is it just me, or is there a LOT of people joining the site, 'looking for my other half' ....im all for people finding their perfect match and everything but i feel they aren't here for the right reason.. to each his/her own i guess....
Lots of swingles are looking, I think, for a SO who is lifestyle friendly. Personally we know a number of couples who got together thru swinging venues or who used being lifestyle ammenable as a criteria for looking for someone to have a LTR with.
Well if they both want to b swingers....that is a perfect match haha... But it dies seem odd if ur just looking for love to b on swingular..
EVILDOERS wrote:
Lots of swingles are looking, I think, for a SO who is lifestyle friendly. Personally we know a number of couples who got together thru swinging venues or who used being lifestyle ammenable as a criteria for looking for someone to have a LTR with.
Couldn't say it any better than that. Lots of conservative minded folks here-abouts, and this seems like it'd be a good venue to meet someone a bit more "open" minded?!
Weve gotten single males and couples the last 4 yrs inquiring about just have sex with her. As the male half I take it like this, I get to be with her the most, and I am flattered that another male/couple thinks she good looking enough to want to have sex with.
I wasn't looking at all for a long term relationship when I joined Swingular. In fact I was having as much fun as anyone should be allowed. Then I met someone and we just clicked. We are now in a really great relationship and love having fun with ourselves and occasionally others as well.
Whatever you want to use this site for is totally up to the individual. Have fun....
Whatever you want to use this site for is totally up to the individual. Have fun....
SPYDER_MYKE wrote:
is it just me, or is there a LOT of people joining the site, 'looking for my other half' ....im all for people finding their perfect match and everything but i feel they aren't here for the right reason.. to each his/her own i guess....
Everyone has a basic idea of what they want in a SO. If you are vanilla and want to stay vanilla you go to eharmony or some such site. If you are gay you go to a gay site. If you feel that you are a swinger at heart then it would only make sense to go here or to some other swinger site.
That is basically how I got here and I have never made any other pretense. I was not and am not interested in a vanilla relationship and I don
I have to laugh at all the new single females profiles who wont' accept couples or women, just single men only. Um....maybe I'm strange but if you want a guy who who can fuck and who could be potential relationship material, isn't that what POF, CL, or AFF is for? Im not kidding, this one newbie profile talks about what a great catch she would be romantically. Not friend. Not in bed. But for a relationship. I get so confused by these clueless people. But to each their own. Their money is no worst then those on here on here to perv with married people.
xox
Tammy
p.s. Guilty of a few relationships that started here on Swing too...however, see my profile...still single and good with that.
xox
Tammy
p.s. Guilty of a few relationships that started here on Swing too...however, see my profile...still single and good with that.
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I have to laugh at all the new single females profiles who wont' accept couples or women, just single men only. Um....maybe I'm strange but if you want a guy who who can fuck and who could be potential relationship material, isn't that what POF, CL, or AFF is for? Im not kidding, this one newbie profile talks about what a great catch she would be romantically. Not friend. Not in bed. But for a relationship. I get so confused by these clueless people. But to each their own. Their money is no worst then those on here on here to perv with married people.
xox
Tammy
p.s. Guilty of a few relationships that started here on Swing too...however, see my profile...still single and good with that.
They are SPAM or professionals. Look closer. I posted this earlier about the spam increasing.
Mav
i think its cool if it just happens, really good for them. 
) more power to you, i just think its a bit odd to only be on here primarily for that purpose..
) more power to you, i just think its a bit odd to only be on here primarily for that purpose..When was it ever implied that you can't date here?
With the mention of SPAMMERS...anyone else getting ALOT of out of state friend requests?? Its outta control.
Anyways! I say to each their own. I personally don't think being on this site with the SOUL purpose of finding a SO is a great idea, but not my problem.
Anyways! I say to each their own. I personally don't think being on this site with the SOUL purpose of finding a SO is a great idea, but not my problem.