Swingers Forum - Preferences?

1. Ass
2. Eyes
3. Smile

* Compliment these with a wonderful personality and BINGO!

1. Smile
2. Personality
3. Self-confidence

.. this is what I look at when I first look at a profile
1 fairly fit via the H & W numbers
2 non smoking
3 non bi guy

then on to the other things.

Depends if its just for sex then
1. Boobs, at least a B
2 Smile and good teeth
3. Confidence

For dating
1. personality, has to b able to take a joke, cause I like to fuck with people.
2 BOOBS, yes I AM SHALLOW
3 Able to hold an intelligent conversation, cause just fuckin ya only goes so far. unless ur really hot haha
4. And has to b open sexually, cause im a a Freak!
...this is the male half btw.

Wow, you guys are really cumming through with this one! Would you all mind after a while if I compile the list and then we could all rate the categories based on everyone's feedback? I was going to do two separate ones with outside / inside prefs, but the majority rules! LOL! Seems a lot of people are like us. First of all, let me say that there HAS to be an outside attraction then we move onto the what's on the inside. So true that some make or break themselves with what's on the inside. There are beautiful, fun, laid back, respectable people out there and then there are rude, conceited, stuck on themselves snobs. Pretty easy to tell both on here and when you meet in person.

Look in a few days for the comprehensive, compiled list of all your prefs in one poll. Once again, thanks for all the great responses! You guys ROCK!

We like the following.

1. Smile/teeth
2. Hygiene...Hair, smell, etc...
3. Eyes

Of course Personality will destroy the best of the above listed

UCANTOUCHMYMONKY wrote:

sultry eyes
captivating smile
long flowing hair of any color
that part of her neck just below her ear that begs to be kisses and lightly nibbled
A little blush with averted eyes
A fit healthy body that shows she takes care of herself
small of her back as it curves towards her ass
a tummy with just enough padding to be soft and supple, but with a tight six pack just underneath and a belly piercing.
That curve between the bottom of her breast and her hip when she lies on her side naked

If I find her physically attractive I move on to personality. In my experience if a woman likes me, she shows me the charming side of her personality. If she does not, she is typically aloof or even down right bitchy. So to me personality is more about a mutual chemistry. I like what Jules in pulp fiction has to say about personality.

Jules: Hey, sewer rat may taste like pumpkin pie, but I'd never know 'cause I wouldn't eat the filthy motherfucker. Pigs sleep and root in shit. That's a filthy animal. I ain't eatin' nothing that ain't got sense enough to disregard its own feces.

Vincent: How about a dog? Dog eats its own feces.

Jules: I don't eat dog either.

Vincent: Yeah, but do you consider a dog to be a filthy animal?

Jules: I wouldn't go so far as to call a dog filthy, but they're definitely dirty. But, a dog's got personality. Personality goes a long way.

Vincent: Ah, so by that rationale, if a pig had a better personality, he would cease to be a filthy animal. Is that true?

Jules: Well, we'd have to be talkin' about one charming motherfucking pig. I mean, he'd have to be ten times more charming than that Arnold on Green Acres, you know what I'm saying?

Quoting one of the best movies ever put to screen just made you one of the coolest mother fuckers on this site!

this one is tough... I mean I have my specifics... but right now I don't want to over analyze something that should be simple (cause I do that a lot) but it depends on 2 main things:

1. long term
2. just sex, maybe FWB

the first one I am more picky (but in this scenario I am sure we are referring to a non-serious commitment type of sex... so we'll just go onto #2

my favorite... and in no particular order...

1.Eyes
2.Smile
3.Ass

I can say personality, but I've got to be drawn in in some form or another in order to experience their personality.. so if I don't have a minimal combination of the 3 listed above... I won't ever know their personality

no, getting to know someone's personlity online before meeting them in person doesn't change anything, you can be the nicest, sweetest person on the planet but nothing will happen if they have nothing on physical end to offer.

(he)

Legs
Ass
Smile

kitty:
1. height (i like 'em tall)
2. abs (6pack... yes pls)
3. penis (yummy)

mark:
1. ass (tight round and toned)
2. abs (toned)
3. height (he likes 'em petite)

Height/Weight proportionate
Clean and fresh
Nice teeth

We're discerning people. There has to be some physical attraction, but we're a whole lot more about personality. We like fun, sexy attitudes.