Why is this such a common statement written in, what I would guess to be, 90% of the couples profiles on here?? Who is it that you are trying to convince of this, yourselves or others?
It's probably just like those who state their love for their spouse in a religious testament. It's fairly common, I really wouldn't worry about it. I think most people can tell fairly quickly if a couple is in love or not.
I think a lot of people are scared that people don't want to be the replacement for a spouse, nor are do they want people thinking they're looking for that replacement.
i'd like to bury my testipony. i know my mawwiage is twoo.
Because wov twoo wov is what bwings us togever today...
Just for the record...I can say my L's just fine, there are certain activities I've learned that have helped to accentuate them... 
Can you say clich
[quote=SUGARSANDSPICE]Can you say clich
Q31 Do you believe in Wove?
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from Wikipedia:Wuv(wove); Its being woven in so tight to something else that you can not seem to move.
or in the urban dictionary its;
1.A baby-talk pronunciation of love. When used by adults, "wuv" implies that the love-object is cute, childlike, and/or cuddly. Very rarely used about sexual attraction; puppy love is a near-synonym of this word.
2.Childlike displays of affection by someone who has fallen in "wuv".
Used in a sentence.
1.Awww...I wuv you sooo much, my widdle snuggle bear.
2.My girlfriend's driving me nuts; every time we go on a date, she goes wuv-crazy.
Hehehehe
or in the urban dictionary its;
1.A baby-talk pronunciation of love. When used by adults, "wuv" implies that the love-object is cute, childlike, and/or cuddly. Very rarely used about sexual attraction; puppy love is a near-synonym of this word.
2.Childlike displays of affection by someone who has fallen in "wuv".
Used in a sentence.
1.Awww...I wuv you sooo much, my widdle snuggle bear.
2.My girlfriend's driving me nuts; every time we go on a date, she goes wuv-crazy.
Hehehehe
coming from a single male, it sounds like it's a reaffirmation of their love for each other, and a warning for single people to "not to try to steal the spouse away". But yes, definitely cliche. As cliche as having the villain turn out to be your runaway child in a book, or having everybody in the end of a movie be HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY!
Would it eliminate all the concern if someone's profile said, "We hate each other's guts but we play together as a couple because it increases each of our chances of getting laid"?
SHEEEESH!!!!
Failing to see what the big deal is about it - and why it's even a Forum topic.
Oh, that's right - there's NO drama on Swingular.
SHEEEESH!!!!
Failing to see what the big deal is about it - and why it's even a Forum topic.
Oh, that's right - there's NO drama on Swingular.
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
Would it eliminate all the concern if someone's profile said, "We hate each other's guts but we play together as a couple because it increases each of our chances of getting laid"?
SHEEEESH!!!!
Failing to see what the big deal is about it - and why it's even a Forum topic.
Oh, that's right - there's NO drama on Swingular.
dammit. you beat me to it. i was JUST gonna say i joined swinguler and get laid cuz i hate your guts. er... wait.
Yeah, and what do the single males mean when they send me (the Mrs) an email asking "Watcha doing this evening, wanna fuck?" Of course I do, but perhaps just not with them. So are they REALLY asking if I want "to fuck" them, or are they trying to promote the idea that THEY, even though perhaps gay, would like to be perceived as hetero? 
Or perhaps I'm just WAY over-thinking a direct statement or question? 
My husband constantly tells me he loves me, as I do him. We hold hands, kiss, and walk arm and arm. Does there REALLY have to be some kind of sinister ulterior motive because we do these things so repetitively both in public and in private?
Or perhaps I'm just WAY over-thinking a direct statement or question? My husband constantly tells me he loves me, as I do him. We hold hands, kiss, and walk arm and arm. Does there REALLY have to be some kind of sinister ulterior motive because we do these things so repetitively both in public and in private?
We had the male half of a couple try to split us up and it back fired on him. To no surprise, he is now divorced and living with a single girl he met. We take that comment as a warning to not even try to split the couple up. We feel it is admirable that they are trying to protect their marriage from anyone with thoughts of coming between them.
FUN4MWF wrote:
Does there REALLY have to be some kind of sinister ulterior motive because we do these things so repetitively both in public and in private?
I only perform acts of PDA for sinister motives. Its how I roll.
For me, I want it to be crystal clear that I absolutely LOVE my Man. I have no desire to try and replace him with someone elses husband. We love each other, we don't love the people that we chose to "play" with. In our eyes they are just extentions of sex toys, as bad as that might sound. If we are lucky enough to find some actual friends along the way, thats great. But we aren't looking for more, so if YOU are, keep looking.
~Amber
~Amber
Unlike most sex toys, WE don't require batteries.
just sayin
just sayin
ANDRAYWAY_SHANAYNAY wrote:
People read profiles? I don't take account what they put in the paragraphs on their profile as long as their grammar and punctuation are correct. Honestly, I thought those sections of the profile were a test designed for the people on this site looking to fuck someone of a particular level of intelligence. Really, isn't it the pictures, their age, and their body type what we are really looking at? Honestly I see couples who say they "refuse to play alone" who end up playing alone. Weird how that works. And the answer is yes, the words we put in those blank spaces are for ourselves, not for those who read it.
no shit! I know that very few people read our profile. but we have never said anything about love in our profile because its irrelevant to why we're on this site. our feelings for each other are our own business and playtime is just for fun... we just want sex!
I'd be way more interested in finding that profile that says "Fuck it, we cant stand each other" I mean may as well just put it all out there people lol
We like it when profiles say things like that.
Over the years we've been doing this we've found some pretty good gauges (red flags) that help us to tell what some possible future problems might be.
9 times out of 10 the couples who feel they have to put this in there profiles have ended up being insecure about there relationship with each other.
Over the years we've been doing this we've found some pretty good gauges (red flags) that help us to tell what some possible future problems might be.
9 times out of 10 the couples who feel they have to put this in there profiles have ended up being insecure about there relationship with each other.
What's love got to do with it?
If you are in a relationship and wanna play with me, have a hall pass. Your emotional status with your SO is between you and her. If she makes your heart pound faster then good for you. All I care about it that you have respect for her and aren't cheating.
As to trying to take a married man..well...I figure if he's gonna cheat with me, he's gonna cheat on me. No thank you. You can keep him, his dirty socks, the in-laws, and tax filing status.
I'm happy being your battery-less sex toy.
xox
Tammy
If you are in a relationship and wanna play with me, have a hall pass. Your emotional status with your SO is between you and her. If she makes your heart pound faster then good for you. All I care about it that you have respect for her and aren't cheating.
As to trying to take a married man..well...I figure if he's gonna cheat with me, he's gonna cheat on me. No thank you. You can keep him, his dirty socks, the in-laws, and tax filing status.
I'm happy being your battery-less sex toy.
xox
Tammy
It's twofold. 1st, we want to make it clear that anyone who would be inclined to interfere in a marriage can know to look elsewhere, and 2nd to reassure other couples with the same concern that we have no interest in doing that to them. This is for whatever friendships and pleasure come our way but nobody is looking to fall in love with anyone else or replace anyone.
I think it is like this..We love each other...BUT, we need some Strange or Kink... LOL
The male chiming in
The male chiming in
for us, we know the difference between love and luv. i love my hubby and nothing can or will change that. but sometimes i luuvvv something else too. like i luv a friend's body or body part, lol or i luv the way he makes me feel, but that it no way changes the love i have for my man. i know hubby feels the same way as we are both open enough to share those insights with each other without any fear. sometimes we even LUV each other too, lol usually after we have had some luv from a friend or 2. its all in attitude and how you treat each other. have a great day all.
My further advice on your relations to women is based upon that other motto of chivalry, "Serve all, love one."
- Honor
- Honor
HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:FUN4MWF wrote:
Does there REALLY have to be some kind of sinister ulterior motive because we do these things so repetitively both in public and in private?
I only perform acts of PDA for sinister motives. Its how I roll.
Could you let us know the next time you're feeling REALLY, REALLY, sinister?
FUN4MWF wrote:HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:
[quote=FUN4MWF]Does there REALLY have to be some kind of sinister ulterior motive because we do these things so repetitively both in public and in private?
I only perform acts of PDA for sinister motives. Its how I roll.
Could you let us know the next time you're feeling REALLY, REALLY, sinister?
[/quoteNO NO NO. As her miniskirt crime fighting attorney I must insist on my client not be encouraged to participate in anything that might jeaopardize her future career as a kick ass killing machine. As her lacky, it's my job to act upon Kitty's baser side and put all sinister plans into high gear and start balls rolling. Er I mean the ball rolling.
I*love*my*job. xox
Tammy
There never is nor will there ever be a person who has a better answer to the most interesting of questions than BlueEyes! Way to go Tammy. But really, if you need to post that you love your other than maybe it is because you are reinforcing that thought to yourself. As I have now gotten to the stage we call "ancient", I could post that too. But we have now celebrated 36 years and if I did not love my other there would have to be a serious problem there. Ok, said my piece..
UTAH-CPLE-2006 wrote:=)
I'd be way more interested in finding that profile that says "Fuck it, we cant stand each other" I mean may as well just put it all out there people lol
Seriously, what are the chances of ANYONE living with, playing with, having a relationship with and/or establishing a profile together if there's not some degree of love/like/infatuation/friendship/etc.?
This topic reminds me of when there's a slow news day and the national TV network news has to resort to stories about Neighbor A's dog pissing on Neighbor B's rosebush.
Film at 11:00.
This topic reminds me of when there's a slow news day and the national TV network news has to resort to stories about Neighbor A's dog pissing on Neighbor B's rosebush.
Film at 11:00.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:FUN4MWF wrote:
[quote=HELLO_KITTY12984][quote=FUN4MWF]Does there REALLY have to be some kind of sinister ulterior motive because we do these things so repetitively both in public and in private?
I only perform acts of PDA for sinister motives. Its how I roll.
Could you let us know the next time you're feeling REALLY, REALLY, sinister?
[/quoteNO NO NO. As her miniskirt crime fighting attorney I must insist on my client not be encouraged to participate in anything that might jeaopardize her future career as a kick ass killing machine. As her lacky, it's my job to act upon Kitty's baser side and put all sinister plans into high gear and start balls rolling. Er I mean the ball rolling.
I*love*my*job. xox
Tammy[/quote]
hehehehe. i lubs you.
If youze all guyzes lubs eech udder - mabee youze should create a profile an tell da wurlde.
CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL wrote:
If youze all guyzes lubs eech udder - mabee youze should create a profile an tell da wurlde.
i must obey my lolcat overlord.
did not put love on our profile that should be a given when married, but we did put is,
if any of you have been married 30 years and every day was happy let us know how you did it. But we are best friends through good and bad times.
if any of you have been married 30 years and every day was happy let us know how you did it. But we are best friends through good and bad times.