Seems like everytime we put up a booty call we get several friend requests but most dont write anything. Why do couples on here think a booty call is a open invitation for friend requests?
because they want to see what you look like before accepting an invitation to fuck. I don't care what anybody on here says about making best friends and bonding with each other and blah blah blah. people still have to be physically attractive to each other before they will want to fuck.
I agree with CANDJ23. Physical atraction is first.
I agree but at least say hi, we might be interested. Can I send you a friend request?
yes, please!
What I think is funny about blind friend requests is that in my profile I clearly state that if u send me a blind friend request I will ignore u and tht it's a waist of ur time and mine... And still I get blind friend request! Geez lazy people are quite annoying
It's only because people dont put face pics in there public photos its usually the wifes boobs or her vagina !!!!! The sad thing is it will never change !!!!! Haha Put up face pics of both of you and you will get less blind friends requests ......
CANDJ23 wrote:
because they want to see what you look like before accepting an invitation to fuck. I don't care what anybody on here says about making best friends and bonding with each other and blah blah blah. people still have to be physically attractive to each other before they will want to fuck.
Well said.
BADBOY8P wrote:
It's only because people dont put face pics in there public photos its usually the wifes boobs or her vagina !!!!! The sad thing is it will never change !!!!! Haha Put up face pics of both of you and you will get less blind friends requests ......
True that! If there isn't a face pic of BOTH of you, then we assume there might be one in Private. If its just all the female, then your just wife baiting and we then have to assume he doesn't have confidence.
But if your putting out a booty call, aren't you basically throwing out a friends request to all who may look>?
Guess its just us, we wouldnt send a friend request without at least saying hello.
My wife won't even consider chatting with anyone if the guy has no pics of the package. Too many boobs and ass pics for her. I'm fine with it, though.
PLAYWME75 wrote:That's because you have something called "class". Unfortunately, there are many who have none at all, don't bother spending the 2 minutes it might take to read a profile, or just throw out requests like a pathetic pervert that sits in their parents basement somewhere, beating their penis like it owes them money! Oh my gawd did I just say that out loud??? Haha, but it's never gonna change, and ya gotta take the bad with the good, and hold out for what you're looking for. Still annoying, but this isn't the LDS singles love connection either I reckon. It takes all kinds.
Guess its just us, we wouldnt send a friend request without at least saying hello.
HELLO POELPE GET POINT, IF YOU FRIEND SOMEONE AND THEY SAY YES. YOU CAN KNOW SEE ALL YOUR STUFF. PICS VID, WHAT EVER IS ON YOUR PAGE. READ THE RULES OF ADDING FRIENDS.....
PEACEFULCHA0S wrote:
What I think is funny about blind friend requests is that in my profile I clearly state that if u send me a blind friend request I will ignore u and tht it's a waist of ur time and mine... And still I get blind friend request! Geez lazy people are quite annoying
that's because 99% of people don't read profiles. we have our specific desires listed on our profile and still gets tons of email from people who don't fit the bill.
what makes me laugh is when we get blind friend requests from people who state in their own profile that they won't accept blind friend requests.
I personally don't mind blind friend requests and almost prefer them. that way if I'm interested, I can initiate contact. I don't like sending that awkward email that says, 'I'm sorry but you're not my type.'
BADBOY8P wrote:
It's only because people dont put face pics in there public photos its usually the wifes boobs or her vagina !!!!! The sad thing is it will never change !!!!! Haha Put up face pics of both of you and you will get less blind friends requests ......
what?!? there are pics of things other than my vagina in our public album! I think my ass is quite photogenic.
but seriously, you're right. that will never change. people need to feel that they have a little privacy from the world in this lifestyle. we used to have our face pics in there, but the first time somebody recognized one of us was the last day we ever did that.
CANDJ23 wrote:
that's because 99% of people don't read profiles. we have our specific desires listed on our profile and still gets tons of email from people who don't fit the bill.
I can't help but notice you put 'yes' under the Single Males question, and then later on you say: "NO SINGLE MEN PLEASE. We aren't interested. If and when we start looking for a single guy, we will contact you..."
JEFFSMITH1972 wrote:CANDJ23 wrote:
that's because 99% of people don't read profiles. we have our specific desires listed on our profile and still gets tons of email from people who don't fit the bill.
I can't help but notice you put 'yes' under the Single Males question, and then later on you say: "NO SINGLE MEN PLEASE. We aren't interested. If and when we start looking for a single guy, we will contact you..."
ya, I know... lol. I already got a few emails giving me shit for it. I just barely changed it today because I have a hall pass for the weekend and I put up a booty call for Saturday. normally we don't want single guys, but a hall pass is an exception and a booty call is my way of inviting in single males.
There are a LOT of voyeurs here on Swingular who enjoy nothing more than viewing photos.
If you 'friend' them, they have access to your private pics.
If you 'friend' them, they have access to your private pics.
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
There are a LOT of voyeurs here on Swingular who enjoy nothing more than viewing photos.
If you 'friend' them, they have access to your private pics.
Thats kind of what we assumed. They were just voyers who wanted to see all our pictures. I cant think of anyone we have actually met in person who sent a friend request before saying hi.
We did lol we had the pleasure of meeting these fine people then i sent them a friend request cause they rock and she is so dam sexy .....
CANDJ23 wrote:That's some funny shit! I've never actually read any posts on here where anyone actually requested becoming best friends and bonding being required before some sexual fun! I know that for us, we do require some friendship-type connection first and that does seem harder to come by. There are LOADS of physically attractive people on this site and we really have no desire to bang 'em all. We'd rather have repeat friends that we're attracted to, but that's just our personal preference, and we understand that there are those that'll bang anything that's physically attractive at the drop of a hat, and that's a perfectly valid preference as well and surely the more common one here.
because they want to see what you look like before accepting an invitation to fuck. I don't care what anybody on here says about making best friends and bonding with each other and blah blah blah. people still have to be physically attractive to each other before they will want to fuck.
As to the O.P.'s post, yeah, I think that someone who sends a blind friend request like that is of the later ilk and, if that is what the O.P is looking for, then they oughta just accept the friend request, see if pics are mutually acceptable and they're well on their way to some serious fun. Unless the person making the friend request is just a picture collector.
We like to see if a woman is attractive thats why we do friend request. We dont care if ppl add us friends dont hurt either
We totally understand wanting to see if there is an attraction. Usually our first question when someone contacts us is do you have any face pics. Not to be rude but we have been doing this long enough that we dont want to waste anyones time if there is no physical attraction. All we were saying is that we personally felt it rude to send a friend request without saying hello. I guess maybe our idea of rude is different than a lot of people on here hence so many blind friend requests. We do take into account that others dont realize their actions could be taken as rude by the person they are trying to friend. Sounds like there are a few other couples who think like we do and dont like the blind friend request. We dont mind friending people if we think theres a possible attraction but please say hi.
EDANY0178 wrote:Prert
We did lol we had the pleasure of meeting these fine people then i sent them a friend request cause they rock and she is so dam sexy .....
Im pretty sure metting in person first and tattooing you both counts as a hello prior to the friend request
PLAYWME75 wrote:lol we never kiss and tell now do we he heEDANY0178 wrote:Prert
We did lol we had the pleasure of meeting these fine people then i sent them a friend request cause they rock and she is so dam sexy .....
Im pretty sure metting in person first and tattooing you both counts as a hello prior to the friend request
PLAYWME75 wrote:CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
There are a LOT of voyeurs here on Swingular who enjoy nothing more than viewing photos.
If you 'friend' them, they have access to your private pics.
Thats kind of what we assumed. They were just voyers who wanted to see all our pictures. I cant think of anyone we have actually met in person who sent a friend request before saying hi.
I think almost everybody we have met has started as a blind friend request... so for us it goes likes this: we get friend request, look at public pics & read profile, deny or accept friend request, send email sayin, 'hi! we like what we see!'. then if they respond favorably we exchange phone numbers.
as for voyers, I don't really care if a lonely guy in his mom's basement wants to beat off to my private pics, then so be it... it doesn't effect my life in the slightest.
CANDJ23 wrote:
because they want to see what you look like before accepting an invitation to fuck. I don't care what anybody on here says about making best friends and bonding with each other and blah blah blah. people still have to be physically attractive to each other before they will want to fuck.
I totally totally agree with you Candj23. If there isnt any physical attraction and you dont have access to private photos going somewhere maybe a bust.