Swingers Forum - Gentlemen, may I present...the Clit

Are you implying that some guys DON'T know to take care of that whole area, exactly the way you like it, with complete focus, attention and disregard for themselves while doing so?
and that highly arouse-able area extends a little farther back too...

DCLFUN, lololol. I'm not implying; I had one too many guys run his fingertips back and forth across my clit head. I don't need exact or perfect, but I do expect arousal rather than irritation. Information is abundant nowadays; I see no excuse for such lack of knowledge and consideration. And, yes, I agree, that highly arouse-able area extends quite a bit further. ;~D

CANDJ, I am also very happy for you! Imo, that's what we all need.

TREETREE wrote:

I am not patient with men who believe in and concentrate on what they presume is my magic button. Rather than complain to my best friend when I am less than enthused with a man's skill, I created this jpg. C&C welcome.

Well I'd much rather concentrate on other things than a road map while I'm down there having fun but I'm always willing to study hard on any subject. Of course I've been at this so long, I think I understand how to navigate the whole area, especially the back roads. Anyone for a road trip? lol

MENAGE wrote:

JEFFSMITH1972 wrote:

ok, you've done this, now you need to write up your own personal "erogenous zone" map, and give it to the guy a week in advance, Rate the zones from like 1-5 to indicate sensitivity? Because you women, are freaking complicated. My fingers will be excellent for one, and then sucky for the next.

Maybe some women are just better at faking it. :-)

Maybe - would a woman endure 2-3 hours of 'faking it' with a single male?

Thanks for being up front about it. I do admit that it might be necessary to use a white board and markers with some men as a starting point.

Finger sex is as much about how you touch as where. Now that you have described the entrance to the bat cave maybe you would consider displaying a road map of how to get there for those that are totally clueless. I don

I guess i must be a little bit older because i enjoy the journey to the city.....

Let me explain. You see i live in the country so there is a journey on the way to the city. It usually starts on the neck somewhere just behind the ear. Then a short drive down the neck stopping for soft kisses here and there. next you reach the shoulder area where i like to stop and grab a little nibble usually somewhere around the collar bone.
After a small bite it is a short journey to the mountainous region. it is important to take your time and feel your way through this region but when you reach the peaks it will be so breath taking it will leave you with your tongue hanging out for sure. After a good visit to the mountains its time to drive south to the naval region. now remember its not a race to reach the inner city so take your time although the naval region is not a high tourist area it has its beauty as well. take your time explore the area have another nibble.
After this go ahead and get back on the road south you will find its not to far to the city...When i reach a new city i like to explore the outskirts so that i can gain my bearings and know where im at. take some time in this process explore the inner thigh area it will pay off believe me. now move in to the outskirts of the city the legs lips and hood if you will...probe them well by this point the mayor of the city should be willing to give you the keys to the city and the actual clit will be beging for some attention...
Anyway take it from this old guy learn to enjoy the trip don't just race to the destination...

just my 2 cents
Lucky....

OH, Damn! I thought this was a picture thread where we showed some clits. Oops, how embarrassing. My bad. I apologize.

As an additional point of reference... those of us with pierced hoods DO NOT consider it a bullseye on a target OR an easy button.... It's just a concentrator for the sensations that already got us going. It does, however, help those who hadn't figured out whether the clit was in a different area entirely.

VIRANI wrote:

As an additional point of reference... those of us with pierced hoods DO NOT consider it a bullseye on a target OR an easy button.... It's just a concentrator for the sensations that already got us going. It does, however, help those who hadn't figured out whether the clit was in a different area entirely.

Amen!

JEFFSMITH1972 wrote:

MENAGE wrote:

While it may help some for the woman to verbally instruct him, if he is really paying attention she shouldn't have to.

I've had several women make mistakes too, so I guess they weren't paying attention. In which case, I really should have told them to stop, so I don't blame it on them. It's definitely important to communicate, because not everybody has the complete intuitive level of 'nope - that's pain - and they don't like it - stop'. or 'nope - that doesn't do anything - good or bad - move on'.

If I fail to give instruction and later complain that it didn't work... I'm the one at fault. With men OR women. Until we develop bionic senses, our communication skills are the best form of seduction we own... Talking is another important way to use our tongue after all.

I like to consider myself the cunning linguist as it were. One thing I've learned in the experiences I've been lucky enough to share is that like sex, orally pleasing a woman will be different almost every time. Taking the time to feel a woman's body move, the sounds she makes, or even just the way she is breathing should be it's own road map. It's always nice to have a little communication or cue if you're not doing it the way she'd like. After all this is about maximizing the experience, right? I'd love to say that one trick fits all, but would be sorely misled with a chain a disappointment to follow.

Reading through everyone's comments, I laughed so hard I screwed up my sewing project. :~D
Thanks, I needed that.