Not starting a war here so please don't hate. We have been in the lifestyle long enough to know and respect that single males are PART of this lifestyle and they are here to stay. Just as a single FEMALE (Unicorn) has every right to be as well. 
In all fairness, we have met both disrespectful COUPLES and SINGLE MALES. At a house party one time, we met some of the most wonderful single males in the lifestyle. Do we dislike single males? Not really. Only when they (as well as couples) break the golden rule....respect.
So to be crystal clear here, we are NOT dissing single males/females here. It is our PREFERENCE in the lifestyle and we only search/play with other couples. Everyone is looking for something different...it's America isn't it? The freedom of choice?
To all you single males out there...we wish you well in your searches. We really do. We have you blocked for one simple reason...you are NOT what we are looking for. If the site had a "Block Single Females" option, it would be checked as well. Once again, we only search/play with other couples.
I know this site does not have a block couples option like some others. Believe us, when we see a certain individual or couple has a "this person blocks COUPLES from viewing their profile" we instantly realize it's their preference and not what they are looking for in the lifestyle. So we basically MOVE ON to those that do. No harm no foul in our book. Just look at it as an FYI. We LEARN from profiles and see if they're compatible for us. We don't like to bother ANYONE who might not be interested in us. In reality though, doesn't it INCREASE your chances to know a LITTLE about them before contacting them?
This poll is to only see how many couples LOOK for single males. If you single males are smart, you might just sit back, and LOOK for those that are interested in you. Nobody ever said this lifestyle was EASY for anyone. Really now, finding a single player is easier than finding a couple to play with. Not only do you have to get ONE green light, but TWO from the couple. So who really has it harder? Use this poll as a TOOL and use it to your advantage. Good luck to all. Remember, there is SOMEONE for SOMEBODY out there. Peace! 
In all fairness, we have met both disrespectful COUPLES and SINGLE MALES. At a house party one time, we met some of the most wonderful single males in the lifestyle. Do we dislike single males? Not really. Only when they (as well as couples) break the golden rule....respect. So to be crystal clear here, we are NOT dissing single males/females here. It is our PREFERENCE in the lifestyle and we only search/play with other couples. Everyone is looking for something different...it's America isn't it? The freedom of choice?
To all you single males out there...we wish you well in your searches. We really do. We have you blocked for one simple reason...you are NOT what we are looking for. If the site had a "Block Single Females" option, it would be checked as well. Once again, we only search/play with other couples.
I know this site does not have a block couples option like some others. Believe us, when we see a certain individual or couple has a "this person blocks COUPLES from viewing their profile" we instantly realize it's their preference and not what they are looking for in the lifestyle. So we basically MOVE ON to those that do. No harm no foul in our book. Just look at it as an FYI. We LEARN from profiles and see if they're compatible for us. We don't like to bother ANYONE who might not be interested in us. In reality though, doesn't it INCREASE your chances to know a LITTLE about them before contacting them?
This poll is to only see how many couples LOOK for single males. If you single males are smart, you might just sit back, and LOOK for those that are interested in you. Nobody ever said this lifestyle was EASY for anyone. Really now, finding a single player is easier than finding a couple to play with. Not only do you have to get ONE green light, but TWO from the couple. So who really has it harder?
Use this poll as a TOOL and use it to your advantage. Good luck to all. Remember, there is SOMEONE for SOMEBODY out there. Peace! We love single males. It is at times easier to find a single be it female or male than a couple. At times we have blocked them because at that moment that is not what we are looking for. However, there are many singles that are flakes or that are married and looking to step out on their spouses. I am not trying to start a fight with that comment, this is just our personal experiences. Many are very respectful and we have lots of fun with them.
We do not block them until they become a nusance and even then just the specific one being a nuisance. That being said we dont search them out either but we have and do on occasion play with single males. Single females seem much harder for us to find.
We enjoy friends in the life style so my feeling is why exclude anyone but thats just my 2 cents.
Lucky-n-NaughTy.
We enjoy friends in the life style so my feeling is why exclude anyone but thats just my 2 cents.
Lucky-n-NaughTy.
a nice, respectful single male is exactly what wed are looking for, but will not rule out the other options. noone blocked here.
I have single men as a No on my profile mainly because if I had a yes I would get way to many blind friend request. If I want to meet a single male I will look for them. So they are not blocked. For a while there they were, but after talking with my husband I have unblocked them.
Nope. But many can't or won't read our profile (admittedly it's a freakin' novel) to see how/when we will or won't interact with them.
blocked
if people are in the chat room, I say hi, tell them they're sexy, and then see if they want SM's or not, if they don't I apologize profusely.
Honestly unless most SM's have an extremely sexy realistic profile pic, they probably won't be accepted. There are a lot of us, we are in extremely large supply for very little demand.
Honestly unless most SM's have an extremely sexy realistic profile pic, they probably won't be accepted. There are a lot of us, we are in extremely large supply for very little demand.
Not bolcked
Oh, hell yeah, once I've got 'em in the hotel room I TOTALLY block then from getting back out the door!
Muahhh haaa haaaa!!!!!!!
Oh. That's not what you meant? Oh. Well I guess we don't block them then and they've really not been much of a problem. Maybe they've already heard about my reputation!!
Muahhh haaa haaaa!!!!!!!
Oh. That's not what you meant? Oh. Well I guess we don't block them then and they've really not been much of a problem. Maybe they've already heard about my reputation!!
PALS4FUN wrote:
Oh, hell yeah, once I've got 'em in the hotel room I TOTALLY block then from getting back out the door!
Muahhh haaa haaaa!!!!!!!
Oh. That's not what you meant? Oh. Well I guess we don't block them then and they've really not been much of a problem. Maybe they've already heard about my reputation!!
thats right, you fart on them huh ! ~ ! ~ hahaha ~ referring to her pic that had a caption to it, so chill out everyone ! lmao
I block them! They're all bastards. Lol
lmao Hooch !
But really I don't see what the big deal is. I personally don't contact those that don't specify in their profile that they are looking for single males. Just saves everyone time. If others want to get a hold of me they can do so if they choose. Really nobody likes a pushy jackass. ;-)
true true
This post sounds like a set up so they know who to email... lol. Jk! we only unblock when looking for one. If not, it seems they forget who they sent messages to and will keep sending the same "i'm respectful and i'm nice" emails!
Some very profound words of wisdom, MONKY.
Before GEEKGIRL and I (I being the he, of course) connected, I was a dreaded single male.
(shudder)
I conducted myself in a proper manner and, as a result, I've become friends with a LOT of couples -many of whom want nothing to do with single males in a sexual way, say so in their profiles, and have SMs blocked.
But they friended me, mostly because I proved myself worthy of their friendship.
And, coincidently, WE also have a number of SM "friends", even though our profile clearly states we aren't interested in SMs as play pals - but we don't have them blocked - nor do we necessarilly play with the ones we are friends with.
As MONKY said, there are other non-sexual reasons why friendships may develop, and good friends aren't so easy to come by that we're going to automatically dimiss the possibility of making another one.
Do we still get the trolling jerks?
Of course we do - friendship requests without any prior correspondence or dialog automatically labels you a troller and gets you ignored, whether you're a SM OR a couple.
The way we see it is, WTF difference does it make whether or not someone else does or doesn't block SMs?
Does anyone actually think someone is going to be influenced by this thread, and change their profile in order to align themselves with what 'some' other folks do or don't do?
"OMG, 3 out of 5 people who posted on this topic block SMs - so we better block them too".
How much sense does THAT make?
And just as a point of information:
When I was a SM, the vast majority of COUPLES I played with clearly stated in their profiles that they wanted NOTHING to do with SMs - lepers that we are.
Not only do I understand why they do it (most have actually admitted it), but it comes down to - God forbid your friends would find out you lowered yourself to play with a single guy.
That would be worse than having cooties.
Before GEEKGIRL and I (I being the he, of course) connected, I was a dreaded single male.
(shudder)
I conducted myself in a proper manner and, as a result, I've become friends with a LOT of couples -many of whom want nothing to do with single males in a sexual way, say so in their profiles, and have SMs blocked.
But they friended me, mostly because I proved myself worthy of their friendship.
And, coincidently, WE also have a number of SM "friends", even though our profile clearly states we aren't interested in SMs as play pals - but we don't have them blocked - nor do we necessarilly play with the ones we are friends with.
As MONKY said, there are other non-sexual reasons why friendships may develop, and good friends aren't so easy to come by that we're going to automatically dimiss the possibility of making another one.
Do we still get the trolling jerks?
Of course we do - friendship requests without any prior correspondence or dialog automatically labels you a troller and gets you ignored, whether you're a SM OR a couple.
The way we see it is, WTF difference does it make whether or not someone else does or doesn't block SMs?
Does anyone actually think someone is going to be influenced by this thread, and change their profile in order to align themselves with what 'some' other folks do or don't do?
"OMG, 3 out of 5 people who posted on this topic block SMs - so we better block them too".
How much sense does THAT make?
And just as a point of information:
When I was a SM, the vast majority of COUPLES I played with clearly stated in their profiles that they wanted NOTHING to do with SMs - lepers that we are.
Not only do I understand why they do it (most have actually admitted it), but it comes down to - God forbid your friends would find out you lowered yourself to play with a single guy.
That would be worse than having cooties.
Blocked them, as well as anyone that is rude to anyone on forums. No time for such things as this is supposed to be fun right. As for single males we just got tired of friend requests from all over with no accompanying email. Nothing personal. The mr was a single male when we met.
Simples
Simples