I know this is an old subject but a quick search did not result in any old posts.
As my girlfriend and I were going through couples profiles she was disappointed with all the profiles that had 2,3,4,5 pics of the female but none of the male! We understand discretion but it is not hard to get a photo and be discreet. My photo for example, I have A LOT of tattoos that would be identifiable by someone but we still managed to take a pic that gives other females an idea of what they are getting and the option of a friend request to see more. I guess my point is we saw a lot of couples we were interested in but passed on sending a message to because she had no idea what HE looked like
As my girlfriend and I were going through couples profiles she was disappointed with all the profiles that had 2,3,4,5 pics of the female but none of the male! We understand discretion but it is not hard to get a photo and be discreet. My photo for example, I have A LOT of tattoos that would be identifiable by someone but we still managed to take a pic that gives other females an idea of what they are getting and the option of a friend request to see more. I guess my point is we saw a lot of couples we were interested in but passed on sending a message to because she had no idea what HE looked like
I think if it is a positive attribute to the profile they do. 
I agree we have been on swingular for 4 years and its always been like this we are tired of seeing vaginas or boobs as a profile pic put those in your private pics !!! Lets see some face pics peeps we only want to see boobs , vaginas or dicks when your naked in our bed !!!! Haha just sayin
We always include pics of both of us. It doesn't make sense not to. How else can one expect to be viewed and for the females of couples to make a move in our direction, guys? If folks cannot bring themselves to post some pics, why are they here? We are serious about our fun and want others to be able to make an informed decision as to attraction level. Now let's all go have some fun - together!
We agree... there needs to be more of the male halves on here 
Agreed...we often wonder when there are no pics of the male half! Show your sexy man off, I know I like to!
Mrs Poker gets frustrated that there are not more pics of men so we don't even consider meeting or even talking to a couple unless they send us some. Its painfully obvious that most couples are not equal cosmetically (usually a hot chick married to a troll) but why not just be happy with who you are. Show us your FACE... we don't care what your COCK looks like.
SEXYPOKER69 wrote:Totally agree with you guys. You noticed that too? I certainly don't consider myself hot, but there are some amazing women on this site and we sometimes wonder where the attraction was in THAT woman's eyes. And we see it a LOT. Oh well, I guess love really is blind...and thank GAWD my wife is too, cuz my face has been mistaken for a bucket of smashed assholes! LOL
Mrs Poker gets frustrated that there are not more pics of men so we don't even consider meeting or even talking to a couple unless they send us some. Its painfully obvious that most couples are not equal cosmetically (usually a hot chick married to a troll) but why not just be happy with who you are. Show us your FACE... we don't care what your COCK looks like.
ROCK
PALS4FUN wrote:Full??? How would that be? LOL. Our social calendar looks like a candy dish at a Jenny Craig convention...EMPTY!!!!!
It's really no big deal to me anymore. Some have privacy issues, some want a face pic, some want cock shots, some not (even in this thread that is obvious). I suppose it's just whatever works for a couple? I always like to keep pics at a minimum simply for discretion. Right now our social calendar is full so I've only one public pic posted, as it's quite all right if someone passes us by based solely on pics or lack thereof.
When we first started putting pictures up we wanted to be discerte. But anymore we are of the opion that if someone we know sees one of our pics they are on here for the same reason. If you want to keep the face pics in the private album that's fine too. But put at least one up.
Mrs. Sweet
Mrs. Sweet
PEBBLEROCK wrote:LOL, Hmmm...maybe that didn't come out sounding right?! I don't mean gee-whiz, golly gosh, we're jumping bones every night! Just that this is just a side "hobby" for us and we've a lot of other stuff going on + two parties this month + gonna be out of town for a bit + events with our kids that are going to eat up some time.PALS4FUN wrote:Full??? How would that be? LOL. Our social calendar looks like a candy dish at a Jenny Craig convention...EMPTY!!!!!
It's really no big deal to me anymore. Some have privacy issues, some want a face pic, some want cock shots, some not (even in this thread that is obvious). I suppose it's just whatever works for a couple? I always like to keep pics at a minimum simply for discretion. Right now our social calendar is full so I've only one public pic posted, as it's quite all right if someone passes us by based solely on pics or lack thereof.
The jumping bones every night sounds like a lot more fun though!we think the same... we have to see face & body pics of both him and her before meeting, but not necessarily nude pics. play time is about physical attraction for us, so there is no point in wasting time meeting people if we aren't attracted to them. there are pics of both of us in our private album.
Haven't read all the commentary on this one to see if my point has already been covered. Nevertheless it bears repeating.
Although the lifestyle (to me) is more about the women and therefore profiles should predominately contain there hotness. If YOU'RE A COUPLE LOOKING TO "MEET ANOTHER COUPLE" there should be at least one or two pic's of you both or "AS a COUPLE."
Mr. Speakeasy
Although the lifestyle (to me) is more about the women and therefore profiles should predominately contain there hotness. If YOU'RE A COUPLE LOOKING TO "MEET ANOTHER COUPLE" there should be at least one or two pic's of you both or "AS a COUPLE."
Mr. Speakeasy
You Speak(easy) the truth Grasshopper! ..and with that being said "its more about the women"...I think most couldnt agree more!...But! Other than the girls getting wet over each other (bless there naked panting hearts) The only other reason they are here is for the males satisfactions and attention they can provide in one way shape or another.....I think thats huge to have the males photos at in least enough so these lil' sexy beasts can get all Hot 'n bothered ....or not. PEACE~
..and with that being said "its more about the women"...I think most couldnt agree more!...But! Other than the girls getting wet over each other (bless there naked panting hearts) The only other reason they are here is for the males satisfactions and attention they can provide in one way shape or another.....I think thats huge to have the males photos at in least enough so these lil' sexy beasts can get all Hot 'n bothered ....or not. PEACE~THROW UP THOSE PICS....guys!!!! DAMN STRAIGHT!!!! LOL....(I THINK?)
I think we have an equal amount on ours, but if not, let me know and I will update...I am proud of my man!!! That's why I get off sharing him with others. It's hot seeing women get to enjoy him as much as I do EVERY NIGHT.
We have both in our private pics, but there are some folks on here that we try to avoid seeing/being seen with. If people want to see who we are, then they can send a FR, and if they don't like....drop us...
Couple profiles with only pics of the female? WTF? LOL! Can someone say "piss-poor first impression" outloud? We feel on a "swinging" site, you shouldn't have to ask others to see pictures of them. They should ALREADY be provided. Is it us or are we the only ones on here that are getting sick and tired of seeing 1/0/0 in little red letters under a profile search? 95% of the time, it's a non faced pic of the female. Reality check here people....GEE, we can tell so much about you from that one. Let us be friends and set up a play date based on just THAT! NOT!!!!! We really wonder how most people on here EXPECT to get laid with no pics or just one pic? Back to the subject at hand...IF YOU'RE PART OF A COUPLE, REPRESENT YOURSELF AS A COUPLE. If you're not going to, then just be like the other 90% of the idiots and don't have any pictures available. We feel there should be a "minimum standard" of pictures if you want to have an "active, legitimate" profile. Have a minimum of at LEAST FIVE pictures and have one of those pics with the couple in the same picture together. Hmmm, doesn't this sound like the "verification" process? ;o) Then again, in a land of fakes, phonies and game players, is there any wonder why we NEVER do a search without pictures? Sorry we don't have time for that. Bottom line ladies, put some pics of your man up on the site so my wife can see if she's attracted to him or not. STOP denying her part of the COUPLES process!
We have photos of both of us in both our private and public photos. I think my husband is hot though. I have always found it odd when there are no pictures of the guy on a couples profile.
I want to see a picture of the couple. If we are going to swap I want to know what you both look like.
I want to see a picture of the couple. If we are going to swap I want to know what you both look like.
Pictures of the male is a must! Of course in a couples' profile, but I'm not sure what single males are thinking when they don't have any pictures (not even in the private album) and simple write "I want to fuck" in the description of what they are looking for. Because I know as a female that's going to get me interested right away....
Agree, if the wife cant see the guy well we wont even look at there profile. This is for both us. If you dont feel comfortable putting your pic on then you should probley not be here. At least in your privite pics. Just our OP.
If you do not have face or body pics of your man, you will not get any attention from us. Period.
Not because we don't believe that he his hot, but there is no reason both should not be on there.
Not because we don't believe that he his hot, but there is no reason both should not be on there.