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MINDYPINDY wrote:

Our main worry is that, people old enough to BE our parents have a pretty good chance of KNOWING our parents sometime in the past and may run into them in the future.


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1. I know someone else in my family that are swingers. Not my parents although I highly suspect they have engaged in such activities in the past.

2. I have run into various family members (siblings, cousins, etc) at m&g's and parties. Awkward for a minute and then we laughed it off and we have the understanding that we don't out them to others and they don't out us to anybody either. Although technically my mom knows anyways as I've had random discussions with her in the past.

We never ran and hid. Its handled tactfully. We try to keep our personal sexual adventures private in general and its understood that "keep your mouth shut around family and friends that dont know and we'll do the same." It works.

MRS_ROCKZO
hahaha

Have you been to relief society lately? jk
People are nosy!

This is my only secret. Everyone already knows but me!!!
My worst nightmare involves spiders and rollercoasters. Not really much to do with swingers and/or my parents. :p
We have family that we have found on the site. We stay blissfully ignorant of each other. As far as running into the folks, they make choices the same as we do. Obviously I am positive we wouldn't play at the same party.
Although this is strictly hypothetical for me, mutual respect and discretion would be the order of the day should it ever occur.
To tell the truth I would have more appreciation for my family members if I knew they were swingers. I would love to be that opened about the relationship that my husband and I have. This is something my husband and I are confortable with but we cannot share with others due to close mindedness. I think if they were swingers they would have more respect for their partners. I would love for my parents to be into swinging and I would not hide.