Who has cleaned up their friends list, how do you exactly do it? And how do you decide who to delete? I'm been in nc for 6 months and now that I'm moving back to Utah, idk who to keep or if I should start over? Any thoughts?
We usually go through ours every 6 months, or so. The criteria we use most often is whether we have developed any type of relationship with them, even if it's only emails.
A biggie for us would be whether or not we ever recieved a reply after sending several invites, etc. for things we were doing. Sort of figure a friend would at least have the courtesy of a reply, rather than ignore it all together. And yes..we have often deleted some people, only to meet them at a meet and greet, or a house party somewhere, later..and add them again! LOL
A biggie for us would be whether or not we ever recieved a reply after sending several invites, etc. for things we were doing. Sort of figure a friend would at least have the courtesy of a reply, rather than ignore it all together. And yes..we have often deleted some people, only to meet them at a meet and greet, or a house party somewhere, later..and add them again! LOL
We only have a "friends" list of people who we actually PLAY with and communicate on a regular basis. If you view this site as FACEBOOK, you will rack up a rediculously amount of friends. Even though the majority of the people on swing sites CAN'T READ, they just want to look at pictures and hit that "Friend Request" button without even reading a simple profile. Why would we want to be friends with someone who is over 150 miles away and can't even have the decency to read our profile? Why would we want to be friends with someone who doesn't have the courtesy of replying back to ANY of your messages. If we've sent a couple an introductory message and they've read it (you can tell when they've opened the message) without a reply, they disappear really quick on our end! Sorry, but if you can't tell us that your not interested in us, we would've never been "friends" anyway. Sorry but we are NOT lowing our standards to your level! We wish you luck on your move back to Utah. Seems like most of the people on this site is from Utah. Weird how the admins are from NY and the majority are in Utah state???? Just an observation. Cheers!
ISSUE152 wrote:
Who has cleaned up their friends list, how do you exactly do it?
However your mouse over 'mailbox' then go down to 'manage friends'. Then listen to the rest of the people for how to decide
Does it help to have friends first before you start a list? Sounds like a unique idea we havent tried yet. (Actually, we got so tired of people we dont know, never chatted with asking to be added and then never having anything to do with us again that we just deleted our entire list.)
being a single male, I actually just wait for someone to request me as a friend before I add them anyways. I don't ask to add them to see their pics. I think I added maybe 3 or 4 in the beginning, maybe.
Thanks friends! And goodbye to some of my non ish friends! Lol
We have any one who asked to friend us then never even said hello gets the ax
Well Issue, we cant really say anything else to help you, but we hope to keep you on our list. Besides, we both love the haircuts. Nobody does em better.
ASSETS wrote:
candy..well said...but arent the admin in vegas... and secondly i think it started as a nevada thing and kind of spread...oh well anyways... we delete people who dont respond to our messages...or dont like friend requests from people without a message or at least pictures in their public profile
That's what we thought too, that the ADMINISTRATOR account lived in Las Vegas. Their profile lists that they are from Bethpage, NY. Very well structured profile, plenty of pics to look at and both are extremely HOT!
) Wish more profiles were like them. LOL! At least their setting a good "EXAMPLE" for others too follow. Too bad, most don't have a clue about swinging and are going to use their "discrete" wild card on the entire site. ( Sorry, but we are ALL in the public eye! If you're not proud of who you are, then why even swing and pretend you're someone you're not? Really wish it would spread more to the east coast area. We need all the help we can with all the damn fence sitters over here! Send us some good, real, sexy couples that like to swing to our area. We'll personally make sure they're welcome to our area. ;o)People need private pics and at least one public profile pic. I am suspcious of those that don't. We received a request from a couple that had no profile pic, no profile info filled out. Despite my better judgment, I accepted their request just because I was curious as to what I was missing. They had a few private pic but their eyes were horribly photoshoped out-- it seriously looked scary and as though a cat had attacked them. I told them the photoshop job was scary and that we would appreciate seeing who they really were and if we could get some untouched pics. The response was rude- because they were offended I explained my point so frankly and slammed my age differece with my wife. I shoudl have known! All of our friends in the past have many ( hot and beautiful! ) pics and if they dont have pics & a complete profile, we do not take the next step. I travel full time and its difficult to see people in person a lot, but when we get to your neck of the woods, its great to meet up and deepend our, uha, friendship.
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Just a little history...Swingular admin started in Florida, moved to Utah then Las Vegas (I'm sure I'm missing details of a business split somewhere lol)...Florida actually has more members (last I saw admin post about the subject) but Utah members seem to be more active and vocal ob the forums...
Kisses,
Naugh-Ty
Kisses,
Naugh-Ty
24THEROAD wrote:
People need private pics and at least one public profile pic. I am suspcious of those that don't. We received a request from a couple that had no profile pic, no profile info filled out. Despite my better judgment, I accepted their request just because I was curious as to what I was missing. They had a few private pic but their eyes were horribly photoshoped out-- it seriously looked scary and as though a cat had attacked them. I told them the photoshop job was scary and that we would appreciate seeing who they really were and if we could get some untouched pics. The response was rude- because they were offended I explained my point so frankly and slammed my age differece with my wife. I shoudl have known! All of our friends in the past have many ( hot and beautiful! ) pics and if they dont have pics & a complete profile, we do not take the next step. I travel full time and its difficult to see people in person a lot, but when we get to your neck of the woods, its great to meet up and deepend our, uha, friendship.
xxx
Would you guys hurry and get back here so we can work on our "friendship
Stupid phone, there was supposed to be a 
there lol
there lolNAUGHTYGIRL101 wrote:
Just a little history...Swingular admin started in Florida, moved to Utah then Las Vegas (I'm sure I'm missing details of a business split somewhere lol)...Florida actually has more members (last I saw admin post about the subject) but Utah members seem to be more active and vocal ob the forums...
Kisses,
Naugh-Ty
Florida/Las Vegas connection - checking in.
Does yahoo message work here?
DEEBLONDE2K wrote:
Does yahoo message work here?
I don't think so, no
There is a forum where you can pot and find whoever has yahoo I'm names And you can Submit your own
ISSUE152 wrote:Not sure how you want to do it, but we determine who goes by those we havent chatted with in the last 30 days.
Who has cleaned up their friends list, how do you exactly do it? And how do you decide who to delete? I'm been in nc for 6 months and now that I'm moving back to Utah, idk who to keep or if I should start over? Any thoughts?
We delete those we havent talked to in over a month. Usually we try to chat with everyone on our list at least once a month.
GOUTES2004 wrote:I'm sorry? We're friends?
issue152 I want to stay friends.
we clean up ours every few weeks... just did it today too. I delete anybody I find un-fuckable and he does the same. then we remove anybody who we haven't talked to in a long time or has never replied to us.