I am confused about some profiles that say that they are looking for single males but then have a block against them. Single males can't message them to let them know they are interested.
Also goes for Booty-Call List. They advertise that they are looking for males, females, and couples, but then have single males blocked so they can't respond to the hookup.
Yes I get that single males can get to be like spam, but why advertise for it then?
Also goes for Booty-Call List. They advertise that they are looking for males, females, and couples, but then have single males blocked so they can't respond to the hookup.
Yes I get that single males can get to be like spam, but why advertise for it then?
When you post a booty-call it auto selects single male some dont know to unclick it. as for why they say they are looking for single males then you cant email them I dont know but maybe they are sick of the single male spam. I get it and I say in my profile that we aren't looking for single men. I love it when the guy sends an email that says he likes what he saw in my profile and we seem interesting when if they are contacting me that means they didnt read my profile.
THERE IS NO DRAMA ON SWINGULAR!!! 
Could just be they want to be the ones who pick the single male and not have to sift through a thousand emails from every guy that likes their profile. Its why I usually let them make first contact.
I luv when the lady from a couple contacts me and wants my services for them both
then it's worth the wait...
some ladies can be very hot and erotic.. especially if you're open minded like me...
they love it
then it's worth the wait...
some ladies can be very hot and erotic.. especially if you're open minded like me...
they love it
It just means that the couple/female doesn't want 100 emails a day and 100 friend requests a day from guys who just want to see the pics. . .If they are interested and they meet you in chat room or at a meet and greet and they like you they will add you as a friend...it really isn't a big deal...
spend some time getting to know some of the couples and females on here...a lot of really GREAT (in a human sense,not just sexual) people on here. .. I have gotten to know a bunch of people and enjoy chatting and talking to them...
spend some time getting to know some of the couples and females on here...a lot of really GREAT (in a human sense,not just sexual) people on here. .. I have gotten to know a bunch of people and enjoy chatting and talking to them...
FANTASYSEEKER wrote:
It just means that the couple/female doesn't want 100 emails a day and 100 friend requests a day from guys who just want to see the pics. . .If they are interested and they meet you in chat room or at a meet and greet and they like you they will add you as a friend...it really isn't a big deal... spend some time getting to know some of the couples and females on here...a lot of really GREAT (in a human sense,not just sexual) people on here. .. I have gotten to know a bunch of people and enjoy chatting and talking to them...
Some of us think you are pretty awesome yourself.
T95T wrote:
I gave up. let's see how long i am here before even a convo starts. The only people on here are girls looking for girls. this website should say "women looking for women" because that's all this website is.
And we have another typical single male statement. As Tammy once said,
T95T wrote:
I gave up. let's see how long i am here before even a convo starts. The only people on here are girls looking for girls. this website should say "women looking for women" because that's all this website is.
I've been all Swingular for 3 yrs and I'm betting that maybe 10% of the people who approach me are female. Bitter single male statements aren't going to get you very far. As someone already quoted me... do you need directions to the closest door?
xox
Tammy
Im pretty sure there are a lot of really bored people out there, to be bringing this up. Again. Did we all run out of things to talk about on the forums? We all know single men are the bane of most people's existence. Hell, even i am starting to believe it. lol. Wait...
Yeah, but you don't - so you're not.
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
Yeah, but you don't - so you're not.
pssst. I live in utah.
For whatever reason, we seem to be getting more and more Friend Requests from single males than ever before.
And each and every one of them are from guys who are polar opposite of what we'd be looking for IF we were looking for a single male.
Our profile spells it all out - plain and simple.
We've come up with a way that may cut down on on the unwanted FRs from SMs - let's see if it works.
URON - GO BACK AND ACTUALLY READ OUR PROFILE - THEN DELETE YOUR FRIEND REQUEST. Bye Bye.
You're a single male - profile says we're not interested.
You're younger than we specify - profile says we're not interested.
You're 2000 miles away - profile says we're not interested.
And you never even showed the courtesy of so much as a "hello" e-mail.
URON - YOU NEED TO LEARN TO READ.
YOU are why single males get a bad rap here - and then you wonder why no one wants to play with you.
And each and every one of them are from guys who are polar opposite of what we'd be looking for IF we were looking for a single male.
Our profile spells it all out - plain and simple.
We've come up with a way that may cut down on on the unwanted FRs from SMs - let's see if it works.
URON - GO BACK AND ACTUALLY READ OUR PROFILE - THEN DELETE YOUR FRIEND REQUEST. Bye Bye.
You're a single male - profile says we're not interested.
You're younger than we specify - profile says we're not interested.
You're 2000 miles away - profile says we're not interested.
And you never even showed the courtesy of so much as a "hello" e-mail.
URON - YOU NEED TO LEARN TO READ.
YOU are why single males get a bad rap here - and then you wonder why no one wants to play with you.
THIS JUST IN:
IMPLA21 IS THE LATEST SINGLE MALE WHO OBVIOUSLY CAN'T READ PROFILES.
Too young.
Too far away (he's in AZ - we're in FL)
No e-mail prior to FR.
Single.
CAN'T READ.
IMPLA21 IS THE LATEST SINGLE MALE WHO OBVIOUSLY CAN'T READ PROFILES.
Too young.
Too far away (he's in AZ - we're in FL)
No e-mail prior to FR.
Single.
CAN'T READ.
T95T wrote:
I gave up. let's see how long i am here before even a convo starts.
The only people on here are girls looking for girls.
this website should say "women looking for women" because that's all this website is.
And another thins the herd.
Mav
Not to add Gas to the fire, but isn't the whole definition of swingers a "couple" that wants switch partners with another "Couple?"
I am a single Male and I even know that. Maybe swingers have evolved and maybe some have upgraded to a hybrid status and want to include a single Male or let the wife have fun on their own. I am under the impression that it doesnt happen to often.
I have read everyone's advice given to single guys and just trying to stay low, be cool and if someone likes me I am sure they will contact me.
But I am not using this site to just "hook up" for sex. Maybe thats your problem "boredinutah"
I seriously want to make friends, go bowling, kareoke, party night, and THEN if I get invited to "PLAY" that will just be the icing on the cake.
I am a single Male and I even know that. Maybe swingers have evolved and maybe some have upgraded to a hybrid status and want to include a single Male or let the wife have fun on their own. I am under the impression that it doesnt happen to often.
I have read everyone's advice given to single guys and just trying to stay low, be cool and if someone likes me I am sure they will contact me.
But I am not using this site to just "hook up" for sex. Maybe thats your problem "boredinutah"
I seriously want to make friends, go bowling, kareoke, party night, and THEN if I get invited to "PLAY" that will just be the icing on the cake.
ANDRAYWAY_SHANAYNAY wrote:
We have no problem with the single males we have become friends with. The truth is that like oneioda says, a lot of us are here for meeting friends as much as having sex. The biggest problem with single males is not with single males as a group, but the individual single males that expect the "swinger" means that a wife is gonna run off and fuck every man that pulls his dick out at her. It's a lot easier for us to "play" with someone we would be able to carry a meaningful conversation with.
What if you have a conversation with your dick out? Game on?
ANDRAYWAY_SHANAYNAY wrote:
We have no problem with the single males we have become friends with. The truth is that like oneioda says, a lot of us are here for meeting friends as much as having sex. The biggest problem with single males is not with single males as a group, but the individual single males that expect the "swinger" means that a wife is gonna run off and fuck every man that pulls his dick out at her. It's a lot easier for us to "play" with someone we would be able to carry a meaningful conversation with.
next time we hang out I am totally going to have my dick out.... I bet it would work!!!
ANDRAYWAY_SHANAYNAY wrote:
We have no problem with the single males we have become friends with. The truth is that like oneioda says, a lot of us are here for meeting friends as much as having sex. The biggest problem with single males is not with single males as a group, but the individual single males that expect the "swinger" means that a wife is gonna run off and fuck every man that pulls his dick out at her. It's a lot easier for us to "play" with someone we would be able to carry a meaningful conversation with.
Prior to meeting GEEKGIRL, I (CARRIERMAN) played as a single male for quite a few years.
I was respectful, and honored the boundries others set up.
I never initiated contact with anyone who had "no single males" in their profile - but a lot of them approached me.
Actually, I never approached anyone whose profile stipulated a criteria I didn't meet.
Therefore, I was one of the 'silent majority' single males rather than one of the jerks we all encounter.
We can all come up with a bizillion reasons why the assholes feel they have to prove their assholiness to the world, but the bottom line is, the Lifestyle has it's own way of regulating and policing itself.
In the meanwhile - we're going to have to deal with those pesky little gnats from time to time.