I see so many different opinions on what these terms mean.
Bi curious- means you have some interest but are not sure of how much interest you will have.
BI- comfy- "girls/guys enjoy someone of the same sex playing with them to some degree, and they will reciprocate the play to some level, but they aren't fully into it or aroused as much as they are by someone of the opposite sex."
Bi sexual- " Means you are, to some degree, turned on by someone of the same sex as well as by the opposite sex and are happy to play with either."
Lets have your input and wiki links or whatever... Perhaps swingular has a link of what definitions apply for the categories here?
Bi curious- means you have some interest but are not sure of how much interest you will have.
BI- comfy- "girls/guys enjoy someone of the same sex playing with them to some degree, and they will reciprocate the play to some level, but they aren't fully into it or aroused as much as they are by someone of the opposite sex."
Bi sexual- " Means you are, to some degree, turned on by someone of the same sex as well as by the opposite sex and are happy to play with either."
Lets have your input and wiki links or whatever... Perhaps swingular has a link of what definitions apply for the categories here?
Sounds like you've got it down I would really have to agree with those classifications.
That is how we would define it.
Oh I should add
Gay means- you only want to play with members of the same sex.
And just like everything I dont think Bi-curious or Bi comfy or bi means you do everything.. that is a person by person preference and most likely a date by date thing?
What does Bi Friendly mean? Sounds like 420 friendly??
I do know one of the first things I look for is for the other guy to be straight! I think that might still allow for incidental contact on a case by case basis?.
Gay means- you only want to play with members of the same sex.
And just like everything I dont think Bi-curious or Bi comfy or bi means you do everything.. that is a person by person preference and most likely a date by date thing?
What does Bi Friendly mean? Sounds like 420 friendly??
I do know one of the first things I look for is for the other guy to be straight! I think that might still allow for incidental contact on a case by case basis?.
Straight - can also mean the guy is receptive to a varying degree of guy-and-guy play but there's just such a stigma attached to a male being ANY degree of bi that straight is the only SAFE way to list themself.
not sure if I agree the "could have an intimate relationship with either sex" part. I am very much aroused by both sexes and LOVE sex with both men and women. but I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a woman. maybe its because I feel that I relate easier to men than to women. or maybe it's just because I prefer the man I currently have over anybody else, man or woman...
PERSEPHONE77 wrote:
Bi-curious: interested in trying it out, but not sure if it will be liked or reciprocated.
Bi-comfortable: have tried it out and are able to tolerate it, or slightly enjoy it as a mutual masterbatory level.
Bi-sexual: aroused by both sexes (individual preferences apply), could have one on one satisfying sex (not mutual masterbation because i feel there is an emotional element to it), and could have a romantic/intimate relationship with either sex.
i don't put emotion into having sex with other males, but that doesn't make me a hetero-poser nor some type of asexual. :P
i do agree to a point as a true bisexual has the potential to have a relationship with either gender. but taking emotion out of sex whether its hetero, homo, or bi... doesn't mean you're not fully into the act nor does it determine skill levels.
i personally classify the bi-whatevers as follows: (and this counts for both males and females)
bi-curious: the idea of bisexual activity is titillating and arousing but as the person as not had a full on bisexual encounter, the actual attraction cannot be fully determined at this point in time
bi-comfortable: this can vary anywhere from simply not being homophobic in 3sums/4sums/moresomes in which you may have accidental touching to encounters in which you can have a fully satisfying bisexual encounter yet you do not actively chase after relationships with the same gender and/or bisexual activities.
bi-sexual: you fully enjoy bisexual encounters and/or sex with either gender. you would be happy in a full on relationship with either gender.
again: taking emotion out of sex does not determine sexual preferences. otherwise half the world is completely asexsual/non-sexual. and that would be my 3 cents
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Bi-comfortable for me is a good way of saying I'm only bi with who I'm attracted to (like a hetero relationship), I dont just do bi because its there and available....
This classification worked out well for me because there were so many women/couples who just automatically thought I'd do bi activity with them and freaked if I didn't!
This classification worked out well for me because there were so many women/couples who just automatically thought I'd do bi activity with them and freaked if I didn't!
Heterosexual =
A) I am only interested in members of the opposite sex.
B) I am a bisexual male but can't list it here because people might ostracize me.
C) I am a bisexual male but my female partners don't know.
Gay/lesbian = I only have sex with members of the same sex.
Bi-sexual = I play with members of both sexes but I do have standards and don't fuck anyone and everyone.
Bi-curious, bi-comfortable, bi-ect. =
A) I play with members of both sexes, but only select people and I list this to prevent people from getting upset when I don't have sex with them.
B) I play with members of the same sex because it is expected of females in the lifestyle but I don't really like it.
C) I play with members of the same sex when absolutely forced to so guys can get excited, but only so far as I have to.
D) I list this because it's socially acceptable, makes me more popular, and guys think it's hot when I dance with another girl.
E) I have kissed a girl and am willing to do it again so I am bi. (Honestly, I know a female in the vanilla world who thinks this.)
F) I haven't played with a member of the same sex but am curious about it.
G) I don't mind being touched by members of the same sex but won't reciprocate.
A) I am only interested in members of the opposite sex.
B) I am a bisexual male but can't list it here because people might ostracize me.
C) I am a bisexual male but my female partners don't know.
Gay/lesbian = I only have sex with members of the same sex.
Bi-sexual = I play with members of both sexes but I do have standards and don't fuck anyone and everyone.
Bi-curious, bi-comfortable, bi-ect. =
A) I play with members of both sexes, but only select people and I list this to prevent people from getting upset when I don't have sex with them.
B) I play with members of the same sex because it is expected of females in the lifestyle but I don't really like it.
C) I play with members of the same sex when absolutely forced to so guys can get excited, but only so far as I have to.
D) I list this because it's socially acceptable, makes me more popular, and guys think it's hot when I dance with another girl.
E) I have kissed a girl and am willing to do it again so I am bi. (Honestly, I know a female in the vanilla world who thinks this.)
F) I haven't played with a member of the same sex but am curious about it.
G) I don't mind being touched by members of the same sex but won't reciprocate.
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It seems that more women are able to be bi-something than men. Is that conditioning or biology? Women
It seems that more women are able to be bi-something than men. Is that conditioning or biology? Women
What about bi-in-denial. My better half claims to be only bi-tolerent but whenever
we hook up with a woman I can't get a body part in edge wise. But right after she claims
she doesn't enjoy it.
we hook up with a woman I can't get a body part in edge wise. But right after she claims
she doesn't enjoy it.
What about the try-sexual. He/she just likes sex the experiment,excitEment and thrill of new things and that high from arousal, and if it feels good and everyone is, ok with it then it d,on't matter who's,.sucking, fucking or touching who .. We also belive that doing things for your partners that we woulnt normally do for their excitement isn't a bad, thing as long as you want to please each other and you get pleasure in, pleasing you're partner desires and theres pleasure going both ways our the give and take. We do things everyday for those we love that we don't like or want to but it makes everyone happy so the Bi-poser thing might be good door some that are just being cool but not for all . Sorry if this don't make to much sense but I'm multitasking lol
Not sure what tri sexual means? Sorry had to look that one up.
Main Entry: trisexual
Part of Speech: adj
Definition: pertaining to having sex with males, females, and one's self
On the bi poser idea, DDriver did bring up a valid point. As long as a gal has no problem with the concept of gal/gal play and she knows how this pleases and excites the men ad lets not forget it translates back to her enjoyment in the ending. And we all know of course gals are so soft and smell so good and why wouldn't a female like to kiss and suck on nipples as much as any mammal or us boys?
Main Entry: trisexual
Part of Speech: adj
Definition: pertaining to having sex with males, females, and one's self
On the bi poser idea, DDriver did bring up a valid point. As long as a gal has no problem with the concept of gal/gal play and she knows how this pleases and excites the men ad lets not forget it translates back to her enjoyment in the ending. And we all know of course gals are so soft and smell so good and why wouldn't a female like to kiss and suck on nipples as much as any mammal or us boys?
Try-sexual: Will try anything
Buy sexual: If you can't get it you'll buy it lol
Buy sexual: If you can't get it you'll buy it lol
BR3RD wrote:
Try-sexual: Will try anything Buy sexual: If you can't get it you'll buy it lol
I like it. By this definition a lot of us are try sexuals. Right On Bro.