Inspired by another thread (http://www.swingular.com/post.php?action=view&PID=1244&TID=6) and CPLOFPERVS\'s response, it got us thinking:
How do you seduce a vanilla female? What works? What doesn\'t? Has anyone written a \"How To\" manual?!
How do you spot one who wants to be seduced? How do you seduce someone who\'s a \"convince me?\" 
We\'ve never seduced a vanilla F before, and we\'re open to fishing! So, teach us how and where to fish so we can eat for a lifetime! LOL!
How do you seduce a vanilla female? What works? What doesn\'t? Has anyone written a \"How To\" manual?!
How do you spot one who wants to be seduced? How do you seduce someone who\'s a \"convince me?\" We\'ve never seduced a vanilla F before, and we\'re open to fishing! So, teach us how and where to fish so we can eat for a lifetime! LOL!
For us, it depended on the individual women. One time, we met a woman while boating. There were a few boats tied up together partying, and the girls starting flirting and playing around with some of the guys and then each other. We later invited her over to our home another time and things went from there.
Another woman was younger and it took a few months of going out with a group of people to dance clubs before she felt comfortable enough to play in a 3some. Both experiences were great, but convincing a vanilla woman just depends on the woman. Some won\'t no matter what, whereas some may want to but are afraid to bring it up.
We have had a lot of luck just dancing at local clubs and finding woman that will \"dirty dance\" with other woman. We get to know people initially that way and then let things happen slowly.
We think there are alot more women that would like to try bi experiences than people think. In a recent survey, 20% of women responding from California were bi or bi-curious. Hope that helps.
Another woman was younger and it took a few months of going out with a group of people to dance clubs before she felt comfortable enough to play in a 3some. Both experiences were great, but convincing a vanilla woman just depends on the woman. Some won\'t no matter what, whereas some may want to but are afraid to bring it up.
We have had a lot of luck just dancing at local clubs and finding woman that will \"dirty dance\" with other woman. We get to know people initially that way and then let things happen slowly.
We think there are alot more women that would like to try bi experiences than people think. In a recent survey, 20% of women responding from California were bi or bi-curious. Hope that helps.
A couple of years ago my wife noticed the girl at the local corner store and has been talking about her ever since.
The girl still works there. My wife has gone through the huge process of convincing herself that trying to meet this girl on nuetral ground to hang out with her is a good idea. I, of course, encourage this because my wife has never had a woman before and has always wanted one. She is definitely attracted to this one and I am too.
Here's the thing...
Our intentions are to try to seduce this girl. We don't even know if she is single or not! Of course, we don't know if she is into "the lifestyle" or not (how can you tell?). We have decided that even if she has a significant other that we should try to hang out with them and get a feel for who they are.
We may have the trouble of seducing not one "vanilla" but possibly a couple.
Any more advice anyone has on how to seduce a vanilla...wether it be a couple or a single female...well let's just say the advice would be appreciated.
The girl still works there. My wife has gone through the huge process of convincing herself that trying to meet this girl on nuetral ground to hang out with her is a good idea. I, of course, encourage this because my wife has never had a woman before and has always wanted one. She is definitely attracted to this one and I am too.
Here's the thing...
Our intentions are to try to seduce this girl. We don't even know if she is single or not! Of course, we don't know if she is into "the lifestyle" or not (how can you tell?). We have decided that even if she has a significant other that we should try to hang out with them and get a feel for who they are.
We may have the trouble of seducing not one "vanilla" but possibly a couple.
Any more advice anyone has on how to seduce a vanilla...wether it be a couple or a single female...well let's just say the advice would be appreciated.
M/T:
WELL you should have come to the meet n greet We ended up seducing a couple of verical's but not on purpose. And since they were in a bar known for being lifestyle friendly they MIGHT have been a lil more agreeable.
the origninal M/T
WELL you should have come to the meet n greet We ended up seducing a couple of verical's but not on purpose. And since they were in a bar known for being lifestyle friendly they MIGHT have been a lil more agreeable.
the origninal M/T
A place you can often find "straight single women" who may or may not have a bi tendency would be at a girls bar. I know that I have come across many straight girls that like to go for a "girls night out" at a girl bar and enjoy being on that side of things for an evening. Which can lead to other things...and has, <as she smiles wickedly>
Or, another option would be to have your wife or girlfriend set up a "Girls Night Out" and go to the local girl bar and just have a great time and get a feel for how the others there react to it all. I would certainly recommend telling them before hand you are going to a girl bar, so you don't have any "male" party crashers hehe. That usually always works!!!
You would be surprised at how many straight & married women go to girl bars and/or gay bars for that matter, on a regular basis... :z
Or, another option would be to have your wife or girlfriend set up a "Girls Night Out" and go to the local girl bar and just have a great time and get a feel for how the others there react to it all. I would certainly recommend telling them before hand you are going to a girl bar, so you don't have any "male" party crashers hehe. That usually always works!!!
You would be surprised at how many straight & married women go to girl bars and/or gay bars for that matter, on a regular basis... :z