So for my next sound off.
this truly did happen to me. During a who's online search up comes a familiar nick name and face. It is my cousins other half and then I find her as well. Now this is someone that I talk to on a daily basis and it took me a few weeks to let her know I knew she was a swinger. And now it is our private facebook joke...
Anyone else have similar experiences???
this truly did happen to me. During a who's online search up comes a familiar nick name and face. It is my cousins other half and then I find her as well. Now this is someone that I talk to on a daily basis and it took me a few weeks to let her know I knew she was a swinger. And now it is our private facebook joke...
Anyone else have similar experiences???
I found my sister on a profile in Southern Utah a few years past. It took a few weeks to let her know I had found the profile... she was scared at first but soon realized I was in the same boat. I have since been to a number of parties with her in attendance and had a great time despite having a sibling there. Its one of the reasons we are the "black sheep" of the family. 
SEXYPOKER69 wrote:
I found my sister on a profile in Southern Utah a few years past. It took a few weeks to let her know I had found the profile... she was scared at first but soon realized I was in the same boat. I have since been to a number of parties with her in attendance and had a great time despite having a sibling there. Its one of the reasons we are the "black sheep" of the family.
This is my thing (love you cuz but)... i do not know if i could be friends let alone go to the same parties. Guess time will tell our comfort zone in this lifestyle.
Maybe its just a family trait...
TOMNTAMMY wrote:
yes when i found out my son and his girl are swingers
oh my... I am not sure how I would do with that one a cousin is one thing but my kids would be a different playing field.
My son and daughter-in-law show up at the house one day to use my shop to work on a friends car. I didn't recognize her but she was looking fine. I overheard the girls talking about AFF.....Shit!!!, Told my son I would be right back, grabbed the laptop looked it up, there's my daughter-in-laws pic on a couples profile. Locked and cancelled our AFF account on the spot...
I found my parents on here when we first signed up.. We ended up at a few of the same parties lol. But we are all cool with it lol!! Well the hubby not so much lol!! I just find it funny and so do they!!
I went to an open lifestyle club in Phoenix once with a date. We were always flirting with each other at her sisters home. I played golf with the sisters husband. Mike and I once talked about how he wanted to watch his wife fuck a friend. I told him that I knew of this club. Well the night of my date with Tammy, Mike and Mary show up. We all went into a room and shared the girls. For 2 years Sunday afternoons after golf all for of us would spend time together. The have become members on this site.
SEXYPOKER69 wrote:
I found my sister on a profile in Southern Utah a few years past. It took a few weeks to let her know I had found the profile... she was scared at first but soon realized I was in the same boat. I have since been to a number of parties with her in attendance and had a great time despite having a sibling there. Its one of the reasons we are the "black sheep" of the family.
I wish I could get my wife's Sister to get into this lifestyle. Although it would be really strange to get it on, she is hot and would be a lot of fun!
One time I was getting a BJ through a glory hole and when I walked around the other side I found my Dad dressed in drag. He still had cum on his chin. It was horribly upsetting.
LOL! HAHAHAHAHH..
Kidding. C'mon, that was disturbing but funne.
LOL! HAHAHAHAHH..
Kidding. C'mon, that was disturbing but funne.
UTHOTCPLEXTREME wrote:
One time I was getting a BJ through a glory hole and when I walked around the other side I found my Dad dressed in drag. He still had cum on his chin. It was horribly upsetting.
LOL! HAHAHAHAHH..
Kidding. C'mon, that was disturbing but funne.
Very disturbing but funny!!!!!
Ok so to kinda switch gears but still along the same lines. What about ex's? I mean you may have been a couple on here and now you are either Are you friends and civil with each other when you see each other out at a party? Do you friend them on here? I am really curious to see how everyone handles this, I have my thoughts on it of courses.
AFF- Adult Friend Finder
We went to play with a single female at her house and her 20 year old son and his friend were there watching porn downstairs while we were upstairs in her bedroom. They knew exactly why we were there and what we were doing. It was weird but we respected her openness with her son who is old enough to handle it.
My boyfriend was checkin out who was online and came across my parents. It was both shocking and kinda expected as I knew my parents were swingers and have for quite awhile. I texted my Mother and asked if she thought sexual orientation could be genetic and needless to say we had quite the conversation after that lol.
SEXUALPLEASURES wrote:
Ok so to kinda switch gears but still along the same lines. What about ex's? I mean you may have been a couple on here and now you are either Are you friends and civil with each other when you see each other out at a party? Do you friend them on here? I am really curious to see how everyone handles this, I have my thoughts on it of courses.
The answer is no... and we have not run into each other at any parties and hope to never in the future....
DOUBLETHEFUN wrote:
We went to play with a single female at her house and her 20 year old son and his friend were there watching porn downstairs while we were upstairs in her bedroom. They knew exactly why we were there and what we were doing. It was weird but we respected her openness with her son who is old enough to handle it.
We would have turned around and walked right back out the door. We have two older sons and whether they knew what was going on or not, we couldn't proceed with the evening knowing they were right downstairs. Our son doesn't know we are in this lifestyle and I want it to remain that way and continue to respect him in our home. We were invited to a party and the dad had his son and all of his friends there (20+ years old). They kept popping in and out to see if anyone was naked. Needless to say, we didn't play, get wild and crazy, nor did we stay long. There's a time and a place.
Mrs. Utcplbif
I could handle an ex or some extended family members being swingers but my parents or my child? Yuck....I would loose my lunch...lol.
We have family members in the lifestyle, but have yet to run into them. Not sure what theyre reaction would be.
It is definitely an uncomfortable feeling when you first find a family member on here. We had a friend request from a couple here, we thought they sounded like a fun couple, then when looking at their private photo's, OMG it's my cousin!!
We didn't know what to think? Do we delete them real quick before they know who we are or what?
Well we have remained friends with them, but have not said anything to one another as of yet..
The funny thing is that we both dated the same girl in high school, who ended up later becoming my ex wife.
We didn't know what to think? Do we delete them real quick before they know who we are or what?
Well we have remained friends with them, but have not said anything to one another as of yet..
The funny thing is that we both dated the same girl in high school, who ended up later becoming my ex wife.
KOIGIRL wrote:
I could not figure out why my exhusband was even such a bigger asshole on certain days, and come to find out he was on here, and had been for a whole year before I was. He even figured out my password and deleted comments etc... I have no idea which profile is his now, but if he wants to know when I have a booty call then more power to him. We were not in the lifestyle together when married. lol The down side he told our kids about me, it was no big deal he is on here. So if he reads this "please leave me be!"
That to bad Koigil. We saw on another site my 16 yr old under age niece, pretending to be older . Let's just say I texted get and let her know to get off the site and that its not a good idea to use your real last and first name in you're handle. She deleted her account as far as we know and nothing else has ever been said to one another about this.
Found my ex-wife on here. We were chatting in the chat room and she says "hey I think I know you". Well when I found out who she really was, I was like, yeah you know who I am, we were married for 8 yrs, lol. Luckily she is off the site now.
Our Niece found ours on here, she called my wife and said she seen all our pics. Come to find out they are also on here. And lives next door to us now.
My hubby is very naughty......he has slept with all of his EX's sisters.....lol There are 4 of them. Wow he must have been some hot stud to have them all swoon over him. Makes me laugh knowing and seeing them gaze at him when I have met these sisters here n there. They all still love him dearly lol
So my parents are swingers on the site. They sent a friend request shortly after my last post, I debated for 5 months whether to accept it or not. I finally accepted it and had a conversation with my mom about her special piercing
We have several siblings and cousins we've run into on here. We just avoid the parties they attend.
ANDRAYWAY_SHANAYNAY wrote:
The family thing hasn't come up as of yet, but what about coworkers? Has anyone bumped into someone they work with?
I (James) work as a sales rep and make deliveries all week to various business' between Draper and Ogden, Utah. In two years I have recognized 5 swingular members out in the vanilla world. The first time I introduced myself and it turned out badly. So now I just smile and keep on going.
We have came across one of my family members on here but havent really approach them just because it might make it awakard thing around the family since her family is pretty LDS and they used to take care of me when I was younger. So we just keep the fact we came across them just between me and my wife
My part time job delivering pizza I have come across quite a few people I knew to be on here yet they never put two an two together....
I have delivered in the following areas: syracuse, layton, clearfield, Kaysville, Farmington, west point, clinton....
I have had the door answered by totally naked women a few times!
I have delivered in the following areas: syracuse, layton, clearfield, Kaysville, Farmington, west point, clinton....
I have had the door answered by totally naked women a few times!
My sister and bro-in-law are on here and we are often at the same parties. We just have enough sense to be in different rooms. Never had an issue that way.
my ex is still a good friend and when her and her new husband want a second male, they call me they are on here and we go to the same partys
We had one of Dustin's brothers and his wife come up to us and ask if we were on AFF while we were at a family party at his Mom's house....that was interesting. lol They later joined Swingular and went to a Halloween party with us, but have since then quit the lifestyle. It doesn't bother me, my family knows and a couple of his siblings know.
I'm pretty sure people recognize me from chat when I'm at Walmart. Either that or they just like to stare
I'm pretty sure people recognize me from chat when I'm at Walmart. Either that or they just like to stare
LOOKN4A3RD4FUN wrote:Was she the one I mooned at the Halloween party?
We had one of Dustin's brothers and his wife come up to us and ask if we were on AFF while we were at a family party at his Mom's house....that was interesting. lol They later joined Swingular and went to a Halloween party with us, but have since then quit the lifestyle. It doesn't bother me, my family knows and a couple of his siblings know.
I'm pretty sure people recognize me from chat when I'm at Walmart. Either that or they just like to stare
K I don't know where to ask this question so I will apologize now if i offend any one for asking this on here. Can anyone post a new subject to the forum and how do i do it if the answer is yes. Thank you and happy two legged hunting.
No family, but I suspect my parents were before my dad passed. I have run in to swingers out and about 3 times. One I work with, one we were riding Trax after a Blaze game when they shut the train down and stranded us and one at another Blaze game I was at with my father in law and brother in law and we had seats right next to each other.
So, Blaze games seem to be the trigger for us.
So, Blaze games seem to be the trigger for us.
FUNSIZE44 wrote:
K I don't know where to ask this question so I will apologize now if i offend any one for asking this on here. Can anyone post a new subject to the forum and how do i do it if the answer is yes. Thank you and happy two legged hunting.
On the HOME either go to FEATURES on the top dropdown menus page and click FORUMS, or under the HOT DISCUSSIONS click 'View All Forum Topics'. Then click the underlined topic you want to post under and click the highlighted 'New Topic' on the left above the message boxes. After filling it out hit SAVE on the bottom right.
How about being woken up at 3 in the morning by a strange noise wondering down stairs and seeing your mom with some guy and your dad getting oral from a strange woman?
I always kinda thought they were up to "stuff" but from then on I knew for sure.
I always kinda thought they were up to "stuff" but from then on I knew for sure.
MY WIFE AND I USED TO GO TO A SWINGERS CLUB I DOWNTOWN ATLANTA. IMAGINE OUR SHOCK WHEN OUR DAUGHTER MENTIONED AN S&M CLUB SHE WAS GOING TO ONE BLOCK AWAY FROM OUR CLUB. NEEDLESS TO SAY WE WERE CAREFUL WHERE WE PARKED THE NEXT TIME WE WENT.
No family but lots of people from our vanilla social circles and several people I interacted with on a regular basis from the medical field, I guess what they say about nurses is true.
Ellawhite0123 wrote:
I’m ella text me 9175995253
Hi, ella. I don't have one of those fancy 'texting' phones (Mom won't let me have one and I live in her basement.) but let's hook up anyway! I love Star Wars, Avengers, my cat, and sex...not necessarily in that order. I think we'll probably get along really well and maybe even get married. Do you have your own place? (Mom says you can't live here.) I have a job at Dairy Queen so I can send you some money and we can go halfsies on a bus ticket for you to come visit. Talk to you soon!
We belong to a meetup group that is “vanilla”. We had met a few couples for drinks we met here & then went to the meetup & they were there! We eventually figured out there were 5 LS couples in the group that we were able to identify lol!
Holy Lazarus! Another resurrected post. Who goes back through 9 years of posts?
Utahldscouple wrote:
Holy Lazarus! Another resurrected post. Who goes back through 9 years of posts?
Apparently ella does. Stay away from her, she's MINE!
EVILDOERS wrote:Actually it wasn't her she just responded to a recent post. Ella is not a woman, so good luck with thatUtahldscouple wrote:
Holy Lazarus! Another resurrected post. Who goes back through 9 years of posts?
Apparently ella does. Stay away from her, she's MINE!
!Utahldscouple wrote:Actually it wasn't her she just responded to a recent post. Ella is not a woman, so good luck with thatEVILDOERS wrote:
[quote=Utahldscouple]Holy Lazarus! Another resurrected post. Who goes back through 9 years of posts?
Apparently ella does. Stay away from her, she's MINE!
![/quote]She's not?!!?
Chick with a dick? How do you know? Wait, have you met her?? Did she say anything about me? Pretty sure she's my density.EVILDOERS wrote:Yep I talked to him/her on the phone. She wouldn't stop talking about you!
She's not?!!?
Now let's see who can name the movie that quote came from "I'm your density"!
Never found a profile or photo of anyone in the family though I don't normally search that far away.
However my GF at the time and I ran into my one sister and BIL at a function in Sacramento many years ago.
Was a bit awkward but after chatting awhile had a good laugh and enjoyed the party together but separately. Think we are all more open with each other now.
However my GF at the time and I ran into my one sister and BIL at a function in Sacramento many years ago.
Was a bit awkward but after chatting awhile had a good laugh and enjoyed the party together but separately. Think we are all more open with each other now.
Utahldscouple wrote:
[quote=EVILDOERS]
Now let's see who can name the movie that quote came from "I'm your density"!
That's from Back to the Future...
We've been very open and honest about sexuality and the lifestyle with our daughter. If she wanted to join this site or any other we would support her. She's dated men and women and we've even asked if we could have one of her girlfriends when they were done. If she showed up to a party we were at we'd encourage her to have fun, just in a different area than us.
Utahldscouple wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:Yep I talked to him/her on the phone. She wouldn't stop talking about you!
She's not?!!?
Now let's see who can name the movie that quote came from "I'm your density"!
Sorry, out of cell range hiking. Thankfully, SEXPERIMENTORS answered for me what was a TOTAL gimme movie quote. Here's one for YOU! "Double-vaginal double-anal. It's the only way a woman of my age will get work in this industry. If you don't think that splits me open like a turkey on Thanksgiving...”
I warned my sister what I was getting into because she has the same proclivities just in case...
Mrs kttn
Mrs kttn
We were messaged by my hubby's cousin asking if he played alone and if he could come over and fuck his wife while he and myself could sit and watch. We don't have face pics on our public album for this very reason, so glad they did in theirs. Instant block, lol. We both have family who give the impression that they are very open sexually so I'm sure there are more here than we know of.