How do you balance the lifestyle with the rest of your life? Many of us have lives that we need to protect away from our extra curricular activities; while others can be "outed" with their swinging ventures within their lives.
I am now finding that as I venture into a new direction, I am having to learn to keep my personal ongoings a bit under-wraps as swinging activities can be deemed "illegal" and considering my purpose in life has been to protect others from illegal events it could be seen in some cases as a conflict of interest.
Soooooo....how does everyone else balance their lives, business and pleasure wise?
I am now finding that as I venture into a new direction, I am having to learn to keep my personal ongoings a bit under-wraps as swinging activities can be deemed "illegal" and considering my purpose in life has been to protect others from illegal events it could be seen in some cases as a conflict of interest.
Soooooo....how does everyone else balance their lives, business and pleasure wise?
For us, discretion is the key element.
We don't kiss and tell, and expect the same from those we "kiss".
We consider that a part of our "private" life - and that in and of itself keeps the balance intact.
We also are both in a position that we have to keep everything covert.
And LGSBCS, I share your "purpose in life".
What happens between consenting adults, and/or behind closed doors is the business of NO ONE but those involved.
I've seen some pretty blatant and descriptive posts here in the Forums as well as in the Chat Room between folks who have "kissed" one another and want to make damned sure the whole world knows every minute detail of it.
WE are the polar opposite of that.
I'd say our lips are sealed, but that would be an inaccurate statement. lol
We don't kiss and tell, and expect the same from those we "kiss".
We consider that a part of our "private" life - and that in and of itself keeps the balance intact.
We also are both in a position that we have to keep everything covert.
And LGSBCS, I share your "purpose in life".
What happens between consenting adults, and/or behind closed doors is the business of NO ONE but those involved.
I've seen some pretty blatant and descriptive posts here in the Forums as well as in the Chat Room between folks who have "kissed" one another and want to make damned sure the whole world knows every minute detail of it.
WE are the polar opposite of that.
I'd say our lips are sealed, but that would be an inaccurate statement. lol
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
This is interesting: http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/en/alice_dreger_is_anatomy_destiny.html
A very thought provoking speech and I applaud her for accepting her own bias. As with women
for us it's our family first and foremost... but we make sure to take advantage of any free time we get to play.
We do work and family first and balance our free weekends between our awesome vanilla friends and the lifestyle. It doesn't leave alot of time to get together with people from the lifestyle but we feel the priority is right, and unfortunately it puts us in the position of having to seriously delay getting together with alot of you awesome people.