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Craziness I tell ya!We were with a couple Sunday night and the male
went FOREVER. He has 2 orgasms but didn't ejaculate ( which apparently I am
nieve, I had never heard of this with men..) finally after about 1 hours he
asked if I had enough and I said "no". Asked again after about 2 1/2 and I was
spent..it was rough, hardcore fucking. I was done...and then BAM, he
ejaculates...talk about leaving a girl dazed and confused...


I had never heard of a man having a orgasm, or multiples without
ejaculating until this weekend.and I'm 50 years old...... What are your
thoughts??? Men, have you done this?? Or women have you been with a male that
has done this.....
Not saying this is the case, but.........
Isn't it possible for a male to fake an orgasm just like it is for a woman?
Some of us men have great control, and can choose when to orgasm/cum/ejaculate.
In the meantime - you were obviously impressed - but maybe it was really his control (and acting talent) you were MOST impressed by.

Just sayin'...............
It depends on the guy, I'm long lasting and have not come for hours until I was sure she was satified. Mature men can control the ejaculation process at times. It takes practice to train your body not to come. when I engage a woman it's generally for her pleasure, not mine. This helps me in prolonging sex indefinately. There is some thing special about a women saying to you, how'd you learn to do that, or last for six-eight hours after screwing her raw! I started training myself after a women complained that her husband was a two minute man. The trick is to stop befor cumming and readjust your focus to please her first, over and over again. I still get called back to help the lady out,and her husband likes watching his woman being banged by a skilled lover.
yes it is and it is great, as vladtheinpaler said, but everything needs to be clicking for it to happen. when it does i love it.
Doing kegel exercises work well also.
I disagree with HFUN. (SHOOTING BLANKS) is cuming but you cannot make a woman pregnant. (SNIP SNIP).

Vlad is 100% correct and this is exactly how I am.. Many years of making myself last as long as possible has tuned my functions to what is called (DRY CUM). It's all the same sensations without the liquid blast. This can happen many times and once you are comfortable with understanding it and you are not afraid your shit quit working, you can go on for hours and keep hard the entire ride. It's GREAT!!! (L, I started to tell you about that at a party we were both at about 6 months ago). I do not remember the guys name, but there is a Japanese man, (about 100 years old), who wrote extensively about this. Recently saw him on an HBO thing. Real Sex I think. Tantra* teaches this among other things.. I love it.....

;-)
From wikipedia, about orgasm...

Males who experience dry orgasms can often produce multiple orgasms, as the refractory period is reduced. Some men are able to masturbate for hours at a time, achieving orgasm many times. Many men who began masturbation or other sexual activity prior to puberty report having been able to achieve multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms. Some evidence indicates that orgasms of men before puberty are qualitatively similar to the "normal" female experience of orgasm, suggesting that hormonal changes during puberty have a strong influence on the character of male orgasm. Some men have been multiorgasmic since they can recall, while others have learned to achieve multiple orgasms. In recent years, a number of books have described various techniques to achieve multiple orgasms. Most multi-orgasmic men (and their partners) report that refraining from ejaculation results in a far more energetic post-orgasm state.

Yes, this is for real.

My experience with non-ejaculatory orgasm is that it is more intense, longer lasting and multiple compared to an ejaculatory one. It also left me extremely horny and not "spent" like a good ejaculatory orgasm would.

Look it up fellas. Try it, you'll like it!
I so agree Hot secret. I also take forever. And sometimes never until I know my partner has cum herself. I mean the squirting female orgasm. Watching my lady squirt is orgasm enough for me.
I (the male half) can give up an ejaculation in 2 min or 5 hours depending on my mood and attraction with the female. My wife has learned after an hour how to get me to give it up so the mind set doesn't always work with me if the female knows what she's doing.
This isn't quite the same but I've been with one guy who can go for forever and stays hard even after he cums, it's great! He always makes sure I've gotten off a few times before hell let me make him stop. ;) love it
I've been with a few men who can orgasm without ejaculating. It's great.