with some sort of artificial chemistry.
Perfumes were created to hide unwanted odors, unwashed body odors from people that bathed only once a year on their birthdays. So I have to ask what are you trying to hide when you them? So you have a fragrance that you like. In what grand scheme of things do you suppose that I am going to like it also? I am not a bee and I am not looking to have sex with a flower. You are not food and if I eat pussy I don
Much of sexual attraction is from pheromones. Every one has them. Now you tell me that you want to mask those with some sort of artificial chemistry.
Perfumes were created to hide unwanted odors, unwashed body odors from people that bathed only once a year on their birthdays. So I have to ask what are you trying to hide when you them? So you have a fragrance that you like. In what grand scheme of things do you suppose that I am going to like it also? I am not a bee and I am not looking to have sex with a flower. You are not food and if I eat pussy I don
It's like airline flights these days. One guy's got KFC, the next pizza, the next Chinese food, etc. Things that may smell good by themselves end up smelling like a dumpster behind the food court.
I would add Slim Jims to the list.
I would add Slim Jims to the list.
SCJ47 wrote:
Handcuffs, nipple clamps, blow torch, rope, spurs, axle grease, double ended dildo (extra large), attitude.
U make me raff!
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:BEARZYKINS wrote:
[quote=CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL]Anyone I've ever encountered who is an experienced Lifestyler knows to NEVER even THINK of wearing cologne or perfume when going to play.
#1. Not everyone likes the same scent. Yours may be a HUGE turn off to some people.
#2. A lot of folks are alergic to certain colognes and/or perfumes. QUICK - call 911, and let everyone know where you are and what you're up to. (the police often accompany paramedics)
#3. If it's a group situation, you end up with the scent of everyone you've been with now on YOU. And 5 or 6 different scents mixed together can get pretty rancid.
#4. See all of the above.
Deodorant and proper hygiene are, of course, an entirely different matter.
This was mainly meant as an after clean up refresher, however I disagree with the NEVER wear perfume/cologne theory...I'm not talking about dousing yourself in it, but we are very particular about couples hygeine-it's far more of a turn on to have a couple who smells clean, fresh and subtly fragranced as opposed to smelling like "air" or worse! I believe on this subject there will be many differing opinions tho...
Good to see that we agree on the hygeine aspect of it.
But I stand by my comments about NOT wearing fragerences.
Subtle is a subjective term, and different people will have different interpretations of it.
A given person may think their fragerence was "subtly" applied, while to others - they appear to have marinated in it.
Hypothetically, let's say it's a fairly good-sized party:
Male #1 plays with lady "A", lady "B", and lady "C".
Each of the ladies, as well as the male, are "subtly" wearing a fragerence.
What do you suppose the male is going to smell like to lady "D" when they get together?
Before you answer, I'm sure you can find 4 different fragerences in your home.
Mix a small amount of each together and see if you find the end result pleasant or not.
Oh, and be absolutely certain to add something you're allergic to in your mixture.[/quote]
But it makes a good game of "rub, sniff and guess the lady" hahahaha
Wow people, what great ideas! You people ROCK! We will definitely be ready for our next play date with these ideas. Now our overnight bags will be complete with the blow torch and the axle grease. Thanks so much for the great ideas.
You people ROCK! We will definitely be ready for our next play date with these ideas. Now our overnight bags will be complete with the blow torch and the axle grease. Thanks so much for the great ideas.Hey, what the hell! You all forgot the whipped cream! Just to think of all of the potential fun and places for whipped cream to be used.