so here's my thought, i want friends, I like making friends off here cause that means they are more open to the things i like, and if I can play with both parts of the couple, that's a pus too, I get that being a female i can have girls days and hang out with them, but I get along better with guys, maybe its cause im a tom boy, but I don't wanna cross any lines, when it comes to the point of "hanging out" with either one, I don't really have an exact thought on this, just wondering if there are any helpful hints?, i dont want to be one of those single females that tries to break up couples, but I dont think i could be the girl friend type either? any now I'm psycho babbling, so ill end on that note
So Complicated!, But your right, thanks
Yeah, I like Shred's "It Depends" answer! We're really secure with each other so it'd really not be a problem for an opposite sex person to hang out with one of us. Gotta get along decently with both of us though or it could become an issue. Don't have to be best friends with both but had better be some kind of friends with both. But hey, that's prolly just us. We're crazy! 
We agree with both Shred and Pal.
You would have to find a couple that already talks to each other about every thing.
We would love to have a woman friend like you. But we would tell each other of how we are feeling. What we are thinking. and what happens with the other person is now with you. So for you being a single woman, it would be hard for you to monitor if the couple is actually talking to each other.
But we wish you the best. Too bad Fort Bragg is so far from Salt Lake City
Virginia and Glen
You would have to find a couple that already talks to each other about every thing.
We would love to have a woman friend like you. But we would tell each other of how we are feeling. What we are thinking. and what happens with the other person is now with you. So for you being a single woman, it would be hard for you to monitor if the couple is actually talking to each other.
But we wish you the best. Too bad Fort Bragg is so far from Salt Lake City
Virginia and Glen
Well--friends on here are just like your friends in the vanilla world, all the same rules apply, respect, open communication and honesty. The same drama can circle here just like in the vanilla world and we all know people have their issues. Friendship goes both ways, you gotta give what you expect in return.
Another problem is the intentions are never really clear in the beginning as well, some people just want to "fuck" and leave out the friendship part, and some want both, just make sure you have the conversation early. And then you save yourself confusion and/or disappointment.
Another problem is the intentions are never really clear in the beginning as well, some people just want to "fuck" and leave out the friendship part, and some want both, just make sure you have the conversation early. And then you save yourself confusion and/or disappointment.
Well put friends, I'll admit I am over thinking it all but I just don't want to e put in a bad position, but lots of help, thanks
Absolutely agree with your position about friends..We very seldom play with anyone that we wouldn't consider a friend...just doesn't feel right to us. We have not found that to be a problem at all, but then, we are both very honest with each other about our feelings..and try to be the same with our "friends".
Now..what was the question??? Think I may have missed the point of your post, altogether..LOL
Now..what was the question??? Think I may have missed the point of your post, altogether..LOL
SARATOGACPL wrote:
We agree with both Shred and Pal.
You would have to find a couple that already talks to each other about every thing.
We would love to have a woman friend like you. But we would tell each other of how we are feeling. What we are thinking. and what happens with the other person is now with you. So for you being a single woman, it would be hard for you to monitor if the couple is actually talking to each other.
But we wish you the best. Too bad Fort Bragg is so far from Salt Lake City
Virginia and Glen
Well said! We totally agree! Just have to find a couple comfortable with themselves and each other. Be open and honest. And we would totally hit you up if we lived closer!!!
my flight back to utah is on March 27, but ill be going to a motorcycle thing on the 28th, and basically be back on the 3rd of april,(just missing my birthday on April 1st) so who wants to make up for me missing it? lol
SARATOGACPL wrote:
We agree with both Shred and Pal.
You would have to find a couple that already talks to each other about every thing.
We would love to have a woman friend like you. But we would tell each other of how we are feeling. What we are thinking. and what happens with the other person is now with you. So for you being a single woman, it would be hard for you to monitor if the couple is actually talking to each other.
But we wish you the best. Too bad Fort Bragg is so far from Salt Lake City
Virginia and Glen
I am floored that married people would engage in such activities without talking to each other, fully. K and I are best friends and spend lots of time discussing every aspect of our lives, but we talked for weeks openly before we had our first threesome. We talked for a long time afterward too as I experienced some feelings I never thought I would when the other lady and my wife were enjoying each other. (took a few minutes to get over the reaction of the two of them having fun without me. I then realized that I was supposed to be there too.) Anyway, we discussed it all and were cool with it all. In the end it was as good and even better than both of us hoped.