well if she has a bf then technically she isnt single or maybe we should refrase the term to un attached bifemale......... as in no bf
To us single is single does not matter male or female if they are cheating on thier better half we want nothing to do with them.
I would think a bi-female would be happy to play with a couple for the reason that she is bi...if she were only looking for a woman, that would be lesbian. I would think a couple would be perfect for a bi female, the best of both 
. And also agree with the previous posts on the single part...if she is in a relationship, then she is not single...same as a man. Many couples seem to have a double standard on that one, but not us. But this is just what I would think, don\'t know any single bi females, so can\'t say for sure.
. And also agree with the previous posts on the single part...if she is in a relationship, then she is not single...same as a man. Many couples seem to have a double standard on that one, but not us. But this is just what I would think, don\'t know any single bi females, so can\'t say for sure.Hey there!
As a single bi-female maybe I am the best to try and answer this 2 part question? I AM single but on very few occations I play as a couple with a single male I have know for over a year, does that make me a couple-Hell no! Some couples like playing with a couple thats all. Now for the next part, I like the great benefit of have both bi and male satisfaction at once. I am bi but still very much love cock!
As a single bi-female maybe I am the best to try and answer this 2 part question? I AM single but on very few occations I play as a couple with a single male I have know for over a year, does that make me a couple-Hell no! Some couples like playing with a couple thats all. Now for the next part, I like the great benefit of have both bi and male satisfaction at once. I am bi but still very much love cock!
DE2OFUS......your post should be on your profile and then there wouldn\'t be any doubt what you are looking for....you\'re honest up front
Bi means likes both. It would be strange for a bi fem to want only a single male or a single female. They like both, so they want both.
As for single, if you have boy/girlfriend, you are not single. We don\'t do cheaters as they just bring too much drama into the situation. We like couples because we know we don\'t have to worry if the person is really single or not.
As for single, if you have boy/girlfriend, you are not single. We don\'t do cheaters as they just bring too much drama into the situation. We like couples because we know we don\'t have to worry if the person is really single or not.
not so rare...see three of us already...lol
I guess I\'m on these sites because I prefer group sex
I meet and play with people that I \"click\" with male, female, or couples.
I mostly play alone, I\'m single. But as you can see from this profile I do partner up for other couples or parties and its listed in the profile that we are not in a relationship(other than good friends with bennies)I\'m also partners on another site with another single male, does that make me cheater? nah...nympho maybe...but not cheater or lesbian, lol.
I guess I\'m on these sites because I prefer group sex
I meet and play with people that I \"click\" with male, female, or couples.
I mostly play alone, I\'m single. But as you can see from this profile I do partner up for other couples or parties and its listed in the profile that we are not in a relationship(other than good friends with bennies)I\'m also partners on another site with another single male, does that make me cheater? nah...nympho maybe...but not cheater or lesbian, lol.
\"So the question is (two parts) why would a single bi-female be looking for a couple? Wouldn\'t it seem more likely that she would be looking for a single bi-female as well? Second part ...if she has a boyfriend then is she really single?\"
We have not found a single bi-female looking for a couple on a website... ever. We\'ve met them in real life at parties and such, but never one advertising. I\'m sure they\'re out there, just our experience is the majority are either profiles planted by the webmaster of the site or guys posing as single females to get access to couples private pics.
If she has a boyfriend, she is not single. Like you said, that is asking for trouble when the boyfriend finds out.
Mr. Caress4u
We have not found a single bi-female looking for a couple on a website... ever. We\'ve met them in real life at parties and such, but never one advertising. I\'m sure they\'re out there, just our experience is the majority are either profiles planted by the webmaster of the site or guys posing as single females to get access to couples private pics.
If she has a boyfriend, she is not single. Like you said, that is asking for trouble when the boyfriend finds out.
Mr. Caress4u
I wanted to chime in here a sec...
Mr. De2ofUs made a comment earlier - it\'s off the subject of the thread, but his comment approaches a subject that\'s near and dear, I think, to a lot of couples...
He\'s a guy, playing single. In his case, he happens to have the full support of his spouse. His quandry is how to represent himself in his profile. Someone, above, made a good suggestion; put this post in your profile. It\'s a good description of the situation, sure enough.
But I noticed something...here\'s Mr De\'s comment:
\"I am not a single man, so I can\'t list myself as a single man. \"
Well...uhh, why not? I think you *can*.
With all due respect...you\'re seeking to play here as a single man - so you *must* list yourself as single. Of course you *can* - but I suspect the matter is that you don\'t *want to* list yourself as single. People block singles, or automatically delete notes from single, and so forth.
I\'m very certain that you physically have the ability to list yourself as single...don\'t you? So, let\'s just be honest here. Listing yourself as single and then explaining in a profile you are married, but have permission is a lot more on target than to list as a couple and explain you\'re playing single.
Why? Well, let\'s call it \"initial impression\". Many (and we all know this) view singles differently - immediately - and it\'s their right to do so.
Sorry for the apparent ferocity of this, but nothing steams us worse than a guy part of a couple - with permission or not - who wants to say he\'s a couple when he\'s looking to play alone.
In context, you *are a single male*.
[sorry, back to the real topic now *lol*]
Mr. De2ofUs made a comment earlier - it\'s off the subject of the thread, but his comment approaches a subject that\'s near and dear, I think, to a lot of couples...
He\'s a guy, playing single. In his case, he happens to have the full support of his spouse. His quandry is how to represent himself in his profile. Someone, above, made a good suggestion; put this post in your profile. It\'s a good description of the situation, sure enough.
But I noticed something...here\'s Mr De\'s comment:
\"I am not a single man, so I can\'t list myself as a single man. \"
Well...uhh, why not? I think you *can*.
With all due respect...you\'re seeking to play here as a single man - so you *must* list yourself as single. Of course you *can* - but I suspect the matter is that you don\'t *want to* list yourself as single. People block singles, or automatically delete notes from single, and so forth.
I\'m very certain that you physically have the ability to list yourself as single...don\'t you? So, let\'s just be honest here. Listing yourself as single and then explaining in a profile you are married, but have permission is a lot more on target than to list as a couple and explain you\'re playing single.
Why? Well, let\'s call it \"initial impression\". Many (and we all know this) view singles differently - immediately - and it\'s their right to do so.
Sorry for the apparent ferocity of this, but nothing steams us worse than a guy part of a couple - with permission or not - who wants to say he\'s a couple when he\'s looking to play alone.
In context, you *are a single male*.
[sorry, back to the real topic now *lol*]
We had a single guy contact us after meeting at a bar he reveals to us he has a girlfriend but she doesn\'t play and says well she doesn\'t mind it if I bring a gal home and we both play with her and then he says but she knows I play around. We told him to take a hike to us if there is a significant other in your life and you are not including them in the play you are either \"cheating\" or you are a soft swap cpl with us all play or no play. We now ask for a personal cpl reference for single guys we do not want some gun wielding pissed off lady to come after us because we messed with her guy.
OUr two cents:
For the guy that is playing solo...I would have two seperate profiles...One for a couple and one for yourself...Put in your profile a certification from the couple profile and allow anyone you contact to contact your sig other...This will eliminate any confusion...NO one will feel you lied or anything else...We have met some attached men who, with their spouses permission, which we verified, were able to play solo...So, IF you put into your email that you are attached but able to fly solo, you should be OK...
As to the single bi-fem...Why wouldn't she..she gets the best of both worlds...
Everyone has a fantasy (mostly the men) to be with two women at the same time...so why wouldn't they want to meet single gals...and if a gal is bi...by definition she likes both men and women, so why wouldn;t she like couples?
Now...As to the NO SINGLE MEN thing...Personally, I believe this is an insecurity on the male's part combined with the majority of single men assuming that because someone is in the lifestyle, they are an easy lay...When I (the male here) first became involved in this lifestyle, I was one of those assuming men...Hey they will love me...I am single, decent (but by no means Brad Pitt, and I have a nice home to play in....how safe is that...All the women will want me) BOY DID I MISINTERPRET...Now with a partner, I see WHY most couples repeatedly say NO SINGLE MEN...a vast majority of single men send emails like, "I have a 8 inch cock...interested?" no picture, no descriptions, nothing.....And if you send them a no-thanks note...They respond with, "WHY NOT" and get beligerant...as if we owe them something...Oh welll...so it was 5 cents worth...Hopefully, this will make sense to someone...perhaps a single man will read this, an the light will come on...
For the guy that is playing solo...I would have two seperate profiles...One for a couple and one for yourself...Put in your profile a certification from the couple profile and allow anyone you contact to contact your sig other...This will eliminate any confusion...NO one will feel you lied or anything else...We have met some attached men who, with their spouses permission, which we verified, were able to play solo...So, IF you put into your email that you are attached but able to fly solo, you should be OK...
As to the single bi-fem...Why wouldn't she..she gets the best of both worlds...
Everyone has a fantasy (mostly the men) to be with two women at the same time...so why wouldn't they want to meet single gals...and if a gal is bi...by definition she likes both men and women, so why wouldn;t she like couples?
Now...As to the NO SINGLE MEN thing...Personally, I believe this is an insecurity on the male's part combined with the majority of single men assuming that because someone is in the lifestyle, they are an easy lay...When I (the male here) first became involved in this lifestyle, I was one of those assuming men...Hey they will love me...I am single, decent (but by no means Brad Pitt, and I have a nice home to play in....how safe is that...All the women will want me) BOY DID I MISINTERPRET...Now with a partner, I see WHY most couples repeatedly say NO SINGLE MEN...a vast majority of single men send emails like, "I have a 8 inch cock...interested?" no picture, no descriptions, nothing.....And if you send them a no-thanks note...They respond with, "WHY NOT" and get beligerant...as if we owe them something...Oh welll...so it was 5 cents worth...Hopefully, this will make sense to someone...perhaps a single man will read this, an the light will come on...