Wondering as the female half of this couple, why so many bi women out there?...do they do it for the mens pleasure of watching? yes, I have tried it, it didnt do it for me..nothing like a mans touch or feel...having a hard time finding a couple that just want to play straight.
We know the filling i think it is for the man dosent do much for me either i was surprised my man is much better than a woman
no offense taken if 145 and 5'9 is overweight then I guess I am 
Thank you, I have recieved several emails stating the same thing since my post...I find it funny the forum becomes a place to critize others just for asking a question or starting a thread,...maybe we need to look in the mirror before casting stones...just sayin...
Well there is another one we can put on the jerk list. What does your body type have to do with your question anyway. By the way I think you look great
Female straight here too... We have found some that are bi, straight and bi-comfortable but most respect our choices.
I appreciate all the emails and comments..I have found some very awesome people by posting this forum....looking forward to meeting them have a great day everyone even you simplepleasures, my husband could say the same about you..but we look deeper than the skin we want real non judgmental friends..the inside is what counts honey!
have a great day everyone even you simplepleasures, my husband could say the same about you..but we look deeper than the skin we want real non judgmental friends..the inside is what counts honey!CURIOUSCPL91 wrote:
no offense taken if 145 and 5'9 is overweight then I guess I am
145 lbs for your 5'9 frame is perfect....we would all love to have your BMI index of course(=
You will find many straight women on here that only love men too. Its common so once you dig through the grut work then you will find those couples for sure.
It is worth pointing out that for some couples bi means "either/or" and not necessarily "both". Couples where the woman is genuinely bi are often not necessarily looking for bi partners. In those cases, she might be bi with bi women but straight swap is fine too. In this sense, I think it is people who are "bi-curious" where you are more likely to run into a problem - they are looking to try it.
My private pictures show all of me, and my body has nothing to do with my question..but again I have found some great people and thats what we are on here for...we all don't click and we all don't see ourselves...I try to be kind to everyone, if its not nice I dont say it. I personally dont know a "perfect" person.. good for those that do.
JMTHORN wrote:
It is worth pointing out that for some couples bi means "either/or" and not necessarily "both". Couples where the woman is genuinely bi are often not necessarily looking for bi partners. In those cases, she might be bi with bi women but straight swap is fine too. In this sense, I think it is people who are "bi-curious" where you are more likely to run into a problem - they are looking to try it.
I agree
I am bi but I dont have to play with the female half. Straight swap is fine with me. I enjoy women but I really enjoy men and the girl/girl thing is a great way to get things started but after I am going to want some male attention.
SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:CURIOUSCPL91 wrote:Please do not take this the wrong way! Please. But your profile pics scream the female half is over weight. Take some time to get some nice pictures of the female half. Your shopping so to speak for the male half of a couple for full swap, market yourself. And please, we know our pics are nothing special. Just a friendly comment. Mr. Simp,e
Wondering as the female half of this couple, why so many bi women out there?...do they do it for the mens pleasure of watching? yes, I have tried it, it didnt do it for me..nothing like a mans touch or feel...having a hard time finding a couple that just want to play straight.
Please do not take this the wrong way! Please. But your profile pics scream the female half is BLIND!!! And so is the doctor who put in her implants. Next time use a level and make them look more even. Maybe quit using buy one get one free coupons for you boob jobs.
And please, we know our pics are nothing special. Just a friendly comment.
SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:I'm known for drifting off topic, but usually because I can't help but be lighthearted. But, Mr Simple, what the flying fuck does your comment have to do with the OP's question? I've got to say, Mr Simple, you've taken being "off topic" to a whole new level of not only being off topic, but of being just plain rude. You've pissed me off to no end. My first inclination is to make comments as to how your pics make your body appear and to suggest that I believe your pics to be accurate. I'll refrain from specifics.
Please do not take this the wrong way! Please. But your profile pics scream the female half is over weight. Take some time to get some nice pictures of the female half. Your shopping so to speak for the male half of a couple for full swap, market yourself.
And please, we know our pics are nothing special. Just a friendly comment.
Mr. Simp,e
Mrs CURIOUSCPL, you look absolutely gorgeous. I only wish that I was 1/2 as curvaceous and beautiful as you. You are right, there do seem to be a lot of Bi women here, but if you cast your eyes about, there are some of us only curious or straight. And, as we've attended parties and such, I haven't had a big issue with other's bisexuality being pushed on me. Perhaps, according to Mr Simple, that's because my pictures make me look fat?
I noticed that on these sites, bi and bi-curios does not seem to mean bi at all, but rather, we only want your female half to show up.
I am bi because I love being with women. They are beautiful and sensual. I prefer men, but I still have a desire for women. My sexual preference has nothing to do with what my man likes to watch. Both of my ex's were disgusted by my desire for women. I consider myself very lucky to have a man who not only enjoys seeing me with women, but nurtures and encourages my need for them. I can't tell you how liberating it is to finally be in a relationship where I am able to be myself and not be ashamed about my sexual orientaion. I feel bad for any straight woman who pretends to be bi for her partners veiwing pleasure. There is nothing as satisfying as being in a relationship that allows you to be true to yourself.
I am straight. Always have been and always will be. BUT, I want my men to be happy. If that means they enjoy watching me get it on with another woman, then I'll do it. Women don't turn me off, but they don't turn me on either. It's all about pleasing the men in my life and I don't mind doing it. I have, however, made it known that I do not play alone. My husband or boyfriend is always involved.
Please do not take this the wrong way! Please. But your profile pics scream the female half is BLIND!!! And so is the doctor who put in her implants. Next time use a level and make them look more even. Maybe quit using buy one get one free coupons for you boob jobs.
And please, we know our pics are nothing special. Just a friendly comment.[/quote]
BWAAAAAHAHAHAHAHA I frickin love it! Thank you for the laugh. Ya know you hear things about others once in a while on this site, and I ALWAYS try to judge for myself and give people the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise...I was just proven otherwise.
Mrs. CURIOUS you look pretty fuckin amazing from where we sit!!! And it wouldn't matter if you WERE hiding flaws in your pics. We all have them. Some physical, and apparently some mental. (see previous comments). The fact of the matter is that some of us are in this for much more than just the physical attraction, and some aren't. And that's fine. Do your own thing I say. But to tell someone how they should "market" themselves for others really cheapens the beauty of what these relationships can hold. For shallow minds like that, I apologize.
Besides, for those of us who may be over-weight...we can diet. Ya can't fix "stupid"... It runs right to the bone! ROCK
CURIOUSCPL91 wrote:
Thank you, I have recieved several emails stating the same thing since my post...I find it funny the forum becomes a place to critize others just for asking a question or starting a thread,...maybe we need to look in the mirror before casting stones...just sayin...
Took a look at your critic's profile.
LOTS of pics.
Didn't see any Blue Ribbons in ANY of them
And you look GREAT, btw.
Clearly my meaning was lost. So for that I apologize. no intention of being rude or hurtful of making any comment as to actual shape or personality of the couple addressed.
Mr simple!
Mr simple!
This is Mr. Curious, first I want to thank everyone that made my beautiful wife feel better and took the time to write us today, we have great new friends on our list because of it, and we hoping to meet them soon. Great people like you reminds us why we are on this site, to find friends and have some great fun along the way...to the critic, no worries all is forgiven, kindness and generosity to everyone is our motto!
Wow, this thread has been an interesting read! It never ceases to amaze me . . . I mean really!
Anyway, about the topic - Be assured that there are plenty of couples out here with women who are very bi-sexual . . . who are also able to participate in "straight" play without ever crossing the line. I just go with the flow of the situation - I'm good at being straight ;o]
Anyway, about the topic - Be assured that there are plenty of couples out here with women who are very bi-sexual . . . who are also able to participate in "straight" play without ever crossing the line. I just go with the flow of the situation - I'm good at being straight ;o]
We prefer the straight swap as well. Comfortability doesn't mean preference. As the mrs would put it, "I don't mind playing a little with another woman, but it's gotta be a man to finish the job...". To each their own though!
CANDJ23 wrote:
I am bi because I love being with women. They are beautiful and sensual. I prefer men, but I still have a desire for women. My sexual preference has nothing to do with what my man likes to watch. Both of my ex's were disgusted by my desire for women. I consider myself very lucky to have a man who not only enjoys seeing me with women, but nurtures and encourages my need for them. I can't tell you how liberating it is to finally be in a relationship where I am able to be myself and not be ashamed about my sexual orientaion. I feel bad for any straight woman who pretends to be bi for her partners veiwing pleasure. There is nothing as satisfying as being in a relationship that allows you to be true to yourself.
Well said Candj23! I hate the "labeling" but consider myself "non gender specific". I am attracted to the spirit within, not the casing it is house in. Beautiful, sexy, fun, loving spirits excite me to no end. I love both body types (make or female) and would hate to have to ever choose just one or the other!! The touch, taste and feel of a woman or a man that bring out that fire in me is what it is all about. Respect is key, boundaries must be respected. Smiles and make it a great day!!
IMAGINE69 wrote:
Well said Candj23! I hate the "labeling" but consider myself "non gender specific". I am attracted to the spirit within, not the casing it is house in. Beautiful, sexy, fun, loving spirits excite me to no end. I love both body types (make or female) and would hate to have to ever choose just one or the other!! The touch, taste and feel of a woman or a man that bring out that fire in me is what it is all about. Respect is key, boundaries must be respected. Smiles and make it a great day!!
OMG, Imagine69, I am now TRULY pissed off.
One, because you've caused me to, once again, drift off-topic.
Two, because, when I was in Kodachrome Basin, I didn't have enough imagination to get a pic like the one in your profile!!
That is AWESOME, I love your sense of humor! (I'm assuming the pic with your erection is from there?)I'm bi strictly when we play, never by myself. I think its fun once in a while to play with women and my man likes to watch but if the woman was purely straight, I'm fine with that too. Generally I have found that making a move on the woman tends to loosen everyone up so its kind of a transitioning trick for me anyway.
Well we are straight as well...that being said the wife has played before as she has been approached by some great women who along the way have shown her some great times and even opened her mind up to some other aspects of "FUN". She doesn't approach them for fun but is playful. So only in some very unique situations has she gone there and mostly (I assume) because she knows I think its hot....we're in this to please each other and have fun. BTW OP there's nothing wrong with your pics, you look great!
Interesting question. we also have problems finding couples that just want to straight swap or make great friends and hang out.
The gal here started off straight. I have thought many times that having a lady of the relationship express some interest or curiosity towards other women is what must drive many couples to begin this search on this road less traveled and find themselves members here. That is why I think there are so many bi gals on sites like this. off topic. I love gal gal stuff and I am shocked that any man would not like two gals together. My gal tells me it is just because there are twice as many of the females things that I like to look at. ?? off topic again. I am still confused on how some of you folks classify bi S or C or all these classifications. BI Curious , comfy and sexual all mean you can take it or leave it according to the nice definitions at Kasidie.
Just shows you where a simple question goes to bashing I love it swingers are suppose to be mor open minded and more layed back then vanillas but a simple thread like this shows you how down hill swinging has went !!!!! Some people take moron to a whole new level !!!!! Heres a saying if you don't have anything nice to say then keep your mouth shut ....... Just sayin
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Candy is "straight" for the most part of our swinging experiences. She's not one to freak out if all four of us are in bed together and the girls should happen to accidentally touch each other. For her, it's more of a comfort level with the female side of the house. Usually takes about three play dates with the same couple for her to warm up to the other girl. It is NEVER forced, rather a "happens on it's own" type of thing for girl/girl play. We defintely don't advertise this fact that she is bi-curious and has played a little with select females of couples we've been with. Much like the boundaries and respect of a couples wishes for what is allowed and what is not for a full swap scenario, this kinda goes along the same lines of the girls getting it on themselves. For some reason, due to a "wishful thinking" frame of mind, most couples appear to start off a full swap where the girls start kissing and rip each other's clothes off, then the wife switch starts. We however, DO NOT do this with our couples. If anything would happen between girl/girl, it would most defiitely take part later in the play session if at all. Candy can get "spooked" very easily if she feels the other female is only after her. She prefers to be with the other guy more. This is just a preference in our playtime with other couples. To make things easier for her, she would rather do a FMF. This puts the other female in her "play" area with no threats and can be more comfortable being "closer" to her while pleasing one of the males. It's so much easier if both women are going down on one of the males together and they should happen to end up kissing each other while pleasing the man. If it happens, it happens, and if it doesn't...no harm...no foul. Bottom line, the female side should NEVER be pressured into doing something she does NOT want to do. Candy gets no pressure from me for it really turns me on to see her with the other man. For us, it's the 50/50 rule, she does what's comfortable for her and the same for me. So overall, we're pretty much a full swap wife switch couple. My wife with the other male and your wife with me. 50/50. Good luck in your search.
BTW...you look GREAT in your pics. Remember, different people like different things and we all have our preferences. This is a "forum" so that means, it can stay on track or it can branch out in a million different ways. When it goes "south" don't give it ANY of your energy whatsoever. Not worth it. You are obviously one of the ones who appreciate constructive feedback with excellent communicative skills. Nobody likes "bullies". End of story.
BTW...you look GREAT in your pics. Remember, different people like different things and we all have our preferences. This is a "forum" so that means, it can stay on track or it can branch out in a million different ways. When it goes "south" don't give it ANY of your energy whatsoever. Not worth it. You are obviously one of the ones who appreciate constructive feedback with excellent communicative skills. Nobody likes "bullies". End of story.
Great read, and to the op, we too know what its like.... I'm straight, but yet we have had couples that have "required" girl on girl.
I just can't, and I suppose this is the great thing about the lifestyle.. the ability to say NO!
What do I care? I have an amazing man to go home to, and I will violate the hell out of him!!
And pebblerock hit it, we all have flaws! We aren't here to get married (well maybe some) but most are here for a good time and to meet great like minded people! We hope to meet you two at some point!
Good luck...
Kisses
I just can't, and I suppose this is the great thing about the lifestyle.. the ability to say NO!
What do I care? I have an amazing man to go home to, and I will violate the hell out of him!!
And pebblerock hit it, we all have flaws! We aren't here to get married (well maybe some) but most are here for a good time and to meet great like minded people! We hope to meet you two at some point!
Good luck...
Kisses
Lady is bi-sexual, but that does not in any way mean we require girl on girl contact with the couples we meet. It all depends on the chemistry