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I think it's hilarious when the guy of a couple profile posts as if he's the woman trying to hook up. It's so obvious it's the male writing it. Is it just me or have others laughed too?
I'm referring to the booty call list.
I guess. Wife and I do sometimes play alone. Rare but we do it every now and then! Always possible to be true but your more than likely right that it is fake. lol
Talk about double standards right Assets? That was the first question on my mind too. lol
Well I haven't seen any husbands posting saying that their wife has been working hard and needs to hook up. But I've seen pleanty wife's saying that about the husband. Come on guys, stop pretending to be the woman.
we have a booty call up right now for her to play solo on a hall pass... now you got me wondering... how many people have read it and thought to themselves, 'what a joke! she's just a cheater giving herself a hall pass!'
I have seen guys give their ladies a hall pass and post a booty call for her. Yes. There are some douches that are full of it. That is why you meet the couple first, get to know the wife and set these play dates up with her. Then there is no question.
Maybe this was a bad subject. Sorry. :) lol
PIERCEDPLEASURES wrote:

Maybe this was a bad subject. Sorry. :) lol

its all good! :) it does happen, but I try to keep an open mind. if it was me posting a booty call for my man, i'd want others to take it serious and consider playing with him. I think of a hall pass as a generous gift from one partner to the other...
I just saw your BC Candj23. It was written very matter of fact. I like that. Nicely done.
Call her? Huh? That won't be necessary.
Huh? My bluff? ME<---- confused
Nothing better than a good apple. ;)
I have been working really hard and my wife wants me to get some strange.... Any takers? Lol!
PIERCEDPLEASURES wrote:

Maybe this was a bad subject. Sorry. :) lol


No not a bad subject at all. Can't count
the messages we've got stating the same
thing. We don't believe any of them & don't
respond.
I have sent messages looking for a hookup for my husband. When he went out of town I emailed a few girls in the area he was going and found a nice lady willing to meet him. I also had a hall pass and posted a booty call but took it down. I always feel weird about posting them. I figured if I want a booty call I should just stick to people I know its safer and just as fun.
My wife has posted a booty call for me before...no takers because I am ugly and diseased. What can you do? It does happen though is all I'm saying. But if I remember right she worded it a little better than just 'my man deserves a nice break'. :D
I didn't mean to offend anyone but what I am saying is that some sound like a guy writing it and making an effort to talk himself up.
PIERCEDPLEASURES wrote:

I didn't mean to offend anyone but what I am saying is that some sound like a guy writing it and making an effort to talk himself up.


I am the male half and I support this topic. Good job Pierced for bringing it up! It's hilarious reading the booty calls list sometimes because of this reason. I bet the only people offended here are people who have been guilty of doing it!
Sometimes its hard to believe the booty calls are real when you don't get a response. Just a "Thank you but you are not what we are looking" for would be great. Starts to make you a little cynical. I start to wounder whats real and what isn't.
Dont become a cynic. No fun will come frome that.
Typically when one sets one up for the other, a lot of couples will have you voice verify with the spouse to make sure it's legit. How people manage it though will be situational like almost everything else here, and you just have to feel it out... ;)
SLCCOUPLEFUN wrote:

No, really, I love to set my husband up and he's been such a good boy, that he really deserves this so please invite him into your relationship. One more thing, part of my fantasy as the wife is that nobody "we" know ever makes mention of this posting...it really turns me on when nobody says anything to me about this so please play along with my fantasy!!! (Really, I actually hate it when somebody mentions my posting, often times I'll even pretend not to know what they are talking about and it can be awkward for everyone...so again, please don't mention my posting to me!)


That about sums it up. We've had so many
messages down this same line I can't count
them. We've had four just from the booty call
we have up.
So I was not alone in my thinking?
I myself have no problems finding a booty call. And I the male usually give them to my lady. I simply look and break down the booty call post. Usually if the grammer and spelling very articulated, then its a woman. If its not well presented, then I know its a desperate dude. No offense to desperate dudes. good subject though pierced pleasures
I'm the female half (Tammy) and I'm the one who ALWAYS posts on BC either as a joint couple thing or just for him. Hell, lately he's barely on. We are one of those rare couples where the female half is the one who keeps up on Swingular. If you see a BC from either our Blueeyes acct or his Plainoldme acct you can bet I'm the one who posted it. I manage both accts. He just shows up. ;) What makes me laugh is I post a BC for HIM and I get tons of emails from various guys/couples offering to keep ME company while he's off playing. I wish people would get that if I want a playdate for me I can post for one. If it says for HIM, it's FOR HIM ONLY. Sheesh.

Anyway, what ever process works for each couple is fine.
We say to each thier own but we have our own ways of screening anyone we are going to meet to make sure they are A) not insane B) look something like what they are representing in their profile.

We may miss out on some good times once in awhile but we also avoid a lot of hassles this way. When in doubt we toss it out. :)
I've posted them for my hubby!! It's easy for a woman to go single, but harder for a guy to go. There's just some times he needs to go get some from someone else without me!!!