in a perfect world where no one would get pregnant or stds or anything bad, would you wear condoms? do they make the feeling all that different? guys do they make you last longer? or do they make you go limp? i have had a few too many guys go completely limp when i said I wasn't going to play with out a condom and left very sexually frustrated because they didn't know how to man up and take care of me, so i didn't want to take care of them in return, needless to say, we didn't speak again because of it, honestly i hate condoms but I would hate more to CATCH something or get pregnant, and so i use them ALWAYS but im curious as to what others think of them. mainly, do they make guys go limp or last longer or harder or can you not feel as well with them or WHAT?
Condoms suck! But are required in this lifestyle. Won't play without them. There is a lot of shit out there. But luckily I can't get anyone pregnant anyways.. Snip snip... unless I'm sleeping with someone exclusively, condoms will always be there. Thank God for BLOWJOBS!!!!!!!
MISPLACEDTXN1969 wrote:
Personally I think that in a perfect world as you described, nobody would use condoms. Yes, there is a big difference in the feeling levels. Put a condom over two fingers sometime and just compare the sensations that you get when you touch anything.
As for not manning up and taking care of you....well any man that isn't willing to take care of a partner isn't much of a partner. Just because the "willy" isn't willing doesn't mean that the fingers went limp or his mouth went dry. We personally feel that selfish lovers aren't to be tolerated.
my two cents again.
Mr misplaced
totally agree which is why i left said instance
Just remember you can still pass on, or catch something with a blowjob just as with intercourse.
MISPLACEDTXN1969 wrote:
Btw candj23...I think i should mention...your mrs. has one fantastic ass...just saying.
Yes she does!
WOWMAMA69 wrote:
Just remember you can still pass on, or catch something with a blowjob just as with intercourse.
this is true,
yeah, and you can actually get stuff passed on through just fingering if you just happen to have a paper cut right there too....
But in a perfect world where none of that existed, well.....then would condoms have even been invented in the first place? No need for them if you can just will yourself to not get her pregnant, or if she can just will herself to not get pregnant. Then no - I wouldn't use condoms. Unless it was like some way of making me last longer if I had ejaculation problems. Or if I was a male half of a couple and I didn't want her to be as intimate with the strangers, then I could see male halfs doing that to cut down on the sensation and intimacy.
But in a perfect world where none of that existed, well.....then would condoms have even been invented in the first place? No need for them if you can just will yourself to not get her pregnant, or if she can just will herself to not get pregnant. Then no - I wouldn't use condoms. Unless it was like some way of making me last longer if I had ejaculation problems. Or if I was a male half of a couple and I didn't want her to be as intimate with the strangers, then I could see male halfs doing that to cut down on the sensation and intimacy.
but ok in this non perfect world any of you guys have an issue with going limp? or being able to last longer?
I (he) have never had a condom-related problem of going limp, but I can tell you the sensation is reduced 10-fold, or more.
Not sure if the ribbed crap and all the other selling points feel any different to a woman, but they ALL feel the same to us guys.
An innertube is an innertube.
As for lasting longer, I've never found condoms to have any effect on my staying power one way or the other.
Let's face it folks, a very high percentage of the pleasure we get from sex is mental, and has very little to do with the actual sensation.
If it was all about "feel", we wouldn't need each other.
Women could fall in love with and marry a dildo, and us guys could (no offense intended ladies) delight in trying different cuts of warm steak every night.
So to answer your original questions, in order:
NO - YES - NO - NO.
Not sure if the ribbed crap and all the other selling points feel any different to a woman, but they ALL feel the same to us guys.
An innertube is an innertube.
As for lasting longer, I've never found condoms to have any effect on my staying power one way or the other.
Let's face it folks, a very high percentage of the pleasure we get from sex is mental, and has very little to do with the actual sensation.
If it was all about "feel", we wouldn't need each other.
Women could fall in love with and marry a dildo, and us guys could (no offense intended ladies) delight in trying different cuts of warm steak every night.
So to answer your original questions, in order:
NO - YES - NO - NO.
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
I (he) have never had a condom-related problem of going limp, but I can tell you the sensation is reduced 10-fold, or more.
Not sure if the ribbed crap and all the other selling points feel any different to a woman, but they ALL feel the same to us guys.
An innertube is an innertube.
As for lasting longer, I've never found condoms to have any effect on my staying power one way or the other.
Let's face it folks, a very high percentage of the pleasure we get from sex is mental, and has very little to do with the actual sensation.
If it was all about "feel", we wouldn't need each other.
Women could fall in love with and marry a dildo, and us guys could (no offense intended ladies) delight in trying different cuts of warm steak every night.
So to answer your original questions, in order:
NO - YES - NO - NO.
actually VERY helpful Thank you !
it is nice...i love it...love to stick my face in it haha
If the condom is the wrong size, I've gone limp..(learned to bring my own...), there is the lack of sensation, so in most cases, I won't get off, whether that means I can go longer or not...that's another story....
How many of you have ever read the serial number on a condom?
But what if I don't want to were them or where them either? Ok maybe I'll wear them.
DREAMCHASER111 wrote:
a lot of condoms can actually be too tight and make it uncomfortable
Most condoms are a different size go out and do a google search there are ones that are wider. ones that are longer ones that are longer and wider. Just find the one that works for you and bring it with you when you play.
CANDJ23 wrote:
Condoms suck! But are required in this lifestyle. Won't play without them. There is a lot of shit out there. But luckily I can't get anyone pregnant anyways.. Snip snip... unless I'm sleeping with someone exclusively, condoms will always be there. Thank God for BLOWJOBS!!!!!!!
And they say we dont need sex education in Utah!! go figure
I wear them because of STD risks I've had the "snip snip" done as well. I have had sometimes that it does make me last longer because the sensation isn't all there. But I've never gone limp putting one on
DREAMCHASER111 wrote:I wish I had that problem...I have to carry a pocket full of condoms and a pocket full of zip-ties...kind of a mood breaker. *sigh* But on a brighter note, if I really crank that baby down, talk about having an erection for more than 4 hours and needing to see a doctor...Cialis has NOTHIN on my mojo. LOL.
alot of condoms can actually be too tight and make it uncomfortable
You cant latex your body and condoms dont do anything to protect you from oral sex or kissing. Most of us who play keep ourselves clean and have regular check-ups and testing. Those who insist
on using condoms do so to satisfy their own false sense of protection.
on using condoms do so to satisfy their own false sense of protection.
MYSTIQUEWASLOSTAGAIN wrote:
You cant latex your body and condoms dont do anything to protect you from oral sex or kissing. Most of us who play keep ourselves clean and have regular check-ups and testing. Those who insist
on using condoms do so to satisfy their own false sense of protection.
Yeah, and honestly - you can get an STD from just fingering someone or giving a handjob, if you just have a tiny little paper cut on there that you weren't aware of, semi-fresh or not, the viruses and bacteria can get into your bloodstream. Or you can always do this: