We are curious... Has anyone else been approached by a couple online and mysteriously the female half is never around? Always out of town or gone for some reason? In the chat she is always asking if her man can come over to play? There needs to be some way to weed these single guys posing as couples out. Any suggestions?
Yes, it is common.
Stick to your guns and be satisfied who you are playing with before you do anything.
Stick to your guns and be satisfied who you are playing with before you do anything.
Some guys are just tryin to find ways to beat the system.. more power to them if it works lol....
That's why we never go in the chat rooms, we only meet with couples that have recent updates and comments, if they are a real couple they will have comments and updated profile. But that us. And we have meet some great couples on here that way. S&D
We've run into it also. We like to meet at a neutral place for the first time, and if just the male half shows up with an excuse about the female half, (which has happened), we say "no thanks" and leave.
Mr poker's views on single males and the lifestyle are much different than most on here and have been the cause of much controversy in these forums. It does not help a girls case to play with single men when they are so underhanded and shitty. Ultimately he decides who I get to play with and I for him. If your shady or just an asshole your never going to get the chance.
We dont do MFM anyway whether its with one half of a couple or a single male. So pretending to be a couple isn't going to help a guy with us.
When I first started on this site I was a single female. I did get the fake couple from time to time. I even had one ass ask me to be his female half (for the night) with another couple. When I asked why he didn't just have his other half with him he said she was busy.. always busy.
When I first started on this site I was a single female. I did get the fake couple from time to time. I even had one ass ask me to be his female half (for the night) with another couple. When I asked why he didn't just have his other half with him he said she was busy.. always busy.
well 'lie' is no the best way to stare, sorry for thoses guys hehe..
We always have my wife make the plans with the other wife and they always must talk on the phone first.
We just let them buy dinner and have them call when wife is avaible never got a call yet
Yes this happens often. I guess if people want to live a fake life then it is their.
But in the same argument some of them may be honest. Who knows!
But in the same argument some of them may be honest. Who knows!
People lie on the internet?!!? Get the fuck out! ;-)
We've run into many single guys with couple profiles. It's interesting how when chatting, the wife is always elsewhere, asleep or in the shower or at the store. Give them enough rope and they hang themselves pretty quick. What we don't understand is why lie? We're open to single males. But then that leads to another whole topic called "Why can't single males read our profile before writing" LOL!
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People lie on the internet?!!? Get the fuck out! ;-)
Yes EVILDOERS, it has been known to happen. Funny profile cover pic LMAO!
I get hit up a lot by the male half on here with the excuse oh my wife is out of town... I just tell them well hit me up when she comes back.
Hell, I'm a single male, and I've even had that happen to me once. "The wife's out of town, but how would you like to come play anyway?"
We found a really easy way to prevent this, we won't agree to meet anyone we who we havent seen on cam. This solves the fake couple and the 10 year old photo issue. If they say we don't have a cam our answer is this isnt 2001, pony up $20 and go buy one. Seems to work for us.
thats just the way we do it, everyone does things their own way. We say if it works for you go with it!
I have come across single males having a couple profile and using it to mail me because I have single males blocked.. They will say in there that they are a single male but is just using that profile to talk to me to get around the block.. Yup extremely classless. I wonder if they think that will work
I think the cam idea is a really good one. We had some peeps we were chatting with and asked them to turn on their cam. They seemed really reluctant but finally agreed. Yep, you guessed it. Turned out to NOT be a hot couple but a Mongolian water buffalo named Pierre (yeah that's what we thought, who would name their kid Pierre...prolly a fake name too. SHEESH) and his Emu gf Trixie (I can totally buy an Emu named Trixie). We were like, WTF? First of all we DON'T do interspecies sex. It's just GROSS. Second, can you imagine the mess if like they start shedding or molting or whatever while you're gettin' busy? So we politely declined to play with them and suggested they try AFF or Craigslist.
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We know peacefulchaos personally and for a few years now
What about us? We're actually swingers who like to meet nice people. Sometimes even singles. Sometimes men. Sometimes women. sometimes couples. Some plump. Some skinny. We don't have ANY trouble sorting through the screwy ones. It's the nice aspect that we seem to be having trouble finding on this forum recently. Sorry to stray from the OP's topic but it looks like it's heading south anyway.
This is one reason we like the meet n greets. We like to have an occasional single male join us for the wifes benefit, but, as should be the case, she is picky. It's nice to be able to meet, talk, have a few drinks, and not worry about being overheard by the family in the next booth. We like to meet singles as well as couples, but we think it would be better for all concerned if the ones that are trying to hide something would just be open, you would probably get further.
Single guy here who doesn't get why the hell you would pose as a couple...seriously at some point got to bring the girl! Better to be a chill good guy and talk to people who want to meet single guys...or shit even couples who don't say they want to after they get to know you some of them wnat to meet up for a drink and dinner or hang out and whatever...