Are most couple on here just looking for couple to hook up with, or are there couple who are actually looking for new friend to hang out with? Just curious to see the kind of response this topic brings!!
The answer is Yes!
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Hello there..
We need the friend connection. Without it there wi.ll be no playing for us
I think that most couple are, we are the same way!! We would prefer to be friends before the wild fun comes lol
Seem like most people we have talk to on here are just looking to hit it and quit it lol
HOTTIEINSOUTAHCOUNTY wrote:LOOKIN4FUN369 wrote:
Seem like most people we have talk to on here are just looking to hit it and quit it lol
They very well could be. This lifestyle is pretty all-inclusive.
We prefer to get to know the people we bang. We like people -- a lot -- and like people we can have sex with even more.
We are pretty new to this life style and like to get to know people before we go just into bed with them.
HOTTIEINSOUTAHCOUNTY wrote:LOOKIN4FUN369 wrote:
We are pretty new to this life style and like to get to know people before we go just into bed with them.
There's nothing wrong with that approach at all -- we agree fully. The important thing is that you have fun doing what you do.
Thats very true
It is nice to meet strangers. But how do you have fun with someone you do not like? Thus we both always prefer friends for fun times and play time.
Friends for us always! We prefer to do our homework online before an actual meet up/play date happens. Once we find a couple that likes the way we look, we communicate via emails, texts and phone calls. This is part of the getting to know each other phase and it is very important to us. Always be respectable, don't run out the gate sending naked pics of yourself or asking how big the males cock is. If you do, you never hear from us again. This is also part of the weeding out process. We found several couples who just have no clue about being respectful. Seriously, would you walk up to someone at a m/g and ask the female if she takes it in the ass? Our rule of thumb is talk on here like you would be talking to us face to face for the first time. You'd be surprised how fast and effectively you can weed out the fuck em' and leave em' types. This is NOT age specific because it has happened from older couples as well as younger ones. If the male too quickly tells me that he thinks Candy has a hot ass, it's a deal breaker. It tells me that he's only interested in getting inside her pants rather than getting to know her. We are human beings who think we are no better than ANYONE on here or in life itself. Since July of last year, we have met some really wonderful people and on the flip side, people who we wouldn't give the time of day for. Most of them are our friends still but only some of them will we ever play with again. You might find someone exactly to your liking physically, but once you meet them, they are the exact opposite of what you look for. First and foremost is that we have to both be attracted to you. Second, we want to see if what's on the inside is compatible with the outside.
We are not the type of couple to meet someone at a m/g and play with them that night. We like to get to know our playmates first. Once we see that they're not assholes or idiots through effective communication, we move on to bigger and better things with them.
So we stick with the friends rather than fuck buddies. Getting intimate with someone that you can't be friends with would be rather uncomfortable to say the least.
Some basic rules for us are always be yourselves, never be pushy, always respectable and of course just have FUN!
We wish you two the best of luck in the LS.
Cheers!
We are not the type of couple to meet someone at a m/g and play with them that night. We like to get to know our playmates first. Once we see that they're not assholes or idiots through effective communication, we move on to bigger and better things with them.
So we stick with the friends rather than fuck buddies. Getting intimate with someone that you can't be friends with would be rather uncomfortable to say the least.
Some basic rules for us are always be yourselves, never be pushy, always respectable and of course just have FUN!
We wish you two the best of luck in the LS.
Cheers!
....Ooooppss, sorry about that...forgot the second part of the question. Derrrrr. Our opinion on "just friends" is simple: This is NOT Face Book. This is a "swinging" site and therefore we are looking for "friends" that we can get intimate with. To back this up, we only accept friend ivitations from people within our distance limits and ones we feel we are attracted to. Since we don't live in Utah, we are fortunate enough to have a few friends in our area. 
Seems as though 90% of the couples are from Utah, but we aren't biased in anyway. We like the site and it has been good to us finding suitable playmates for us.
Hope this answers your question. Sorry for the two parter....LOL
Now get out there and have the time of your lives. Ya only live once so ya mighta well enjoy it the best of your ability.
Cheers!
Seems as though 90% of the couples are from Utah, but we aren't biased in anyway. We like the site and it has been good to us finding suitable playmates for us.Hope this answers your question. Sorry for the two parter....LOL
Now get out there and have the time of your lives. Ya only live once so ya mighta well enjoy it the best of your ability.
Cheers!
That's not really an easy question to answer. We've met a bunch of couples just once. We generally don't hop into bed on the first date, but it does happen. I think there have been couples that we've hopped into bed with that we might not see in other than swinger settings, but we definitely have friends we swing with that we would and do. There are swinger couples we'd really like to spend vanilla time with but just haven't had the time. Candycanepa is right in that this is a swingers site for swinging friends, so the intent is to find friends to hop into bed with. We're a super busy couple. He travels 4-5 days a week and, like a lot of you, we have kids at home. That makes it tough to have time to really have close friends, swinger or vanilla.
we have played many times, and consider many of those who we have played with as freinds, thats not saying we get together to do regular vinilla things, not saying we don't want to, just that it is understood that many of us have very busy lives, but these freinds and new freinds are a really good outlet from the pressures of our everyday lives with, family, and work, lets us release our fantasies of what life should be as we see it, and these freinds that we get to play with have a special place our hearts, and if we get to play again together, it is a bonus, we also love when we can be with friends in the lifestyle so that we can let our secret thoughts come out, and feeling that we are with someone that has similar ways of life,, we have many freinds, that we have only seen once, but know if our paths cross again, we will all have fun together, in or out of bed.
RIPIN22 wrote:
we have played many times, and consider many of those who we have played with as friends, that's not saying we get together to do regular vanilla things, not saying we don't want to, just that it is understood that many of us have very busy lives, but these friends and new friends are a really good outlet from the pressures of our everyday lives with, family, and work, lets us release our fantasies of what life should be as we see it, and these friends that we get to play with have a special place our hearts, and if we get to play again together, it is a bonus, we also love when we can be with friends in the lifestyle so that we can let our secret thoughts come out, and feeling that we are with someone that has similar ways of life,, we have many friends, that we have only seen once, but know if our paths cross again, we will all have fun together, in or out of bed.
So true... We have friends we play with, friends that are just friends and of course those special sexting friends for fun. It is the LS as a whole we like. The freedom to be who you are without judgement and to share in the some of the same fantasies.