We sure as hell dont want to meet folks if they dont take time to read our profile. I know it is long. We understand we dont have many pictures in our public album. But we do the rare thing and show a picture of both the male and female. Our long profile is so folks can decide if we interest them. If we do please just send us a line of two saying why you think it would be fun to get to know us mor! If folks cant take 30 seconds to type up some sort of email hello at the same time as they push the Request friendship button they go to Jail (no matter how hot they look). 115 couples are in jail now. It must be that so many of you just approve these blind friend requests.
We don't approve Blind Requests, if they look ok we send an email first to get a conversation going. Out of towners may quickly get a reject, because unless they travel there is no point. Some people have been very good about sending emails along with the FR. Single Men get no "quarters" they are rejected without prejudice or forethought. Basically because they didn't read the profile. You are a nice couple "Maybemor", and couples should seek you out. We met at the Powell pre-meeting. Good luck!
we never reject them because then they send a new one, we just leave them in pending limbo. We would be embarrassed to keep sending the same couple a friend request over and over and yet it seems to happen
I was gonna say I dont remember one from you, Probably would have approved that one lol
We know when someone doesn't read our profile.. we definitely hate when someone doesn't!! That IS the purpose of having a profile and filling it out!!! It saves from a lot of drama later because a lot of people just assume everyone feels the way they do.. and we don't! LOL
I guess you should figure out why you should bother granting friendship requests in the first place. We each have our own reasoning. So someone requests friendship and the computer sends you a dumb request. They just sit there so let them. If the person or persons really want to be friends then they can get off the stump and send you an email. It is called effort and effort is rewarded in most cases. I would rather weed out the lazy ones sooner than later.
I am about to the point where unless someone is interested enough to email back and forth a few times and sit over coffee then I probably will not grant access or ask for it. As far as I am concerned my time is valuable. If all I want to do is look at skin then there are easier places to do it. If I don't match your profile or you don
I am about to the point where unless someone is interested enough to email back and forth a few times and sit over coffee then I probably will not grant access or ask for it. As far as I am concerned my time is valuable. If all I want to do is look at skin then there are easier places to do it. If I don't match your profile or you don
We are firm believers that friends are friends. You see each other on a somewhat regular occasion. Do things together if only to go out to clubs. blind friend requests go to pending limbo. Better then never have to think about them again.
Single male friend requests get them blocked. we don't block couples unless we perceive them as intentionally rude to others. We have over 100 revealing face pictures in our private album. So we reserve it for folks we have met and know personally. We have come to love the temporary access feature. We grant access to a couple of face family friendly pictures to allow recognition at an event.
So with all the wind, happy sailing and we have no problem extending our friends file to more than the current 8 couples.
Simples
Single male friend requests get them blocked. we don't block couples unless we perceive them as intentionally rude to others. We have over 100 revealing face pictures in our private album. So we reserve it for folks we have met and know personally. We have come to love the temporary access feature. We grant access to a couple of face family friendly pictures to allow recognition at an event.
So with all the wind, happy sailing and we have no problem extending our friends file to more than the current 8 couples.
Simples
All you freinds. I wish I could correct my spelling error in the title... Thanks for no one raking me over the coals for that. And is it true if folks private album is not yellow that it is empty??? and what do folks think we are going to open up our privates if you dont seem to have any.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:And the lady in this couple is very sexy to
Post the Mrs. Boobs as your primary picture and some guys just cannot resist. Who can blame them, they are boobs after all. We moved that picture to the primary position today for about an hour and a half and we got several single guys and a few married men in couples that sent friend request without reading the profile. One of the single guys sent an e-mail afterwards apologizing saying that he saw the picture and just couldn't help it. He read the profile immediately afterwards and said oops. So he did read it. Maybe expecting healthy men, even healthy literate men to read before reacting, to boobs, is like expecting men to read the nutritional label on beer. Oops my wife just informed me there is no nutritional label on beer.
When we get a blind friend request, we send an e-mail back asking why they requested friendship.
Never hear back.
Never hear back.