Swingers Forum - Cheater is a Cheater

We fully agree. We play together, or not at all. One of the things that in our humble opinion is a requirement for being in the lifestyle is trust with both your significant other as well as the people you meet and play with. You wouldn\'t hang around with someone you didn\'t trust by choice, so why would you play with them?

We have met people online (luckily we\'ve weeded them out before meeting) that misrepresent their status or misrepresent the fact that both are willing participants. We\'ve had both scenarios happen online and have luckily dodged that proverbial bullet in person.

I agree about the lieing and sneakingaround, but you cant generalize a person because they are married and swing alone I live in florida my wife lives in Mi when we can get together we usually swing together but in between the 4-5 times we do see each other I cant expect her or she expect me to not still enjoy the lifestyle so we do swing alone ocasionaly, and here is the problem because she is female she is never questioned about being alone myself I constantly get the he must be sneaking around attitude , as a couple we have never let someones personal life be involved with our lifestyle fun if your a sleaze it will show anyway and you probally would not be on our list to begin with . we thought it was best to pick people to play with our gut feelings. lets face it some people can lie better than others so the reality is you never know what the true story is
Ok I dont really know where Im going with this but here is my thoughts on the subject,

\\ Tim and ocasionaly Charlotte


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